When I was in college, I heard that she didn't get along well with the people in the dormitory, so she was usually a loner.
Later, after graduation, my aunt asked me to help her find a job. It happens that my previous work unit is looking for an office clerk. I think it's good for her to exercise first.
The entry went well. I advised her to be modest. Stepping into society is different from being in college. You'd better put those little tempers away. Not everyone in the world is your mother.
Cousin's attitude is not bad, saying that she will study hard. I also said hello to the manager to make people more tolerant.
Seeing that the three-month internship period had passed, my cousin called me one afternoon and said that she had quarreled with the manager and came back with a cup.
Boy, you know how to take your own cup!
I quickly called the manager to ask what was going on. The manager said that this little girl, to put it bluntly, is too much. She has no experience, no ability and a big temper. I said something to her, but she always ignored me angrily. This time, she quarreled with me directly and said that she had endured it for a long time. I think treating her is no different from treating ordinary newcomers. There's nothing I can do about her. Let her have time to come over and go through the resignation formalities.
After this incident, I dare not find a job for her again. Later, I heard that my uncle found her a cashier's job, and it didn't take long for her to resign because she was unhappy with her colleagues.
My cousin hasn't found a job since she graduated so long.
A person who can't even control his temper is actually quite sad. If he is not careful, the gate will catch fire and the fish in the pond will be affected. In the end, everyone will stay away from him and may not be able to control his life as he pleases.
Just like the colleague I met during my internship, the position is not high. Obviously, he and I joined the company at the same time, but he likes telling me what to do, especially finding fault. When he did something wrong, he flew into a rage and said some ugly things, and other colleagues were also hurt, saying that he was more harsh than the leader.
If he was scolded by the leader, he didn't have an attack on the surface, and secretly took out what he had, whether it was his or not, my pen holder and mobile phone bracket were broken by him.
Later, because many colleagues reported that he lost his temper and could not cooperate, he was dismissed by the company. When he left, he said that such a job was not worth mentioning.
When I saw him again, I went to pick up the courier and saw him counting the courier number. Seeing him, I smiled awkwardly, and there was no more.
Some people say that your talent should support your ambition, but he just achieved a temper that is greater than your ability. I hope he can know how to converge and learn how to accumulate wealth, otherwise he can only fall down again and again on the road of life.
Sister Liu is probably the best-tempered person I know. I recently went to an insurance company to buy health insurance for my parents. Sister Liu entertained me.
After talking with Liu Jie, I was in a hurry to get back to the company. I accidentally twisted my foot when I went downstairs, and there was no one around. I had to limp to the side of the road to take a taxi. It was just the afternoon rush hour, so it was difficult to take a taxi. I was about to call the manager for leave when I saw Sister Liu driving over. She said she just went to my company to do something and took me there.
It is true that driving depends on character.
I remember the road was not too congested, but there was a car in the back that was probably driven by a novice. It almost passed Liu Jie's car, and then it changed lanes continuously. I saw from the window that it was a young man wearing sunglasses, and there was a noisy song in the car stereo.
At that time, no matter how good I was, I couldn't help but want to get angry.
Just when I thought Sister Liu was going to scold the man, I didn't expect to hear her say, "This young man, driving is too dangerous. It is irresponsible to make fun of his life. "
I didn't swear. I didn't lose my temper. It was just a sentence that seemed to accuse me of actually caring, which made me suddenly trust this person.
Probably a good-natured person is more convincing and trustworthy, and wants to know her story.
Later, I got acquainted with Liu Jie. I jokingly told her that you have a good temper and are born to be an insurance material. You are patient and easy to make people feel safe.
Sister Liu smiled brightly and said that most people who have worked in the service industry for a long time have good temper, but how many people are born with good temper? It's all slowly honed. You young people often say that growing up is the process of turning crying into a silent mode. In fact, so is a good temper.
When I was young, I was also a careless temper. I have had several jobs and suffered from bad temper.
Later, I gradually learned to forbear, to be modest, and to control my emotions. I've learned that people with ability and temper tend to fail, people with ability and temper tend to accomplish nothing, and people with ability and temper will be proud of the spring breeze.
There are so many setbacks and disasters on the road of life. Only by controlling your temper can you have the courage to face the difficulties of life.
If a person can't control his emotions, even if he gives you the world, you will ruin everything.
If you can't be the master of your thoughts, you will be the slave of your emotions.
There is no denying that everyone will encounter troubles and everyone will have a particularly bad mood. Sometimes we become full of negative energy, in a bad mood and anxious because of the pressure in our lives. These negative emotions can easily affect people around you, and then lead others to regard you as the center of low pressure.
When your temper is greater than your ability, no one will help you, your road will be more difficult, and you will fall into a new round of negative emotions, thus forming a vicious circle.
You know, if you are right, there is no need to lose your temper; If you are wrong, you have no right to lose your temper.