Parents guide their children to organize their own toys, which is conducive to cultivating their sense of responsibility and good habits of doing things seriously and responsibly. Parents should pay attention to: actively guide their children, wait patiently, and affirm their toys in time.
In life, children can also do some housework within their power and become parents' little housework assistants. Children are still young, small rags will become gadgets in children's hands, and clean tables will become a part that children should show off. Parents should pay attention to: the height of the table should be appropriate, the rag should be hygienic, and check whether there are dangerous things on the table in advance, such as broken glass and sharp objects.
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In life, children need to pay attention to their real goals when they become little assistants. The purpose of letting children do housework is not to do tedious work well, nor to teach children how to do it. The importance of a clean kitchen is not comparable to children's sense of responsibility, self-reliance, self-esteem, self-confidence and ability to handle affairs, because these are the basis of healthy emotions.
Doing housework can also help children understand that people must cooperate and work towards the same goal. Start early. Almost as soon as children learn to walk, they will have a strong desire to "help their mothers". A 2-year-old child can carry and deliver things for adults, and even arrange washed clothes, thus teaching children to distinguish colors and shapes. You can turn cleaning into a game.
A 4-year-old or 5-year-old child can understand simple commands and do small things for adults. He can also (sometimes) pick up toys, find clothes or take his own plate. A 7-year-old child can already take on some family responsibilities. The first task assigned to them is to let them complete it successfully, and don't rush to ask children to do things beyond their power.
For children, the new task should be challenging, but it must also bring him a sense of accomplishment. If the new task frustrates him, he may not try again in the future.
In life, children need to pay attention to setting realistic standards when they become little assistants. Although adults do most things better than children, you should refrain from doing or "doing it again" because it will only damage children's self-esteem and self-confidence. The best way to teach a child to do one thing is to let him do it again and again.
Show him how to do it first, then do it with him, and finally let him do it himself. Always give guidance, but don't get involved in helping too early. If the child wants to do it his own way, don't interfere with him. But this is not to say that carelessness can be tolerated. If the child doesn't try his best to do the work well, he should be asked to do it again and make a reasonable completion schedule, but don't nag.
For example, it's time for dinner, but the dishes haven't been set yet, so we should solemnly tell the children that others are waiting for dinner.
In life, children need to be careful not to use inducements when they become little assistants. The best reward for a child to finish a job is to give him a smile, hug him or say "thank you". Telling others how proud you are within hearing of your children is also a good way to reward them. In fact, children themselves will realize that planning and completing a job is a reward in itself.
Support the "going out" work. Children participating in various activities to help people, such as cleaning for others or delivering newspapers, can help them learn to work according to different standards of different people, train them to stand on their own feet and cultivate their sense of responsibility.
In life, children need to be careful not to be overworked when they become little assistants. Children doing too much work will hinder their study, physical development and other social activities. It is important to learn to work, but it is more important to cultivate good working habits and a world outlook of respecting labor and self-reliance from an early age. Therefore, let children do things moderately.
People's Network-Let children do housework, just like birds have to learn to spread their wings.