Can suicide become a normal life choice? Why is suicide considered an unhealthy behavior?

The harm of unhealthy psychology 1, making mistakes. Because of unhealthy psychology, a person will make many mistakes, and some even make some low-level mistakes. For example, because you are not good at controlling your emotions, you have serious psychological problems, fighting with colleagues, quarreling between husband and wife, and even hitting people. This is wrong and a serious violation of the criminal law. 2. Failure in life. Many people have nothing to do all their lives, not only their careers are not good, but also their marriages are not good. The crux of the problem is that they are psychologically unhealthy. Because of mental illness, they had to quit their jobs and seek medical treatment everywhere. Some of them have been troubled by psychological problems for a long time, and they have no intention to work, study and live, and are tortured by psychological problems. For example, some phobia patients, obsessive-compulsive disorder patients, hypochondriacs, transsexuals, etc. Many of these people have lost their jobs because of mental illness. They are very distressed, pessimistic and even desperate. 3. Bad interpersonal relationship. People with unhealthy psychology generally have poor interpersonal relationships. Not only the boss hates it, but also his colleagues hate it. When he went home, so did his lover. Especially some people with morbid personality, not only have bad interpersonal relationships, but also have achieved nothing in their careers, and some even embarked on the road of crime. 4. Crime. The most serious consequence of mental health is crime. For example, serial killers, who often appear in newspapers, are distorted, hostile to society, anti-social personality and seriously morbid. They were not convinced when they killed one until they were caught by the public security organs. 5. Suicide. Suicide is often described as a disease of civilization. Most suicides are mentally unhealthy people. September 10, 2003 was designated as "the first world suicide prevention day" by the World Health Organization. It is named warning day to prevent self-harm, which shows that suicide has become an urgent problem in the field of public health all over the world. According to the survey of Beijing Psychological Crisis and Intervention Center, about 287,000 people commit suicide every year in China, and about 2 million people attempt suicide. Among the causes of national death, suicide has ranked fifth. The characteristics of suicide in China are quite different from those in other countries. The suicide rate in rural areas is three times that in cities, and the suicide rate in women is higher than that in men. Suicide is the dissonance of a harmonious society. The society should establish a complete suicide intervention mechanism to prevent suicide and prevent incidents. Follow-up: What is the standard of mental health? Answer: The so-called mental health is actually a continuous mental state. In this state, the parties can have good adaptability and vitality, and can play their own abilities and potentials. There are seven specific criteria for mental health. Know yourself and accept yourself; Accept others and be kind to others; Face up to reality and accept it; Love life and be willing to work; Can properly express emotions; A sound personality; Psychological behavior conforms to the characteristics of age and gender, knowing oneself and accepting oneself. There is one person who will live with us forever, and this person is ourselves-ourselves. Kong Old Master Q once said: "Know yourself and know yourself, and you will be invincible." Only by knowing yourself and accepting yourself can we be happy and healthy. Know your own strengths, you will know your own development direction; Knowing our own shortcomings, we will make fewer mistakes and avoid doing things beyond our power. Accept others and be kind to others. People live in a society composed of others, just like fish live in water. Without others and their help, people can't survive. According to the statistics of psychologists, about 80% of the troubles in life are related to their interpersonal environment. Finding fault with others, easily getting angry with others, infringing on others' interests, and not paying attention to the discretion of interpersonal communication will bring endless troubles to yourself. Face up to the reality and accept that we may not have been born in a rich family; Our work may not be satisfactory; Our lover may not be smart and considerate; Our children are not all clever and obedient; We may also experience setbacks and difficulties ... However, only by facing up to all this and accepting all this can we change. Only by recognizing the reality, accepting the reality and being down-to-earth can we gain more. Take responsibility and be willing to work. Everyone has his own responsibilities and work except babies. Children should respect their parents and do what they can. Adults should bear the burden of family and society, get the means to make a living at work, get recognition and fun. Therefore, the impact of unemployment on adults is not only economic, but also psychological, which will make people lose their sense of value and bring psychological crisis. People who can bravely take responsibility and get pleasure from their work are truly mature and healthy people. The famous Italian painter Da? Finch said, "a day's work will make you sleep well;" If you work hard all your life, you can have a good sleep. "Avoiding responsibility and work can only make people feel annoyed and regret. Being able to express emotions properly plays an important role in mental health. People with mental health can always maintain a happy, cheerful, confident and satisfied mood, be good at finding fun from life and be full of hope for life. On the contrary, normal depression, anger, anxiety and jealousy are all signs of mental health. When a person is mentally healthy, his emotions are well expressed and his manners are generous, neither formal nor presumptuous. A sound personality is the sum of all stable psychological characteristics of people. The ultimate goal of mental health is to maintain the integrity of personality and cultivate a sound personality. There is an Indian proverb that attitude determines behavior, behavior determines habit, habit determines character, and character determines fate. Our character and destiny are always shaped by our own actions. Psychological behavior conforms to age and gender characteristics. People's psychological behavior corresponds to hairdressing exhibitions in different stages, and different age stages often have different psychological behavior characteristics. If a person's psychological behavior often deviates seriously from his age and gender characteristics, it shows that his psychological development has problems.