10 years old still drinking breast milk, did mom forget to wean? I remember once taking my children to get vaccinated. A 4-5-year-old boy got into his mother's arms directly, unbuttoned his mother's clothes and drank milk, which was very skillful. At that time, many people had different expressions, and everyone's questions might be the same: Why do you still drink breast milk when you are so old?
A friend of mine, after weaning, didn't want to pinch rice at night because the child cried. Now the child is four and a half years old and still drinks his mother's breast milk at night. Mom seems to be still very happy and thinks that children can't live without themselves. So sometimes when weaning, the mother's practice will also affect the child.
When a mother weaned her child, the child cried and later became ill. The mother gave up drinking for two days and gave it to her children. So the breast milk can't stop. Once it is not given, the child will cry and make trouble. Until the child is 9 years old, he is still drinking breast milk and is still a boy, which makes the child's father particularly dissatisfied.
/kloc-the influence of drinking breast milk at the age of 0/0 on children
1. Affect the development of children's sexual consciousness. Generally, after the age of 3, children will have gender awareness. If they drink breast milk for a long time, it will not help to cultivate their sense of "sex". If a boy still drinks breast milk at this age, he will give up his gender differences psychologically, which will lead to the delayed sexual and psychological development of the child, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of the child.
2. Affect children's independence. If the child still drinks breast milk when he is 10 years old, it will inevitably make the child still tolerate his mother and cannot psychologically admit that he is an independent person.
This is harmful to health. There is a high probability of sucking dental caries after 2 years old, and long-term sucking may affect the child's mouth shape.
When the baby is young, by sucking breast milk, he feels warm and close to his mother, making him feel safe and happy. But it is suggested that children should be allowed to do the right things at the right age.
At the fifty-fifth World Health Assembly, it was clearly pointed out: "Breastfeeding is the best food for newborns from birth to 2 years old, which helps to enhance children's resistance and reduce the occurrence of diseases." The World Health Organization and UNICEF advocate exclusive breastfeeding until the baby is 6 months old. After 6 months, complementary food should be added, and breastfeeding should be supplemented until the baby is 2 years old.
Weaning is called the second separation of mother and baby. Separation means that children have the ability to grow up. 10-year-old children have been breastfeeding, which is to stop this growth. I hope that mother can attract attention.
Speaking of breastfeeding at the age of ten, I have heard similar words before.
At that time, a family had many brothers and sisters and limited income. It's good to be able to barely eat something, so many boys are still breast-feeding until they are seven or eight years old, sometimes with their brothers and sisters. At that time, nutrition was scarce, and breast milk was a rare nutrient, so it was not surprising.
It is said that Empress Dowager Cixi began to drink a big bowl of human milk every day when she was young, so in order to keep her face and stay young forever, Empress Dowager Cixi had many young and beautiful "wet nurses".
On the other hand, it is no longer an era of material shortage, and children's growth and development do not need breast milk for such a long time. Moreover, the composition of breast milk will gradually change with the growth of children. By the time they are fed to the age of ten, there are few nutrients left in breast milk. For the sake of children's health, it is best to give them more milk and yogurt and a balanced diet.
And drinking breast milk at the age of ten, I believe it is not how delicious breast milk is, but psychological dependence. I have seen children crying because of weaning. Grandma couldn't stand it and gave her breasts to her grandson. Long-term continuous breastfeeding will make children lack independence and Oedipus is serious. Long-term breastfeeding will also affect the development of children's teeth, so weaning is really soft.
Breastfeeding at the age of ten may be the habit of previous generations. My grandmother said something similar. In the past, there was a lack of material, adults didn't have enough to eat, and there was no complementary food for children. Some mothers are really heartbroken to see their children hungry and will always breastfeed their children. But for people now, it may spread as an explosive topic.
Feeding and weaning children, mother is the biggest protagonist, and others are excuses. I believe that people who have been mothers have had this idea in their hearts. Stop breastfeeding automatically as long as you feed your child. As long as the child wants to eat, try to satisfy her. If she grows up, she won't want to eat.
So why do many mothers wean their children, and some wean their children because of their own life and work? Partly because friends and family around me will ask when to wean their children and urge their mothers to wean their children at the right time. Even if they have the slightest idea, their mother will be embarrassed to breastfeed any more.
As for breastfeeding at the age of ten, I believe there are still some reasons. Even if mom doesn't care about the outside world's views, the family will disagree. But even if there are some reasons, don't breastfeed until you are ten years old. It is unfavorable to children's physical and mental health, personality development and personality development.
Weaning is a test for both mother and child, but it is a rebirth for both mother and child. People always have to grow up. We should let go at the right time and do the right thing at the right time. Don't delay the growth of children on the right path because of so-called maternal love.
My Dabao/Kloc-was weaned at 0/3 months, and Bauer was weaned at 7 months due to my physical factors. Psychologists believe that "weaning is the second separation of mother and baby", and 10 is still breastfeeding. Is it too late to part now?
I believe everyone's first reaction is Oedipus complex, which I think is a very bad thing for both children and mothers.
10 years old is still breastfeeding, and my mother is fine. Is she ready to breastfeed? With or without breast milk, how do you feel when you hold a 10-year-old child and let him have breast milk? 1~ Babies under 2 years old need breast milk for their physical development. 10 years old, eat like an adult, and the extra supplement can be milk or adolescent milk powder.
10 children are already in the third grade of primary school, right? There should be few such students around. Everyone is healthy and lives a normal life. Every day when they come home from school, they have to eat milk, and they have to eat milk at noon. In fact, you shouldn't go to school. You should breastfeed at home at any time and go to school after weaning!
In fact, I have seen this news before, and it was quite touching at that time. I am also the mother of two children, and I take care of the baby alone. I am holding two weaned children, and they are really crying. But in the end, they were successfully weaned.
10 years old has not been weaned, which also reflects family problems. Old people or husbands at home should be very fond of and indulgent of children. Husband should also be a mother-in-law, so it is passed down from generation to generation and directly becomes the "giant baby" of the child's generation.
In short, a ten-year-old child is still breastfeeding, which will have an impact and will accompany him for life. I hope everyone in the family will pay attention to it and don't let it develop. If the tree is not straightened, no one can make a talent without teaching. It is time to make a decision!
When I was a child, many children 10 years old were still breastfeeding, and mothers even went to school to breastfeed their children. Especially for boys, this situation is very common, because the idea of preference for boys is more serious, boys are particularly spoiled, and girls are less common.
Look at a 5-year-old child still nursing. The reason is that he has a younger brother who is breastfeeding. He also came to eat together, and everyone ate one, in pursuit of fairness. Someone asked him, "Are you still breastfeeding at your age?" He replied: "Dad is still eating!" Embarrass mom.
An Australian mother claimed that she was proud to feed her daughter to the age of 10. She felt that breastfeeding was the embodiment of her value and said, "If my daughter needs me, I can go to school to breastfeed, even on the playground."
Puyi was also breast-fed until 10 years old. In her memoirs, she said, "Human milk is human. Only by breastfeeding can we feel the warmth of human nature."
When a child is young, breastfeeding can bring nutrition and security to the child and make the child feel satisfied and happy. However, if you have been breast-feeding, the child is a child who has been breast-feeding, and there will be some psychological and physical problems. We use it to describe a person who is too dependent and will say, "What an unweaned child!" " "That's the truth.
1, psychological influence
Independence becomes worse: because breastfeeding will make children feel safe, children who have been breastfeeding will be particularly dependent on their mothers, and their independence will be affected in the future. Some children are accompanied by their parents when they find jobs after graduation, which is a sign of weak independence.
Poor social skills: Puyi did not feel human nature after weaning, and she was full of fear of socializing. Therefore, many weaned children are afraid to associate with outsiders except their mothers and familiar family members, and it is easy to form a withdrawn character.
Oedipus complex is serious: children will like their mothers too much, especially boys, unwilling to leave their mothers, and even regard their mothers as their love objects.
2. Physiological effects
Poor health: If you still eat milk at night and don't brush your teeth, the sugar in milk will stay between your teeth and become a hotbed of bacteria. Sugar is decomposed by bacteria to produce acid, which corrodes teeth, demineralizes and dissolves teeth, and forms dental caries.
The nutritional density in milk is only suitable for children under 2 years old. For older children, the demand for nutrient density and nutrient elements is higher than that of children. If you always eat breast milk, it will hinder normal eating and affect the normal development of your body.
Vague gender awareness: at the age of two or three, children will have gender awareness. If they are not weaned in time and let them breastfeed, their gender consciousness will be blurred.
1, think that breast milk is rich in nutrition and can enhance children's immunity.
2. When weaning the child, the child always resists and cries, which makes the mother soft-hearted.
The child is ill and needs comfort. The mother felt sorry for her child and began to breastfeed again.
4, because of the second child, in order to let the older children get a psychological balance, continue to feed.
In short, when children are very old, they often feel that their mothers are too tolerant, but this may bring some adverse effects to their children, so it is better to wean them in time.
WHO, American Academy of Pediatrics, and China Women's and Children's Protection Organization all recommend breastfeeding children until they are 2 years old, and not too old at the latest.
Recently, I saw a news that 10-year-old boy has not been weaned and is still drinking breast milk. It sounds wonderful, but it is true. The child's mother thinks that the child should always drink breast milk, which means that the child can't do without his own performance, and he is also very happy. The child is too dependent on himself.
It's been a long time, and the child 10 is old, and the mother is still breastfeeding the child, which has been interrupted several times. But children will cry if they don't drink milk, and sometimes they will get sick if they cry for too long. The mother can't bear to see the child like this, and she gives the child milk again and again, and she can't stop. The father of the child is so angry when he sees the child, and he still has to drink milk when he is so old. He simply regarded his mother as a "private cow". More importantly, dad thinks that the child is not weaned at such a big age, which will have some bad effects on the child.
First of all, talk about the nutritional period of breast milk. Generally, before the child is 2 years old, the nutritional content of breast milk is much higher than other foods, and breast milk is easier to digest than children under 2 years old, and it can also meet the daily nutrition of the baby. However, after the child is 6 months old, it is necessary to add complementary food to the child in time. Although breast milk is rich in nutrition, the nutrition of breast milk is not enough to support children's daily needs and is not good for children's health.
Secondly, breastfeeding for too long, especially drinking breast milk while sleeping, can easily lead to dental caries and affect children's dental health. It will also cause children to rely too much on their mothers, which will have a great impact on children's physiology and psychology, and even go against children's thinking development. In addition, long-term breastfeeding will make children lack independence, have no opinion on what to do, and don't know what to do and what not to do at every age. Therefore, parents should cultivate their children's independent ability, and let go when it is time to let go, so that children can become more independent.
Finally, weaning is indeed a difficult problem, but we must make adequate preparations, and the period will be broken once. The more soft-hearted, the more difficult it is to quit.
The World Health Organization recommends breastfeeding until the age of 2, but most people will wean their babies earlier unless there is a reason to do so, that is, they are worried about their health. Because usually after the baby 1 year old, the gastrointestinal function has been gradually strengthened, and adding complementary food has a certain adaptation period. At this time, even if the baby is weaned, the baby's stomach can adapt, and the baby will not starve. But if conditions permit, you can still breastfeed your baby until he is 2 years old. After all, the nutrition of breast milk is undeniable.
It is best to choose spring and autumn as weaning season. The temperature in these two seasons is adaptive, neither too cold nor too hot, and the baby will not sweat a lot, because it will inevitably be a little noisy when the baby is weaned. This season is a very good choice for babies. In addition to the right temperature, there are many fresh fruits and vegetables in this season, which can help the baby supplement daily nutrition and help the baby wean better.
Although breast milk is the most nutritious "ration", it is only before the age of two! 10-year-old baby is still eating, which is not a simple feeding relationship, and may have a serious impact on the child's psychology in the future, and mother is no exception.
The parenting rule of "natural weaning" is popular abroad, that is, breastfeeding until the child is unwilling to eat. But basically they are naturally weaned at the age of two or three. It is rare for people who are still breastfeeding at the age of ten. I think this has something to do with Ma Bao's usual indulgence of children.
In our present living habits, most parents still share a bed with their children, especially breast-feeding, because breast-feeding is very convenient. But in this way, children will be more accustomed to the attachment to breast milk and form the habit of eating breast milk before going to bed, which is difficult for children to quit.
Many mothers choose to wean after 7 months, because the baby can start eating complementary food at this time. Not only is it hard for working mothers to carry milk, but it also affects milk production. Although I will experience many hardships during the period, I will also feel bad about my baby's crying. But weaning is a process that children must go through when they grow up.
If conditions permit, you can feed it until the baby doesn't eat it himself. But it is best not to be over 3 years old. A little older, children have their own personality and persistence, and it will be more difficult for children to accept compulsory weaning. Besides, the five-year-old child has a clear sense of gender and is still breastfeeding. Is there something wrong?
As for the ten-year-old child who is still nursing, Aiko's eagerness is not like this. For the healthy growth of children, it is better to spoil them less and break them again.
/kloc-breastfeeding at the age of 0/0 is not a real nutritional need, but a unilateral and pathological need of the mother or child.
First of all, it reminds me of the last emperor Puyi.
Puyi was often laughed at and suckled until she was 10 years old. In his later years, he explained in his memoirs that "human milk belongs to human beings, and only when breastfeeding can we feel the warmth of human nature."
Some people interpret Pu Yi's "eating at the age of ten" not as a quirk, but as "his spiritual sustenance and longing for a warm life".
Let me feel that, just like summing up the central idea of the text, no matter what the content of the text is, it must be forcibly sublimated to the artistic conception of "there are two trees outside the wall, one is a jujube tree and the other is a jujube tree".
When I was breastfeeding, I saw a news that a 52-year-old mother in Australia still insisted on breastfeeding her 6-year-old daughter, saying, "As long as her daughter needs it, she is willing to go to the school playground to breastfeed her."
I am also a mother. I believe in and insist on breast-feeding, but if I see a 3-year-old+child still breast-feeding, I still feel inappropriate.
WHO suggests that breast milk cannot meet the energy and nutrition needs of infants around 2 years old, and complementary food must be added after 6 months.
The American Academy of Pediatrics recommends that infants and young children be exclusively breastfed before 6 months, and then continue breastfeeding when complementary food is added, preferably until they are 2 years old. The Nutrition Society of China recommends feeding until the age of 2.
Many countries advocate encouraging breastfeeding, but I haven't heard of any country that encourages mothers to breastfeed their children until they are 3 years old.
Of course, mothers have the right to decide how old to breastfeed their children. Even if she thinks of herself as a walking cow, it is her freedom, but it is not necessarily unfair to her children.
I am a distant male elder and breast-fed until I was 8 years old.
He was born in a poor family since childhood, and the only boy in the family was spoiled by the family. Now in his sixties, he is still grumpy and quick-witted. If he is not happy at all, he scolds and splits. He is like an enemy with his father and a lover with his mother.
Oedipus is human nature, but if it goes too far, especially between mother and child, it is easy to cause the son's mental abnormality and suffer from serious Oedipus syndrome, which seriously affects the child's mental health and daily life.
This is often caused by the mother's excessive love for her children. Being a "boy who will never grow up emotionally" is more terrible than "Ma Baonan", which is the most frightening and difficult for women to get along with.
Around the age of two, children begin to have gender awareness and can distinguish between sexes. Parents have the responsibility to establish and strengthen their children's awareness of physical privacy and initiate sex education.
From the perspective of mental health, I think both men and women should complete breast-feeding withdrawal at the age of 3; 6- 13 years old, it must be completed: the independence of children should be cultivated in time during emotional weaning.
First of all, mothers should change their psychological state, not be bound by their children's crying, and not "hurt" their children in the name of "love".
When I saw this topic, I was really surprised. This is not to love children, but to harm them.
I once read a book about the last emperor Puyi eating wet nurse's milk until he was 10 years old. He once said, "human milk is human. Only by eating milk can we feel the warmth of human nature."
Why? Some people interpret that Puyi can only get spiritual comfort through breastfeeding, which is a spiritual sustenance and a yearning for a warm life.
At the fifty-fifth World Health Assembly, it was clearly pointed out: "Breastfeeding is the best food for newborns from birth to 2 years old, which helps to enhance children's resistance and reduce the occurrence of diseases." You can consider weaning when you are over 2 years old, and weaning before going to kindergarten.
/kloc-the influence of late weaning and drinking breast milk on children aged 0/0
2. Affect children's independence and self-confidence.
It will make children still tolerant of their mothers, psychologically unwilling to admit that they are independent people, and may easily shrink back and have no self-confidence, and may encounter problems in their self-growing social life in the future.
2. Not conducive to children's health
Children have a sense of gender since they were three years old. If you drink breast milk for a long time, the cultivation of children's sense of "sex" will not be well established, which will lead to the delay of children's sexual psychological development, which is not conducive to the healthy growth of children and will easily become a baby boy when they grow up.
After the child is born, at a certain time, the mother should also learn to "wean" and give the child room to grow up. Don't think of yourself as a walking cow, it's not good for each other.