How to educate children to have the ability to distinguish between healthy love and sound personality?

In traditional education, many children and parents have built a strong foundation in their children's minds in order to help them grow up better. Always draw some beautiful pictures for them, and prevent them from touching or understanding some ugly things in society, which is very unfavorable for their growth. It is also not conducive to the growth of children's sound personality. Only by letting go properly can children grow up healthily.

It is said that parents are the best role models for children. If a family has a good family atmosphere, then it is relatively easier for children to understand what healthy love is. What should I do if I am unlucky in my family? So children don't have the love of a sound personality? The answer is no, of course. If you don't believe me when you come from a family, you can instill this idea in your children from an early age through the influence of others. What is sound love? A sound love must be happy. In a relationship, you won't be asked to do things you don't like, and you don't have to change yourself because of his feelings, because you are you and you are an independent person with an independent personality. It is because you are independent that you are complete.

Let children have a sound personality. Before a healthy love, we must first understand what love is. Only when we have love can we have complete love and sound love. Many people may regard gratitude or infatuation with a person as love, but this is not love. Infatuation is sometimes more of a feeling that you can't get. This is infatuation with idols, and sometimes it can be said that it is infatuation with our respected elders, because

And the best love, the most sound love, is not to kidnap others morally.