The advantages and disadvantages of unmarried cohabitation may be that many people will have more or less problems when they get along with their other half, and there are also many curious places. So if you live together first, what are the advantages and disadvantages of unmarried cohabitation? Let's take a look.
Advantages and disadvantages of unmarried cohabitation 1 1, cohabiting couples are less loyal than married couples, because cohabiting couples have other choices, so cohabiting couples often face more contradictions and infidelity than married couples. On average, married couples are more honest in sex than cohabiting couples, and cohabiting couples are five times more likely to break up. Therefore, cohabitation is full of variables and the prospects are unpredictable. The longer people live together, the lower their enthusiasm for marriage, and the easier it is to accept divorce.
2. Couples who live together are more likely to quarrel and break up over trifles. Small things are not only trivial but also repetitive. The floor needs to be wiped, the dishes need to be washed, and the big meal looks glamorous, but after cooking dozens or hundreds of meals, can you still have the initial mood? These ordinary little things are still like this, not to mention those sudden little things. What's more, it caught you off guard and made you furious. Many couples can't go on, not because they don't love, but because of these little things.
3. With the passage of time, the possibility of cohabiting couples getting married gradually decreases, but the possibility of breaking up does not decrease; Because some research shows that after living together for five years, the possibility of getting married and breaking up is very close (the basic mode of marriage is completely different). The longer a couple is married, the lower the possibility of divorce. Random cohabitation will damage people's positive attitude towards marriage and their determination to maintain marriage, which is the pillar of a happy marriage.
However, it is not just cohabitation before marriage that will endanger intimacy. If couples get engaged and live together for several months before marriage, these negative effects will not appear. In addition, in the long run, cohabitation as a popular concept of "trial marriage" will indeed increase rather than decrease the divorce rate.
Finally, cohabitation is actually a good thing and a bad thing. Don't imagine cohabitation as an unacceptable thing or a necessary thing. Cohabitation can really help people get to know each other better, but both parties should live together for the purpose of marriage, so that cohabitation is meaningful.
There is no suggestion that everyone must live together or not. I just hope that before we live together, we should think about the best result and prepare for the worst. It is a kind of happiness to get along day and night, and it is also a kind of romance to go home on a date and hug downstairs. No matter living together or entering marriage, any relationship needs to be managed by both parties.
Advantages and disadvantages of unmarried cohabitation II. Cultivate feelings. If we live together, we can meet every day, get bored together, eat together, manage our love nest together and fight for the ideal of life together. Even if we are together because we like it at first, our feelings will grow stronger after a long time.
You can get to know each other well. Living together every day, the best actors will reveal the clues, so it is easy to understand each other's personality characteristics, people's behavior, living habits, whether they get along with each other and so on.
This is also considered as the pre-marital internship stage. At this stage, you will realize the difference between love and marriage. Love only needs love, and marriage needs two people to fight for life together, and we must deal with the problem of oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and many trivial things in life. See if both sides can handle these problems well and lay a good foundation for future marriage.
Some people may live together because they can't resist sexual temptation, and some people may be fresh and curious, but they don't intend to be together for life at all. Therefore, many cohabiting lovers have a high breakup rate for this reason.
But this is inconsistent with the traditional concept after all. Cohabitation before marriage has always been despised by the mainstream view. In particular, cohabitation before marriage is not protected by law and the risk of pregnancy is high. What should I do if I am pregnant and don't want to get married?
Living together and breaking up, what if your future husband cares about this? Although there are many medical methods that claim to solve this problem, where is the repair of the female membrane, vaginal contraction and so on. But this is cheating. What if my husband finds out one day?