When communicating love with children, we should start on the fact itself, don't add our own subjective emotions at will, and let children realize that their parents are communicating with them in an equal way, instead of preaching. Children are more willing to share their innermost thoughts with friends than adults or teachers. When a child tries to say what he really thinks, such as why he likes that girl and how she makes him feel, parents should remember not to interrupt at will. They must wait for the child to finish, first identify with his feelings, and then rationally analyze the influence of love on him, including both good and bad aspects.
For students, the bad aspect is mainly their studies. Because of love, it may result in less study time, resulting in a decline in grades, inability to keep up with learning, and even higher academic qualifications. At this time, you can give your child a proper analysis and let him know that the most suitable time for studying is the years when he was a student, and there will be many opportunities and time for falling in love. If you fall behind in your studies because of love, you won't be admitted to the same school as the girl you like in the college entrance examination. At this time, it is too late to regret.
In addition, it can also be agreed with the child that if he can continue to put learning first, in order to be admitted to the same school as the girl he likes, he can not object to their love for the time being, and even take the initiative to help the child when he encounters difficulties in love. In this way, when getting along with children, the problems will be properly solved and the relationship between them will be closer.