First of all, let's talk about why children have this situation. The child is still growing, and her father is not involved in her growth. No father's participation means no connection. It's a single-parent family. Single-parent families are generally sensitive to inferiority complex and extremely sensitive to people. Unfamiliar people generally avoid it selectively, especially those who are not involved in his life. In layman's terms, it is "why should I call you dad, just because you gave birth to me and then ignored me?" This is very clear, so we should communicate more.
Then, let me tell my story. My grandparents raised me when I was a child, but I didn't see my parents for a year. I always thought I had no parents. Since I was a child, I have registered with others because of family planning, so I call them cousins every year when my parents come back. They seldom call, and I put their son on the phone when they call. I'm bored and afraid to answer their phone calls. I was angry. Why? I'm just an insignificant person. When I was 1 1, 12 years old, my uncle told me it was my parents. I didn't forgive them at that time, and I didn't believe this fact, because I was thinking, if it was my parents, why didn't they tell me to my face and didn't care much about me when I went home? Two years later, I went home. I feel that my brother is the son of my uncle and aunt. I even wonder why we should go to their workplace together, go to the supermarket together and cook lunch there together. Suddenly I feel that they are not indifferent to me, they are quite kind. I let my guard down for them. After the summer vacation, my grandparents who lived with me told me that they were my biological parents, which I found hard to accept. So I asked my grandfather. I said "why", "why tell me now", "why" and "I was told". As my parents, why didn't you tell me they didn't deserve it? "Grandpa finally explained it to me, and I cried for the next few days. I didn't call when my parents came home that year, so my parents may have found my problem and they thought, "Why are you so big?" Don't call us. " In this way, after several years, I finally calmed down.
Finally, I hope you don't have to force your child to call someone, let him get used to it and strengthen contact. Everyone has feelings and is in no hurry to ask for a name. She means nothing. You should start from the heart, think for the children, get along with each other more, and break the barriers. You can also make up and establish intimate relationships.