How should parents listen carefully to their children's voices? What should I pay attention to?

When children try to tell their parents about their joys and sorrows and their novelty to the world, if parents don't listen, they won't listen, or even listen, the negative impact on children can be imagined. When we are trying to learn various parenting skills, we often forget how to listen to children's voices.

First, how to listen carefully to children's voices

When parents realize the importance of listening to their children's voices, they often face a difficult problem: I don't know how? Listen. Is correct. Listen at the right time and place, because talking with outsiders in public places can easily make children and parents feel stiff and lose privacy, so the best place to listen to children should be when you are alone with them, so that children can relax more easily during the conversation. Facing children with an appropriate listening attitude, rather than treating them with a condescending attitude, will easily undermine their self-confidence. This kind of communication will only widen the gap. The correct way is for parents to learn to be human? Good friends? A brand-new way to listen to children, without interrupting or swearing, fully let children feel the respect from their parents and let them trust their parents. When children can put forward reasonable ideas, parents should give affirmation and encouragement in time.

Second, accept? Chat children

Usually, when children share with us the novelty they see, they tend to be more enthusiastic. If we don't listen or even interrupt their talk at this time, it has actually hurt the intimate relationship between parents and children, because we want to tell mom and dad something novel and beautiful, but we hurt the child's heart because of negligence and impatience, and we may mistakenly think that we don't want to listen to her voice and share her happiness and sadness.

Third, remember: don't cause psychological pressure to children.

Everyone will be sad and angry when they are unhappy. They need to talk to people close to them and trust them. When people encounter happy and proud things, they also need someone to share happiness. Even so, children need to vent their emotions by talking, and parents, as the most trusted and intimate caregivers of children, are also the first choice for children to talk. When parents listen carefully to their children's voices, their emotions can develop positively, which is also helpful to their mental health.

Children will get love and security from their parents' careful listening and know the importance of saying good things. Parents will also get their children's natural and unconditional dependence from listening to their children's voices and grow up with them. Only by making listening and speaking form a virtuous circle can the parent-child relationship be more intimate and healthy.