First, if children live in a healthy family.
The most perfect family in the world is: father loves mother, and mother loves children!
Nothing can make children mentally healthy than a happy and loving family. If parents blame each other all day and complain that they can't give their children a warm and happy home, then no matter how hard they try, their children's mental health will encounter great problems.
I know this myself. Due to the inconsistency of our educational concepts, what children see most is mutual blame and mutual accusation between parents, which reflects that children have also learned to blame, to complain and to be full of negative energy. When we all realized this, my husband and I began to grow up and manage our relationship well. Unconsciously, our children are getting better and better.
Second, if the child lives in an abnormal family.
If the child can't live in a sound family, then the guardian's father or mother should show strong optimism instead of blaming and belittling the missing party.
Children need to grow up in a positive energy environment, and he needs to see their parents' strength, optimism and perseverance in the face of difficulties. Only in this way can children become strong and optimistic in adversity.
In short, it is very simple to say that if you want your child's mental health, you must let him live in an environment full of love and positive energy. But in fact, it is not easy, and our parents need to work hard to create such an environment. If you want your child to be beautiful, be beautiful with your parents first! If you want your child to be mentally healthy, then parents should first make themselves mentally healthy!
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