The psychology of contemporary college students is particularly fragile, and they make impulsive things at once, which makes many people feel scared. Now I will analyze several cases about college students, hoping that some college students will have a new understanding of themselves after seeing them.
■ School violence
extreme case
Not long ago, Cui, a junior in Peking University Medical School, was hacked to death with a sharp weapon. The scene of the incident was in the teaching building of the South District of Beijing Millennium Monument Hospital. Afterwards, a classmate of the deceased was taken away by the police. It is understood that both of them have pursued the same girl before and fought for some festivals.
Expert analysis
The emergence of campus violence is related to the social and cultural background. The pace of work and life is accelerating, and the overall speed of society is also accelerating. However, people's energy is limited, and the speed of keeping up with the pace of society is slow, which makes people feel impetuous and eager to succeed at once. Relatively speaking, the power of social moral restraint is weak. The destructive power accumulated by pressure from all sides is great. The fuse may be something that ordinary people look normal, but it is a big deal in his view. So when he feels hurt, he will be instinctively angry and attacked, but instead of venting in a socially recognized way, he is looking for an extreme behavior to vent, so he may have a violent tendency towards those who hurt him.
For teachers and students at school, it is necessary to strengthen psychological supervision, such as engaging in some activities that transform people's energy through normal channels. If both teachers and students have the concept of mental health, then they can find other people's problems early and help them alleviate them, so it is possible to avoid extreme behavior.
■ decompression without surgery
extreme case
Peng Liang is a graduate student in the director department of the Film Academy. He is tall and handsome, but after several years, he has a pessimistic idea: to be a director, you need to be famous. How many directors are really famous? Moreover, his family is from other places, and it is really tiring to walk all the way from undergraduate to graduate. He has to coordinate all aspects of the relationship, and this pressure makes him breathless. Finally, he went through the formalities of quitting school. All the teachers and classmates in the school sympathize with him.
Expert analysis
The pressure that college students are facing now is too great, which leads to a big psychological gap, which is inseparable from the development of the whole society and the influence of the family. The first is the employment of college students and the expansion of university enrollment, which makes some students feel anxious about their employment after graduation when they go to school. In addition, ego and family set too high a goal for students' future. Some students have an idea of studying for their parents, thinking about how to repay their parents in the future, and some students set an unrealistic goal for themselves, and the final result may have a great psychological gap. This requires students to find their own position correctly and evaluate and know themselves correctly. In any case, contentment is an unchangeable law. In addition, don't aim too high, but go your own way step by step.
■ Sexual confusion
extreme case
Are Fan Xiao and Xiao Lu universities? Husband and wife tribe? One of them rented a house near the campus and lived together. In an interview with reporters, the two admitted that neither side has a clear idea about the future, and they live together just for? Warm each other? .
A recent survey of college students shows that among the students surveyed, 13% admitted to having sex during college.
Expert analysis
Under the modern education system, young people? Knowledge, affection and meaning? Imbalance. Maybe I have higher IQ and lower EQ, so I have weaker willpower and can't manage myself well. Then if one aspect of the body is not satisfied, there will be a lack of demand and it will be met through various channels. Serious' may have exhibitionism, resulting in a child's psychology. This is because under certain pressure, people will avoid retirement and return to their children's psychological stage, so they will have such behavior. However, this is an extreme performance. Most students have sexual desire and anxiety, which just shows that sex education lacks certain guidance. For most students, they are full of desire for sex, but they don't really know much. Some couples fall out because of whether they need to have sex, which deeply puzzles college students now. Students may not have a strong consciousness, that is, love and sex are not only a psychological and physical experience and feeling, but also a serious responsibility problem behind them. These are inevitable, so for students, it is an important part of college students' mental health to treat sexual problems healthily and scientifically, understand sexual problems, think rationally and restrain their behavior.
■ Depression
extreme case
Xiaolin was admitted to a key university in Beijing with the first place in the local area. At the end of the first semester, she didn't get a scholarship. From then on, her mood plummeted, she became depressed, unwilling to study, unable to deal with interpersonal relationships with her classmates, and suffered from insomnia all night. Finally, she had to go to the hospital for a psychiatric examination, and as a result, she got depression.
Expert analysis
According to a recent sample survey of depression among college students, the incidence of depressive disorder among college students is 23.66%. According to this calculation, there are no fewer than 654.38+10,000 college students suffering from depression in Beijing.
There are many depression phenomena among college students. The main reason is that self-worth has not been well reflected and some self-denial has been done. Generally, such students are depressed and unstable, don't care about people, and have no interest in doing things. After a long time, it is easy to cause psychological and emotional accumulation, which will definitely affect their study and life, and even lead to depression in severe cases. If you don't find a normal channel to vent, you may be addicted to something you think is right, such as the internet. This requires people around you to pay attention to them and give them warmth. College students who have this kind of emotion in their lives should also have heart-to-heart talk and communication with friends around them to release the pressure, so as to relieve these symptoms and return to normal.
■ Suicide tendency
extreme case
On May 7th, 2005, at around 9: 0010, a man in Building 2 of Science Department of Peking University fell from the top of the ninth floor and landed in the northwest corner of the courtyard at the bottom of the building. And 15 days ago, a girl from Peking University jumped to her death.
Expert analysis
Suicide is an extreme behavior for many reasons. Nowadays, the pressure of college students is much greater than before, so they want to find various ways to relieve the pressure, such as dancing, surfing the Internet, making friends and so on. However, if there is no good channel to alleviate the negative thoughts that may lead to failure in life, it may also be that the traces of previous failures and the traces of current failures have caused a * * * vibration, which makes such a force expand geometrically, and finally puts such an emotion at a point. It can be said that the greater the power of anger, the greater the power to suppress anger, and the greater the power to vent anger at last. Then at a certain time, this kind of power will also act on yourself, and suicide will become your own need. There is also a gap between goals and their own abilities. Without a correct understanding of yourself and a correct attitude, negative attitudes have been accumulating, and finally you may completely deny yourself and take suicide as the way out. Now many students are only children. They have never suffered setbacks since childhood, and they will choose to escape in the face of pressure. This is also a very dangerous mentality.
■ Emotional distress
extreme case
Some time ago, one appeared on the forum of a famous website in Dalian. Rent yourself? This post has attracted the attention of many netizens. The post said,? I want to rent myself out, as long as it doesn't violate the requirements of the law, I'm under consideration! We'll discuss the price of chatting, shopping and eating. ? The poster claimed to be a 22-year-old college student who had just returned from New Zealand. Rent yourself? Just because? Too boring? .
Expert analysis
A considerable number of college students are in an immature state, relying on the impulse of adolescence to see everything beautifully. They lack frustration training and their psychological endurance is too weak. In addition, in college, there may be an invisible comparison between students. For example, people in the same dormitory all have boyfriends, but they don't, which may cause psychological gap, emotional instability and emptiness. Others, once lovelorn, are miserable and unable to return to normal life and study, as if they can't live without their lover.
True love is independent. When college students fall in love, they should put themselves in a proper position and control their emotions properly. Even if love fails, they can only say that it is not necessarily the best for each other. Moreover, they can learn from failed love and learn how to communicate with the opposite sex.
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