You said he was 47 years old and worked in an office. I will know why.
50 years old is a big sign. For people in officialdom, if you go up, you go up. After that, it's easy to talk about pension, children's employment, family and so on. If not, the career will stop here. 4050 phenomenon.
As a daughter, you should play the role of your little cotton-padded jacket, don't try to help him solve the problem, give him advice and be realistic. Put a spell on him and say two new words to him. You should study hard at school and don't get him into trouble. Think about it, isn't he working so hard now for his precious daughter, don't you think?
When I was in middle school, I always quarreled with my father. Now I think I was the most asshole at that time. Now he is studying medicine and giving him a massage from time to time. I saw the white hair behind his ear the other day, and my nose was sore. I can't even believe that it was the same person who hit me with the broom handle. I totally understand how you feel now. I almost cried when I watched Michelle Li's interview. Talk to them more while dad is still here. When he is brave, he should pretend to worship. When he's finished, you can't make him happy at all.
Well, it's psychological.
Now talk about health.
He eats ginseng. You have to stop him. It's not necessary. Many of his symptoms are due to eating ginseng. Even if you eat ginseng, you should match it with licorice. At least, ginseng is strong and licorice is warm. As for red dates, it is highly recommended. They are very nice. Now I'm a clinical student. I studied Chinese medicine for a semester, but I didn't learn the essence. What I remember is my mother's asthma or something. His immunity is very low. In fact, I'm telling you, you're competing with you. Can he compete? He was suggested to run in the morning and take a walk after supper. Open-minded, drink less, smoke less and socialize less.
I wish your father good health and you can be admitted to a good university.
I hope these are useful to you.