1, don't marry an old man. The sperm quality of elderly men is not good, which easily affects fertility. For the sake of the next generation, the age gap is too big, so we must choose carefully.
2, but any woman who has the potential to be a mistress is a bad person, at least worse than you! ! !
Women who think that with a man, they can change from a delicate vase to a strong cup are "restored" to single. Being single is not shameful, but there is a big gap between being dumped and being dumped by others. Let me give you a suggestion. If you want to be a woman who can only be imitated and can't be surpassed, you must be hard on yourself.
There is no such thing as premarital sex.
It doesn't matter whether you have it or not. Take protective measures and bring TT. Getting married by decree will make your husband's family look down on you. Didn't you see the couple who didn't even have a wedding and showed their love? Did they just announce their divorce? Dear friends! This is a bloody lesson!
Before marriage, you can treat money like dirt. After marriage, you should become a female version of Grandet, and watch the money bag. Men can hardly run far. In today's high divorce rate, pre-marital property must be protected. Don't wait for the divorce, leave home clean and without a hair. Men without money are not attractive to women …
It is not recommended to cry on the BMW, but it is more comfortable to cry on the back seat of the bicycle.
Material girls are a bit derogatory, but the life of material girls is really much better than those girls full of love and water! Lack of money is a serious injury, even the basic cost of maintaining love is not there, just like buying a car and having no money to buy a garage. In the end, the car and you quickly depreciated.
6, derailed men are not as good as homosexual sex and deserve respect. According to the statistics of authoritative departments, people who cheat before marriage will only be more unscrupulous after marriage.
And as long as two people love each other, they will be generous together, and there is really nothing to hide. The era of using grievances and forbearance to save derailed men has long passed! What you can do is to show the principle and bottom line to each other and let them know that you can't rub sand in your eyes.
7. Compare with others from time to time, and then beat him. To put it bluntly, it may hurt feelings. Watching the hit TV series, I feel that someone's husband has eight abdominal muscles just after six months of fitness ... Men are competitive animals, not captive pets. You must give him a bunch of goals and let him achieve them continuously, so that he will find it interesting to live. Then I have no time to play video games and chat with my colleagues.
8. If you have a suitor, you must be high-profile and don't hide it.
Of course, this doesn't mean that you have two boats, but that you, including your lover and friends, feel that although you are already taken, you still don't lack love. Be strategic and careful, this is the additive of love. Although unhealthy, it can always bring some freshness to the plain life.
9. Be sure to have in-depth contact with each other's parents before marriage.
This way of going deep into the "enemy's rear" can let you know something about "Evil Seeds". Moreover, the influence of family background on people is much more serious than that of studying for a doctorate. A strong mother and a gambling father will have a great influence on your partner's personality. Even if it is hidden in love, it will be exposed after marriage and become a huge hidden danger in your marriage.
10, before and after marriage, you are you, never your girlfriend or wife. In modern society, everyone has a label. What belongs to you is definitely not the woman behind the man, but the woman who insists on being herself.
1 1. Getting married is risky, but the consequences are more serious than the risk of getting married in a hurry.
On the dating website, fraudulent marriage, fake academic qualifications and fake real estate licenses are constantly being refurbished in order to catch marriageable men and women who are eager to get married and indifferent to their feelings. Marriage without feelings is more terrible than being a leftover woman.
12, don't judge a book by its cover, don't judge a book by its cover.
It's easy for some people to make love rat's face and think it's only a matter of time before he becomes handsome. In fact, this ambiguity has little to do with face, but is determined by the nature of men. Warm men may also be central air conditioning, which not only warms you, but also warms the girls in all directions.
13, marriage, it's not that your ship sailed into the harbor of love, but embarked on a more adventurous new journey, girl, take care!
14, children can't maintain your feelings.
We are not putting on a palace drama, we are actually living, and we need daily expenses. The child is cute and naive. Don't rush to have children until you are sure that the other person can give you a safe and stable life.
15, not getting married means breaking up, and you still have a choice.
"Anyway, you can get divorced if you get married!" What happened to the person who said this? Marriage means the participation of both families and the integration of circles. Getting married in front of relatives and friends, the responsibility of both parties is even greater. Therefore, we must be selective. ...
16, many people dream of getting married, that is, soul mates, who will live happily together after marriage.
In fact, life is full of dog blood and chicken feathers, because you have changed from one person to two, and soon you will become three and four. This great change will lead to a shift in the focus of your life. Similar to the migration of animals from south to north, it is full of challenges and risks. Demonizing marriage is not recommended, but don't be too idealistic.
17, try to live together for a period of time before marriage, not for a long time. You will get "unexpected" gains from this short-lived life.
As small as washing feet and cutting nails, as big as some life and rest problems, you may yell at breaking up.
But at this point, the feelings are not shallow. I really can't stand it. Let's share it. Stop loss in time.
18, see the new marriage law in detail.
For those who are looking forward to getting married, I want you to wake up from the sweet talk as soon as possible. Let's be clear: the seas and rocks in a man's mouth are dry and rotten, and the heavens and the earth are boundless, all of which have no legal effect.
19, premarital physical examination must be done! ! !
Spend more money and do the most comprehensive. Some invisible diseases run in the family and will affect your children.
20. Did you get married because of love?
Congratulations! Love without marriage purpose is hooliganism, but marriage without feelings is more like a grave, which will ruin the future of two people.
2 1, resolutely stay away from people who are prone to domestic violence.
If two lovers can easily add their fists and feet, then your love must have gone bad. Imagine a person who is intimate with you in bed and cannot become a conjoined baby. After putting on clothes, he will give you a cold look, insult and bully. Does that horrible feeling make his back cold?
22. Everyone who wants to get married longs to be loved, but there are only two syllables between sadness and being loved. ...
Lovers pay more like banks. It takes two people to stay together. When you meet unhappy people, you are likely to pay a lot unilaterally, not only can't get the warmth and love you want, but also become colder and more desolate.
23. Ma Baonan is not an ideal marriage partner.
Imagine that you have formed a small family together, but your parents are involved and take care of everything. Then why did you get married? Just for a few people to form a bureau to play mahjong and fight the landlord together? Or do you want a bunch of people living together like a vegetable market?
24. If it's time to talk about marriage, some issues must be discussed.
For example, I hope the man can buy a house and write your name on the property ownership certificate. Don't shy away from this sensitive topic. If you have an idea, please feel free to ask it. Although it is possible that the two sides will eventually break up in discord, it is much more reliable than arguing about this topic for decades after marriage or divorce in the future.
25. Men and women have been equal for several years, but after marriage, women's contribution far exceeds that of men by several times.
Therefore, in choosing a man, we must polish our eyes and wear a microscope to observe carefully when necessary. Once your eyes are wrong, meeting the wrong person will not only delay your life, but also do permanent harm to your children and parents. 26. Whether before or after marriage, we should pay attention to the scale of quarrel, and don't turn over old scores. I've seen many couples quarrel. Even when we met for the first time, the other party didn't ask her if she ate spicy food, so she had to move out and have a quarrel. This is not conducive to solving the current problem, and it hurts feelings. The correct way to quarrel is to defend the other side for half an hour on the most important issue, and one side just listens. The advantage of this way is that one party may know that he is wrong before he finishes speaking, and apologizing is both civilized and hygienic.
27, don't get married easily, just know each other for a few hours and show your love everywhere, so you die really quickly.
Looking at the surging entertainment circle, the men and women who did these two things finally separated. You are looking for a man to make yourself happy, not to make others think you are happy.
28. It is best not to rush to have children after marriage.
I have seen many stray cats and dogs. At the beginning, they were also the pride of their owners. However, the owner took them home on a whim and found that they were not plush toys. They need people to wait on everything. After a long time, they lose patience and abandon them. Raising children is also a long and arduous process.
In particular, the woman's body and physiology will undergo great changes during pregnancy. At the beginning of marriage, it is wise to cultivate feelings and consider having children after life is on the right track.