After 30 weeks of pregnancy and good health, he is already a veritable "little adult". No matter you have 10,000 reasons, it is not recommended to induce labor.
And now the national health department stipulates that if you are pregnant for more than 28 weeks, you are not allowed to induce labor unless there is a problem with fetal development. If the fetus develops normally, regular hospitals will not induce labor in big months.
What is induced labor?
Induced labor is actually injecting drugs into the uterine cavity, causing uterine contraction and labor pains, and finally expelling the fetus from the body.
Especially in the big month of the third trimester, the process of induced labor is basically the same as that of natural delivery.
Induction of labor in large months generally requires hospitalization, and ethacridine injection is generally injected into amniotic cavity according to the situation.
Simply put, the drug is injected into the amniotic fluid in the uterine cavity and absorbed by the fetus. Then the uterine contraction began 48 hours 12 after the drug was injected, and the baby was born like a natural delivery, and then the placenta was delivered.
The whole process of induced labor in big month is basically the same as that of natural delivery. However, because the fetus is not full-term, the weight is slightly small, and the uterine opening does not need to be fully opened, the labor process will be shorter, but the labor pain is basically the same, which has the same impact on the maternal body and natural delivery, and the uterus needs some time to recover.
The only difference between induced labor and normal delivery is that most of the fetuses induced labor are dead babies, and there are no vital signs due to the action of drugs.
What harm does induced labor do to women?
Physical injury:
It is easy to induce labor because of abnormal fetal position at the 30 th week of pregnancy, and the fetus cannot be excreted normally. Sometimes forceps and fetal aspiration are needed in clinic, so it must be perineal lateral incision.
Sometimes postpartum uterine contraction is not good, there will be placental abruption, or postpartum hemorrhage, which will cause hemorrhagic shock in severe cases.
After induction of labor in big month, it is necessary to pay attention to rest and nutrition as postpartum to ensure the recovery of uterus.
Psychological injury:
Women who induce labor in big months will also have an increase in milk quantity. Women who give birth naturally can breastfeed their babies and enjoy family relationships. However, increasing milk after induced labor is more psychological pain than physical pain.
Moreover, women after induced labor can't face this experience for a long time, and it is always painful for children who are abnormally "dead".
For the subject, if you just want to give up your current marriage and your cheating husband, then these have nothing to do with the baby in your belly. You can give up your child's life without inducing labor.
If you have independent economic conditions, you should be born to support yourself. If your personal ability is not enough at present, you can ask your father to support you when you are born. After all, he is also the biological father of the child, and no one has the right to give up the child!
How to treat marriage failure and induced labor? Welcome to leave a message
Hello, I'm Jurgis. I'm sorry to read your question.
Divorce during pregnancy is a very painful thing. The man who cheated during pregnancy is a soldier in love rat. So I can understand your pain.
But Jurgis, as a mother, advises you not to let men's mistakes punish your children. Although the child in your belly has the gene of this man, it is also your child, not to mention that the fetus has been 30 weeks.
According to the laws of China, fetuses over 28 weeks, that is, over 7 months, are counted as population. If there is no medically recognized problem, you will not induce labor casually. Even if you are a mother, you can't decide the life and death of your child casually.
Moreover, it is quite dangerous to induce labor in 30 weeks, and the probability of infertility in the future is also relatively large. Induced labor is equivalent to giving birth to a child, which is more painful than giving birth to a child. The mother of a deformed child who induced labor told us that injecting drugs would kill the fetus first, and the fetus would struggle violently in the stomach, and then it would be born with oxytocin drugs. Both physically and mentally, it was a huge blow to my mother.
Besides, you have been pregnant for 7-8 months, and your mother and son are connected. Ask yourself, are you really willing to give up? If the fetus of more than 7 months is premature, it can still survive, indicating that most organs are fully developed and are real villains, your own flesh and blood. As a mother, I can't stand it.
I don't want to tell you from the moral high ground here, because I know everyone's situation is different, and I can understand the feeling that you hate your husband now and the children with him don't want it.
However, as a mother who has given birth to a child, I can tell you that there are many widowed or divorced mothers, and no one will regret giving birth to a child. As long as there is a mother in one breath, the child can eat. Just a cheating man. Men can be changed, and children are their own.
Of course, the final decision is up to you. I hope you are careful before making a decision.
At first, I looked at the subject's question and was a little angry. I thought, why would anyone want to induce a baby for 30 weeks? But after reading your description, I understand why you have this idea. In the face of your former lover, the prospective father of your baby, his betrayal is unbearable. I can imagine your hesitation and helplessness now, and then I will talk about my personal suggestions!
From a humanitarian point of view, I don't recommend that you do induced labor. The 30-week-old fetus has been formed. He is already a strict man. Although you are a mother, she has the right to live for a fresh life. From the safety point of view, 30 weeks of induced labor is very harmful to the health of pregnant women. 30 weeks of induced labor is similar to normal delivery, so pregnant women will have pelvic tilt, decreased immunity, frequent backache and poor health after induced labor. And because induced labor is in the big month, it may lead to infertility. Secondly, there will be a series of gynecological diseases, and there will be some accidents when induced labor, which will not scare you. It's just that many times there are some things, and no one can say for sure.
Legally speaking, the national law stipulates that a fetus over 28 weeks old cannot be induced without physical defects.
So I finally want to persuade you to keep the baby. As for the marriage problem you are worried about, I also have some humble opinions, hoping to help you. For your marriage, if you have a deep emotional foundation, this is your first mistake. I suggest that you can choose not to divorce, wait until the baby is born to raise the baby together and give the baby a complete home, but let him write a letter of guarantee and ask both parents to testify. Don't take care of the children next time you commit a crime, and you must ensure that your own interests are maximized.
If you choose to divorce, I suggest that you take the baby with you on the premise that the economic conditions are acceptable, because you have money and a baby, you don't have to be angry with your mother-in-law, face your cheating husband or be a free nanny. Your life with the baby will be colorful. If you are in poor financial condition, I suggest that you give your child to love rat for raising, so that he can take up the responsibility of being a father. You can go to see the children and spend more time with them. To sum up, 30 weeks of induced labor is harmful, both physically and psychologically, and it is an indelible wound, so I hope you can give birth to a baby, and give the baby a chance to see the world regardless of the final outcome of your marriage!
As big as the monthly equinox is, it is just like giving birth to a child. The only difference is whether the child is full-term or alive. When it comes out of the birth canal, it has contractions. If you want to induce labor, you should give an injection in your stomach, hit the fetus and let him die, and then give you medicine to make you contract and give birth to a stillbirth! Think for yourself how terrible and uncomfortable it is. Can you stand it? Don't think too much. Take good care of the children for him. Stop feeling sorry for him. After the baby is born, all your energy and feelings will be transferred to the child. Maybe the child will regret it when he arrives. You should let him take care of the children more. The deeper his affection for his children, the more responsible he will be for this family. Don't be paranoid. Take good care of your baby. I wish mother and child (daughter) peace.
My husband cheated on me, and now he is very entangled. If we forgive him, these things will be the fuse of our later period. If divorce is not forgiven, can 30 weeks +2 induce labor? Will it be dangerous?
I don't know what the subject thinks. The fetus is 30 weeks and 2 days old, and it can survive after birth, but you killed the baby for personal reasons. The ugly thing is murder. As an obstetrician, it is definitely recommended not to choose induced labor regardless of divorce or not.
As for whether it is harmful to induce labor in 30 weeks and 2 days, the common way of inducing labor in clinic is to inject ethacridine lactate needle into amniotic cavity under the guidance of mifepristone tablets combined with B-ultrasound, and then wait for your stomach to hurt, and finally a stillbirth will be born. Relatively speaking, it is safe, but there is also the possibility of infection, bleeding, intrauterine contents residue, and even the need to clear the uterus.
In short, as an obstetrician, I suggest you cherish your life and don't induce labor, whether you choose to divorce or not. Good luck with your pregnancy.
Please don't! Abortion, induced labor, production! Induced labor is the most painful! It is said that all the children are here, and there is no big problem when they are born! These days, everything is foreign! Only children are their own! Don't say anything about single parents! Who can guarantee to grow old together! Women can have anything as long as they work hard! Don't want to fight, housework can make you tired into a dog!
Induced labor has a great impact on women's health, which is equivalent to giving birth to a child;
If you have the courage to divorce, don't consider future marriage; And give birth to a baby if your economic ability allows;
If you still want to marry someone else, give up the baby!
However, I am a life-oriented person, and I will still choose to have children; But it depends on your feelings for your husband. If not, as long as he pays you as usual, what do you care? Just be an ATM!
I think 30-week-old children should stay. You can choose to divorce, and then give birth to your own children and raise them yourself. You can also choose whether to get married in the future.
Think about it. If you choose to induce labor and divorce now, if you get married later, you can guarantee that no man will cheat. So you can choose to divorce, or you can choose not to leave, but you can't induce labor for this child. You should leave this little life. Whether you go or not, you already have a child. Even if you don't get married in the future, you can raise this child by yourself. Then you will be glad that the baby you left behind is a baby after all.
I'm not a client, and I can't persuade anything.
It's just that I think it's terrible to let this child take the blame for cheating.
When answering this question, I feel very contradictory.
Intellectually speaking, men choose to cheat when a woman is pregnant, which is really the slag in the slag. Whether to forgive or not is a dilemma for the subject. If you choose to forgive now, your love life will be unpredictable in the future. Moreover, the man's experience of cheating is like a bomb buried in two people's lives, which may detonate at any time in the future. It's okay for a man to repent. If they don't repent, it will really hurt women too much.
Emotionally speaking, the child has been in the subject's stomach for 30 weeks, feeling the baby's fetal movement every day and establishing deep feelings. How could he be willing to take it? Even if you make up your mind to take it off and choose divorce, inducing labor in such a big month will do great harm to your health. As for how dangerous it is, even doctors can't predict it. The risk of each operation is unknown. If induced labor leads to infertility or other physical conditions in the future, it will also be a kind of harm to the subject.
Therefore, this matter, whether it is to choose life or not, is very difficult for the subject. It is suggested to calm down, think from your own point of view and listen to the suggestions of your family, such as your parents.
In any case, this is a responsibility that must be borne. If you choose to have children, you should be prepared to raise them independently. Even if you don't get divorced, you still have to be mentally prepared. If you choose not to give birth, you must bear the harm that induced labor brings to your body.
I really can't feel it. I can't persuade you to have a baby, and I can't persuade you to abort the child and divorce. It's your choice. All I can do is wish you happiness.