1, inferiority complex
Inferiority refers to making a low evaluation of one's own quality and ability and feeling inferior to others' psychological feelings. A proper sense of inferiority can motivate you to make up for your own shortcomings and surpass yourself; However, excessive inferiority will lead to depression and seriously affect our physical and mental health. Some middle school students often make mistakes because of their poor academic performance, so at home and at school, they criticize more than praise, blame more than encouragement, and punish more than guidance. So I thought I was hopeless, felt inferior, and became disheartened, depressed, self-destructive and negative. Form the inferiority complex of "I am inferior to others".
2. rebellious psychology
The so-called rebellious psychology refers to the opposing emotions and behavioral intentions that are contrary to cognitive information and general normal education requirements due to the inherent traditional stereotypes and thinking patterns in the process of receiving education. Many middle school students often can't treat their parents' pains and teachers' criticism and education correctly because of their poor ability to distinguish right from wrong and their doubts. They doubt everything, are supercilious, hold a negative attitude towards positive propaganda, deny role models and advanced figures for no reason, have emotional identification with bad tendencies, and passively resist ideological education and compliance with rules and regulations.
Step 3 be lonely
People are gregarious animals, and people can't live without groups and interpersonal communication. Loneliness is a subjective psychological feeling that you are excluded, forgotten and psychologically isolated from the world. Loneliness is a psychological state of loneliness, helplessness and unhappiness produced by individuals in groups. Loneliness is the result of lack of communication with people, and it is also a psychological problem that it is difficult to communicate well with people. Many middle school students are withdrawn, afraid of communication, and often feel that they are alone in the vast sea, or feel sorry for themselves, or groan without illness. They don't want to enter the hot life, but complain that others don't understand and accept themselves. Some middle school students seldom associate with others and often act alone behind everyone's back. Their interpersonal relationship is alienated and diluted, and they advocate being "superman" and "eccentric". They feel lonely inside.
4. Jealousy
Jealousy is a social psychology and consciousness. Some people describe jealousy as a fundamental, universal and intense psychological phenomenon. Psychologists define jealousy as a targeted feeling, a tendency to look at the happiness of others with pain. When the current and expected relationship is threatened, it is a ambivalence of jealousy and hostility. In middle school, some students' beautiful appearance, excellent academic performance, superior family conditions and being loved by teachers often arouse the envy of others. The more they care about and attach importance to the object of jealousy, the more vulnerable they are to despair and fear, and then develop into some bad emotions such as hatred, hostility, resentment and revenge.
5. Self-centered mentality
Some middle school students are only addicted to self-realization and personal motivation.