People have been working hard all their lives, hoping to gain more wealth and fame. When they get old, they find themselves just passing away.
People always chase what they think is good, but when they really get it, they think it's just.
Some people struggle for fame and fortune all their lives, hoping to have enough wealth to change their lives and make their families happy. However, as we grow older, we will understand the gains and losses in the world in the years to come.
In this life, people really don't compete for fame and fortune in the end, but these three more important things.
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children
What is a person's greatest success?
It is not that you have countless wealth, nor that you have won many prominent titles, but that you have educated your children with noble character and tried to live up to expectations.
If your children are not well educated, even if you have achieved great success, it is also a great failure in life. From ancient times to the present, there are many such examples.
Li Bi was a great strategist in the middle Tang Dynasty and a legend in the history of China. He is cautious and self-loving, upright and upright, and can be called a sage. But his son Li Fan degenerated into a shameless person and colluded with the traitor Pei Yanling.
Fang was a famous politician in the early Tang Dynasty and was called a good man by historians. His son's love for sex is disappointing, absurd, spontaneous and unlearned.
Therefore, if parents can't teach their children by virtue and live up to expectations, it will be the biggest regret and failure in life, no matter how high their official position and money are.
When people pass middle age, in fact, it is no longer money and fame that they want to fight for, but children. Children who live up to expectations will surely bring greater success. On the contrary, disappointing children not only accomplish nothing, but also bring a lot of trouble to their parents.
It is the greatest achievement of parents and the happiest thing in the family that children are reasonable, have good conduct, work hard and live up to expectations. Most of these children are self-reliant, self-reliant and enterprising, understand the hardships and difficulties of their parents, and will also fight for their own lives.
So-called? Depends on success or failure, depends on future generations? This is very reasonable.
Disobedient children often get into trouble outside, which often brings trouble and burden to the family and eventually affects their parents. Many parents spoil their children blindly, but they don't know that this way is likely to bring disappointment to their children.
When we are young, parents can give our children the best things, but when we are old? At that time, I discovered that my children had no virtue, no talent, no effort, no disappointment, and everything was too late.
No matter how successful parents are, they can't hide their children's failure in life.
Therefore, in this life, in the end, people really don't strive for fame and fortune. The most important thing is their children.
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companion
What is a partner?
Our partner is the most important person to accompany us through the rest of our lives, and the only one who can comfort and accompany us in our later years.
Regardless of success or failure in life, whether rich or poor, your partner is a person who is willing to pay selflessly for you.
On the road of life, having a good partner is the greatest happiness. In life, when we are tired, sick, unhappy or even angry, our partner is the one who won't leave us.
1932 In the spring, Jiang Yang and Qian Zhongshu fell in love at first sight in Tsinghua University campus. Qian Zhongshu got engaged to Jiang Yang on 1933 and got married on 1935. * * * walked into the besieged city of marriage together. From falling in love, getting married, going abroad, returning home, experiencing turbulence and hardships, the two have been writing and loving each other for a long time.
Therefore, it is the greatest success and happiness for a person to have a loving partner who will never give up in his later years.
When you walk through life and look back, you will find that no matter how filial your children are, they may not be able to stay with you. In the end, it must be your partner who can protect you.
Especially in old age, people always experience the entanglement of diseases. At this time, you will find how warm and helpful your partner is. If nothing else, just the comfort and care in your heart is enough to make you feel the warmth of the world.
Many old people will be lonely. Why? Because there is no partner, or the partner is gone. That kind of inner loneliness can never be diluted by wealth and fame.
There is nothing like having a partner who loves you and accompanies you all your life.
So, from now on, be kind to your other half, because the other side will be the warmest person to accompany you all your life.
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health
In this life, people can lack everything except health.
Wealth is very important, so is fame and fortune, but compared with health, they are not the most important. A person without health has nothing and nothing to do.
Money can buy everything, but it can never buy time and health. Even if you have countless wealth, you can't buy a healthy body, let alone spiritual comfort and spiritual comfort.
In reality, how many people have lost their healthy bodies and become a drag on their children when they get old. It's bitter to think of it, but it's too late to regret it, and health will never come back.
Therefore, you should pay attention to your health when you are young, stay up late less, and don't wait until you are old to regret it. No matter how much money you have, no matter how high your reputation is, you will lose your health and eventually have nothing.
Do more exercise when you are young, rest when you are tired, don't push yourself, you can earn less money, just try your best, don't just try your best, don't wait until you are old.
It is important to make money, especially to work hard for life, but it must be based on good health.