In the eyes of some teachers, classmates, relatives and friends, Xiao Kai is a sunny, confident and lively teenager. He is very popular with his elders and classmates. He is the main force of the school street dance club. Like most adolescent boys, he has iron porcelain buddies and favorite girls, and wants to enter a key university. "I still don't believe he will commit suicide. He is so cheerful and filial. A week ago, the school had a half-month holiday, and we also played the dance machine together. His grades are also getting better a little bit. " In Xiao Kai's QQ space, he sometimes sends photos with his classmates, sometimes draws cartoons, and sometimes has a dinner party. Many students in every state like, comment and tease, and they are a "king of popularity". Of course, he also rebelliously touched cigarettes. It also attracted praise.
On the one hand, schools and teachers should pay attention to persuasion and heuristic education in the process of educating students, and don't jump to conclusions easily. Many students have strong self-esteem and weak psychological defense, so if they are too aggressive, they may not be able to accept it for a while, and it is easy to form a scene of suicide. Therefore, in the process of communication and guidance with students, teachers must pay attention to ways and means, and don't be arbitrary and rude, or even impose excessive punishment on students.
On the other hand, schools and teachers should also care about students' mental health. There are many problems in students' poor grades, some of which may be simply because of stubborn personality, and some problems may also involve psychological factors. Therefore, if it is the latter, it should be solved in time, rather than relying on reprimand and punishment.
In a word, I think both schools and teachers should bear certain responsibilities for students jumping off buildings at school to avoid this phenomenon from happening again. Schools and teachers must guide and guide students in time.