Mentality determines everything. 1 Yang Ming found an ideal job soon after graduating from college. Coupled with a good work attitude, I became a small manager of a department a few years later, and at this moment, there was a turning point.
I heard that the manager of the company will be transferred to the head office, and the above decided to choose one of the following small managers as the manager. This can give a dozen small managers a shot in the arm. Who doesn't want to be a manager? Yang Ming was very excited when he was inside. He is highly educated and has a very good interpersonal relationship in the company. Besides, he is devoted to his work, so this manager is the only one. Several other managers are not to be outdone. Several people scrambled to do one thing, and an unprecedented scene appeared in the company.
Just as everyone was working in full swing, the head office suddenly sent a person to be the assistant manager. I heard that this person had a very good relationship with the chairman of the head office. After hearing the news, everyone was dumbfounded, and everyone clearly knew that this manager's throne could only be an illusion forever. Three months later, an ordinary female manager was promoted to manager, which made a dozen small managers very angry. Yang Ming, in particular, is higher than her in academic qualifications; In terms of performance, Yang Ming is also better than her. But why did Yang Ming become a small manager, but let the humble female manager rob the manager's throne?
So everyone went to the personnel office and said, "Why her? Who among us is better than her? What makes her a manager? " In the face of a series of questions from everyone, the personnel director said unhurriedly, "You are indeed better than her, but why did you finally give up?" Knowledge and ability can be acquired through study and training. What our company wants is the spirit of never giving up in the face of difficulties! "
Why did Yang Ming fail? Because of mentality. The most important thing for a person is mentality. Mentality determines everything. As long as we have a good attitude, we can overcome all difficulties and not repeat Yang Ming's tragedy.
Mentality determines everything. I stopped with interest.
It was a father and daughter walking. My daughter plays with her mobile phone while walking. Suddenly, she plopped. I don't know what caught the little girl, but she didn't fall It's just that her mobile phone fell into the river and made ripples. At this moment, I saw the little girl crying, perhaps because she knew she was in trouble. Seeing this, I can't help but guess my father's mood with some interest. Will he be angry? Or lament? or ...
I guessed many kinds of results, but "the whole army was wiped out." The father's behavior is unbelievable: instead of showing a trace of displeasure, he stroked his daughter's face to signal her to stop crying. Then he comforted: "It's just that I dropped my mobile phone and didn't hurt myself. God gave us a great gift! Son, don't put on a bitter gourd face. "
Suddenly, I froze. It took a long time to figure it out. Subconsciously thinking for a while, I couldn't help but nod my head. Yes, it seems a terrible thing, but changing your mind is not a bad thing.
It has been said that adjusting one's mentality is the premise of success and happiness. Yes, there are many crossroads in one's life. We should find the right direction of life at these crossroads, make our life more meaningful, and become a successful person and a truly happy person.
In our spare time, we will talk about such a topic: happiness is a day, and unhappiness is also a day. How to choose, I think everyone will understand!
Mentality is indispensable and irreplaceable in life. It determines the choice, the thinking and everything. From now on, I will dare to surpass myself, constantly improve myself and enrich my life with a correct and positive attitude!
Mentality determines everything. 3 mentality determines everything.
The most meaningful thing in life is the process of things, in which every detail is done well and happiness is realized in the details. In this wonderful life process, a person's mentality has always been an important factor in determining whether the outcome is happy or sad. I always believe that the temperature of life depends on the temperature of the soul.
There will be many unpleasant things in life, which is the law of natural alternation of things and the fate that nothing can change. No one's life will be smooth sailing and calm. So face the future unhappiness with a peaceful mind.
It will help you grow and then become mature.
Buddha said: people's troubles are all from the heart. Therefore, if you want to get rid of your troubles, you must have a peaceful mind, and peace can reach far. Have a peaceful mind, and face the sudden medical treatment with a calm mind. Don't wander in a dead end, thinking that mentality is the root of happiness, which determines the perspective of your life and the perfect ending.
Sometimes, you don't deserve what you pay. If you work hard, you may not succeed. If you get it, it may not always belong to you. But don't be sad, don't give up. Tell yourself with a peaceful mind: no pains, no gains, no attempts, no success. Then you will be happy. Because you have mastered the balance, so don't be sad because you can't get it. Your things will definitely come back. It should not be that force cannot be obtained, and even if it is obtained, it will be incomplete. Calm and indifferent, let nature take its course is the best choice. Otherwise, you will still suffer. Don't complain about the hard life just because you are busy, running around and tired. On the other hand, being busy is a kind of happiness, but we don't have time to experience the pain. Running around is a kind of happiness, but what we really feel is life; Fatigue is a kind of enjoyment, which leaves us no time to be empty. In this way, you will see a different life and a more exciting process. Don't lament the brevity of the sunset, but when you see the sun, although it is brilliant, why do you feel blue at dusk?
Mentality determines everything, and happiness is created by one's own mentality. With a peaceful heart and a calm attitude, the future is infinitely beautiful.
Mentality determines everything. Why are some people just more successful than others, earn more money and have better jobs? And many people are busy with work, but it is still difficult to make a living. In fact, there is not much difference between people, just a matter of mentality-mentality determines everything.
Many psychologists have found that this secret is the "mentality" of people. A philosopher said, "Your mentality is your real master." A great man once said, "Either you control life, or life controls you." Your mentality determines who is the mount and who is the jockey. "
The small difference is reflected in the way of thinking, and the big difference lies in whether the way of thinking adopted is positive or negative. Nine times out of ten, the losers actually gave up the hope of success, not being defeated. Their lives were guided and dominated by past failures and doubts, but they got worse than expected. On the other hand, successful people are optimistic and think positively. There are hardships everywhere in life, and the key lies in whether one's psychology can bear them. Failure is a temporary detour, not a dead end. It is precisely because of this concept of failure that we can overcome ourselves, surpass ourselves and move towards the glory of life.
Whether a person is happy or not depends on his mentality, which determines everything. When you encounter difficulties and sadness, you should think that it is temporary, and believe that the sunshine is always after the storm. When doing something, most people often have no patience and can't stick to it. Sometimes they think, how did this happen? Well, after thinking about it, I feel that people are doing strange things, and consciousness determines action. When I am doing something and have no patience to persist, I always tell myself, don't give up, I must persist until the end, and persistence is victory!
On the road of life, a positive attitude will add more colors to your life, and a good attitude is the key to success. Keep a consistent attitude and form a good foundation, so that a positive attitude can bring happiness and happiness to your success!
Mentality determines everything. If you choose to be happy, you should change your habits and personality from today. You should make yourself easy-going, tolerant, friendly, enthusiastic, caring and helpful every day. Smiling and happiness are the lubricants of healthy interpersonal relationships. Smiling and happiness can bring you more friendship and sweeter love; Smile is the source of health.
Mentality determines everything. Never chatter because of grievances, never chatter because of grievances. In fact, who hasn't suffered and who hasn't been happy? Our life is too long and bumpy. But as long as you have a good attitude, the road will go smoothly.
I used to think that everything could last forever. Nothing will change, as long as my heart remains the same.
But now I understand that everything is changing.
There is such a person. She and I have different strengths and hobbies. I am used to taking a step back and listening to others praise her. On the way to school, she will help me straighten my bangs from time to time. I was bullied at school. The first one will think of her, find her and hold her. No matter what happens, she will quietly comfort me and help me bear a pain. Such people, such feelings, I thought we would always be like this, crying together, laughing together, and experiencing the ups and downs of happiness and pain together. Until one day, I understood that there is actually something called "scheming and jealousy" in this world. I feel horrible. Finding myself lost in the past, I thought it was vigorous. Fierceness: the way the flame burns. Describe the prosperity of your career. It is also described as huge and magnificent. ], was splashed with cold water. In this way, I was disappointed, even desperate. I seem to have lost everything and become an empty hole. I don't know if I was too weak or if I really cared too much about that period. I can't be as handsome as her, nor can I learn the so-called scheming. Has she really become "bad" as others say? Or have I never grown up ...
During that time, even I didn't recognize myself. I can't find the feeling of happiness, and I have been sighing.
Now I may have changed. No longer take those things as their own pain, maybe everyone will experience some when they grow up. Instead of treating them as painful memories, we should treat them as a great wealth. As for what is scheming and jealousy, we still don't understand, at least not yet. I believe that each of us has a future. I expect my future to be blue.
Think back. Pull, disorderly memories; The fight ruined the past. Stumbling for nothing.
Cherish the present, let go and broaden your mind; Pave the way. Very dull, everything will come back.
Mentality determines everything. A person's mentality is different in the same situation, which may bring a completely different ending. Just like an optimist and a pessimist see a bunch of roses at the same time, an optimist sees beautiful flowers and wants to enjoy them at close range; Pessimists see the terrible thorns and always want to stay away. Therefore, if you look at things with different attitudes and angles, the results will inevitably be different. Therefore, mentality determines everything. Maintaining an optimistic attitude can make a person full of strength, while a pessimistic attitude will make people get lost and unable to extricate themselves. Just as Chekhov, a famous Russian writer at the end of19th century, said, "You will be what you want to be." When you are in adversity, keep an optimistic attitude, and you may gradually get rid of the predicament and succeed step by step; On the contrary, if you are surrounded by pessimism, you may fall into the abyss and go further and further.
When the great inventor Edison was a child, he was kicked out of school by the teacher because he asked every question at school. In addition, his family was not rich, so he had to sell newspapers on the train, but he still didn't forget his favorite chemical experiment. He often goes home to continue his experiment immediately after the newspaper is sold out. Later, he found a smoking room on the train useless, so he moved his bottles and jars there and continued to do various experiments while selling newspapers. At this time he was only 12 years old. One day, when the train was running, it bumped, and a bottle he used for his experiment was broken. Unfortunately, the bottle was filled with experimental phosphorus powder, which spontaneously ignited the carriage. The fire was put out by later people, but the angry conductor slapped him in the face, deaf his left ear and kicked everything in his "train lab" out of the car. But Edison didn't give up because of this. Instead, he kept an optimistic attitude, bought back the materials needed for the experiment and continued to do various experiments, laying a solid foundation for his future success. Therefore, facing setbacks with an optimistic attitude is the only way to success.
What affects your life is not the external environment, but your own mentality. Under certain circumstances, when you are bound, you still have the last freedom, and that is to choose your own attitude. With the right mentality and attitude, you will grasp yourself and your own destiny.
In ancient times, there was a king who dreamed that the mountain fell, the water dried up and the flowers withered, so he asked the queen to interpret his dream. The Queen said, "The general trend is not good. The mountain has fallen, indicating that the mountains and rivers are coming; The water is dry, indicating that people are centrifugal. The monarch is the boat and the people are the water. When the water is dry, the boat will not work. Thank you for the flowers, which means that the good times will not last long. " The king broke out in a cold sweat and never got sick again. Just as the king's illness became more and more serious, a minister wanted to see the king, and the king spoke his thoughts on his deathbed. Hearing this, the minister smiled and said, "Great, the mountain collapsed, and the world is at peace from now on;" When the water dried up, the real dragon appeared. King, you are the son of heaven. Flowers wither, flowers wither to see fruit! " Hearing this, the king relaxed and soon recovered.
When you are sad, don't complain to God. Maybe the problem is your state of mind. So, don't be discouraged, don't be depressed. Maybe when you look at these with an optimistic attitude, all the problems are no longer problems, and the future is bright!
Mentality determines everything. 7 mentality is everyone's psychological attitude towards everything. A person feels that one thing is particularly difficult, and he can't do it well; While another person treats the same thing, he thinks that although it is difficult, he can certainly do it well. In fact, this is the mentality, different mentality, work efficiency is also different. I once read an article about chess players playing chess. The hero of the story is Hou Yifan, a world-famous chess player. With extraordinary wisdom, she was selected for the national team and participated in the chess championship when 16 years old.
As the youngest player in the competition, she is not inferior to previous world champions. Every time she plays a chess piece, she writes it down in a notebook. No matter what she plays, she records it. When others play fast chess, they take notes, even the coach says so. But Hou Yifan didn't go like this, and it was with this mentality that he advanced to the final. She beat the former No.1 in the world with the title of "dark horse". She changed the history of China and never gave up. This is the mentality of the king. Don't say that far, say one close at hand! My mother got a brain tumor when I was three years old. This tumor won't grow anywhere else. It grows in the most important position of the human body, on the brain stem, 2 cm long and 1 cm wide.
Everyone is surprised to see this number, only 1 cm, nothing, but have you ever thought that it grows on the brain stem! Once my mother fainted and my family was taken to the local hospital. There are no best hospitals left in Acheng District, and it is easy to die at any time if it is not cured. But the family didn't believe it, so they sent their mother to the Second Hospital of Medical University. The authoritative doctor wants to have an operation after seeing it, but the operation is very risky. They will be in a vegetative state in the future, or they may lie in bed all their lives and be paralyzed. But there is also a chance of recovery, but it is almost zero. My family didn't agree to the operation. My mother stayed in the hospital for more than ten days and miraculously recovered. My family is very happy. My mother has recovered. It is because of her desire to survive and her mentality of not being defeated by the disease that she miraculously recovered. Mentality determines everything. Everyone has a mentality, but it will be different. It is difficult to keep an optimistic attitude, but I will try my best.
Mentality determines everything. The life of eight people is not only a kind of helplessness, but can be grasped and adjusted through their own subjective efforts. The direction of life is determined by mentality, and the quality of mentality is enough to clarify our quality of life. Different mentality will inevitably lead to different personalities and behaviors, which will make a world of difference. Bad mentality is the main source of bad personality and bad life.
Each of us can find out how our mentality affects life and determines success or failure through our own success or failure or fearless life course.
In short, no one can deny that mentality determines fate!
First of all, optimistic attitude:
The highest state of life is happiness, and enjoy it. Happiness is a positive attitude towards life, that is, to look at the world around you with a tolerant, accepting, open-minded and cheerful attitude. Optimists often distinguish their feelings about life from people's living conditions, and think that life is an experience and a psychological feeling. Even if people's situation changes due to external factors, people can't change their living conditions through their own efforts. People can also adjust their psychological feelings through their own spiritual strength and try their best to adjust to the best state.
It is human nature to long for the happiness of life and pursue it. Everyone wants to live a happy and full of laughter. But in real life, it is not as simple and pure as a vacuum, and unpleasant things are inevitable. Facing the realistic economic situation and survival competition, how to adjust yourself to a happy state and make happiness an indispensable vitamin to nourish life?
Accept it with kindness and forgiveness. Confucius said: the benevolent loves others. Only those who love will know how to be kind to themselves and others. Indeed, life is like an echo. As the tree, so the fruit. An optimistic person will never feel sorry for himself in the face of suffering and misfortune, but will accept it with a humorous attitude and an open-minded and tolerant attitude. An optimistic attitude is a painful relief, a rebellious smile, and always having a good mood is a realm. If a person can deeply integrate his personal life with the torrent of human life, he can happily enjoy the supreme pleasure of life.
To have an optimistic attitude, we must first focus on the positive side. Look at things around you with different attitudes and you will get different results. People who always find fault with themselves, always love themselves and embarrass themselves will not be happy.
Du Fu amused himself by pushing physical wine, but what was it called? Two poems are the standard. Carefully scrutinize the truth of everything in the world, do some happy things, do some happy and beneficial things that you like, and don't have to give up what you like to do for some empty names. Happiness is an attitude towards life. True happiness comes from the heart. It cannot be measured by wealth, power, honor and conquest.
Second, a pessimistic attitude:
Any kind of mentality is everyone's different view of life. In real life, everyone may suffer one kind or another of blows and setbacks, and most of these psychology are a manifestation of weak will and immature mentality. These abnormal psychology and pessimistic mentality often lead to the misery of life and often affect the correct view of the environment. Pessimists, on the one hand, can't see their own strengths and advantages, and often fail because of lack of self-confidence and courage; On the other hand, such people often hold a negative attitude towards themselves in psychological orientation, can't accept themselves, and leave themselves in an unbalanced and lost state for a long time, with only pain, frustration and failure in their lives. Over time, people will have psychological problems, depression, anxiety, psychological disorders and other diseases.
There are roughly three reasons for pessimism:
1, under the influence of the natural environment, people can't achieve the expected goal, so they are pessimistic.
2. It is a frustration situation caused by social factors. Undoubtedly, its influence is much wider and deeper than the previous one. Such as interpersonal tension, twists and turns in social activities, difficulties in economic behavior, the influence of social conditions, customs and habits, and conflicts of group interests. , will cause a pessimistic situation.
3. It is a pessimistic situation caused by the difference between the individual's own internal factors, such as intelligence, physical fitness, physical condition and psychological condition, and the expected goal.
People who have poor tolerance for setbacks and pressures tend to be more pessimistic about things. People who are pessimistic often have a bad fate, because they doubt themselves and always choose a negative approach in major choices. Pessimism will make a person full of life become passive and obedient to Nuo Nuo, accustomed to the past, unwilling to change and stick to the rules, and have no sense of social responsibility.
Like stringed instruments, strings are loose and tight, and they must be tuned. Only by adjusting the string from time to time can the string sound be pure. As Ma Yinchu said: I am not ashamed, just watching the flowers bloom in front of the court; I have no intention of staying, and I have no intention of staying. I hope the clouds in the sky will unfold. Only when we have a peaceful and enterprising attitude can we live in this society, many thorny problems will be solved, and many beautiful scenery on the earth can be panoramic.
Third, the usual mentality
Normal mind is the hardest thing to do. Treat everyone around you with a normal heart. No matter what kind of stormy waves you face, your heart is still calm and you should keep changing.
Fate is fair to everyone, so we shouldn't complain about heaven. Life makes everyone have their own troubles and pressures. We shouldn't be controlled by trouble and pressure. Instead, learn to control stress and troubles. If we don't worry about ourselves, others will never worry about us, because our hearts are controlled by ourselves. Instead of being dominated by others. ...
Mentality determines everything. If we can all face life with a positive and optimistic attitude, meet challenges and difficulties, or believe that you are not far from success.
Mentality determines everything. Many times, many things, when you want to change, if you can't change them, you must find another way, don't be humble and worthless!
We can't choose what will happen in life, but at least, we can choose how to face it. When I am in a bad mood, I just want to be alone. The only constant in this world is change. Do whatever comes to mind, never wait, never delay.
People's minds (thoughts) are always attracted by the reality that accords with them.
Someone told me a story. In fact, artistic conception is about inner sunshine, which is also a kind of light, and inner darkness is also a disaster there. If people want to have sunshine, they must have a sunny attitude.
There are two kinds of people in life. First, for example, if a person feels that the road of life is full of traps, he is afraid of falling when he goes out, of traffic accidents when he rides a car, and of being fooled when he makes friends, then the reality he is in is a dangerous reality. If he is not careful, he will really get into trouble.
The second type: for example, if a person thinks that many people in this world are loyal and bloody people, then this person will always meet friends who are sincere to him. Do you know why? Because people see the world selectively, people only see and pay attention to what they believe, but not what they don't believe, or even turn a blind eye. Therefore, the reality of people's life is attracted by people's minds, and people are also attracted by the reality consistent with their own minds. This mutual attraction is always going on in an unconscious and subconscious way.
A person's mind is negative or ugly, so is his environment. A person's mind is positive and kind, so is his environment.
If a person can control his mind and focus on the people, things and things that are beneficial to him, he will attract them into his life and they will attract him. Therefore, controlling the mind (thoughts) is the basic idea of fate.
Face those things that are hard to give up with a relaxed heart. Appreciate things around you with a beautiful heart. Treat everyone sincerely. Share the happiness of others with a happy heart. Selflessly pass on successful experiences. Be grateful for what you have. Some things should be done hard even if you don't want to, which is beneficial and harmless; Don't be afraid of competition. Without competition, there is no point in living.
Mentality determines everything. The best way is to accept an unchangeable fact, so learn to say "forget it" to yourself. A positive and optimistic attitude is the first step to solve any problems and overcome any difficulties. No matter what happens, even if it is a big thing, you should say to yourself, "It doesn't matter, everything will pass." Learn to be a happy woman!
The first step in the journey of life is to decide that you will not stand still.
We have no right to ask others how noble and kind they are. We can only let ourselves not deviate from kindness, not hurt others, turn people's lives into friendliness, turn years into gentleness, and turn life into sincerity.
No matter what the world is like, remember to be responsible for yourself. There must be no harm and no precautions.
Everything we do is right, even if it is wrong, it is always to teach us a lesson.
Language is often false, and what we have experienced together is the most true. The power of faith does not necessarily come from religion, but from any yearning for good things. Let's pray together.
In this world, you should be content, ordinary, grateful and not willful. Follow your heart, travel around Qian Shan, be unaffected by others, and know the world with your own eyes.
I will give you what life will give you, without waiting or traveling. You must love yourself, life and everything.
You are not superman, you will be tired, painful, crying, sad, helpless and powerless. But you have to understand yourself like this. Don't ask too much, let alone compromise easily. Work hard, let thoughts and blood flow faster, and do yourself well in a planned and step-by-step manner. This is the true face of live high.
The value and dignity of life come from strength, and our own value must be created by ourselves. Life assets are priceless. It doesn't matter how much wealth we can create today, what matters is how much we can have. How much wealth is left!
I hope I can become a warm person, like a tree, with deep roots in the soil and branches reaching into the sky, and live tenaciously and freely.
I hope I am tolerant, peaceful, gentle, powerful, do not quarrel or complain, go to many places and meet many interesting people. There is nothing to expect, just want to keep smiling and walk slowly.
Mentality determines everything. 10 Same cell, same window, optimist sees blue sky and white clouds, pessimist sees high walls and iron nets.
Half a year later, the latter died of depression in prison, while the former survived strongly because of a positive attitude until he was rescued.
Although the story is small, it is of great significance. Explain that our mentality determines everything. A positive attitude makes our life full of color and vitality. But pessimism makes our life full of helplessness and hatred, and even makes us lose hope in life.
Edison failed to invent the light bulb thousands of times. At that time, some people were puzzled and thought that he just wasted a lot of time and life on a very unimportant thing. But Edison said easily, "I have proved 1000 ways to make light bulbs." Isn't this a great wealth? " "The optimistic attitude inspired Edison to make contributions to mankind again and again and turned a new page in human history.
Eiko, a famous action art, is not angry with all kinds of scandals about her in the media. Instead, she said humorously, "This only shows that everyone cares about me and misses me." Therefore, she won the China Award for Outstanding Actress.
"Facing the sea, spring blossoms." Although Haizi has left, his poems have always been a beautiful landscape in the poetry world. At that time, the country was poor, the life was poor and the people were numb, but the world in his heart was so harmonious. "From tomorrow on, be a happy person, feed horses, cut firewood and travel around the world." He deserves to write such a beautiful poem.
Adjust your mentality. Life is like a string of beads, called worry, failure, pain and so on. No matter how difficult it is, count it with a smile.