Children's health includes two parts: physiology and psychology. It should be reminded that mental health should not be ignored, but should be treated as the primary part of children's health. Because of physical discomfort, fever and cold can be clearly manifested in the outside, which is easy to be found by parents. As long as it is treated early, it can basically be recovered. It is not easy to find the symptoms of mental illness. If you meet parents who treat mental illness improperly, it will make mental illness spread wantonly, and it will be difficult to cure it to the point where it can't be cleaned up.
Second, teachers should understand some misunderstandings of parents' education.
Myth 1: There is only one child, give him the best. Myth 2: "If you are afraid, your child will obey." Myth 3: "No war, no talent".
Third, teachers should learn to pay attention to children's mental health.
1, emotional investment-make children happy every day
A relaxed and happy mood can enable children to carry out various activities smoothly, and parents should always keep their children in high spirits.
Children's emotional development is characterized by susceptibility to infection. In order for children to have a good emotional experience, parents should:
Set an example for children to imitate, and always use the optimistic children of emotional contagion.
Only by establishing a harmonious and tacit relationship can parents exert a subtle influence on their children. "The child's face is a barometer of the relationship between parents", which is the truth.
2. Be polite to children-let children feel that parents and teachers are amiable and respectable.
Respect children and realize that children are independent people with their own feelings and needs. Put down the shelf of being a parent and a teacher, bend over and talk to your child, reduce the "sense of dignity" and make your child feel that your parents are equal to yourself.
Parents and teachers should be polite to their children, and don't beat and scold them. No matter what good things or achievements children have done, parents should congratulate them and never be stingy with their appreciation.
Parents and teachers realize that they may have said something wrong to their children and done something wrong, so they should be brave enough to admit their mistakes and apologize in time. This will not reduce their prestige in the eyes of children, but will make them feel more amiable and respectable.
3. Be persuasive-let children know themselves.
Whether children can correctly understand themselves and evaluate their abilities is an important indicator of their mental health. In order to help children form a good self-image, develop their self-esteem and improve their level of self-awareness, parents and teachers should make their children realize that there is only one "I" in the world. "I" is unique. I have many advantages, but I also have some disadvantages. However, through hard work, I can correct my shortcomings and be a good boy.