? You are a soldier and belong to the country; you are also a lover, you are mine.
? The outing festival in April 2015 was the first time we met, because that day was your hard-earned public holiday, and that day may also be a turning point in my life. That year we were 27 age.
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? In the direction of the seaside, you are walking towards me in a gray sportswear. You look quite amiable, a little hunched over, and walk loosely. When you speak, you are still vaguely... There was a fresh fragrance, and I thought I might have seen a fake soldier.
? Later, you naturally took my backpack and stared at me carefully as I walked back and forth on the curb next to the basketball court, as if you wanted to raise your hand to pull me down from time to time. The wind was a bit strong that day. I wore a small skirt and stockings. You suddenly said to me with a sincere and shy expression:
"You? Come behind me. I am tall and can help you block the wind." < /p>
Wow (⊙o⊙) Wow, I was thinking at the time, it turns out that soldiers are not all stupid, this is what soldiers are like in life, so down-to-earth, from now on your tall body will be so intrusive into my life.
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? "Are you sure you have thought about it, I am a soldier, I rarely have my own time, and I can't often play with you..."?
When you said these words, I naively thought that I would be an invincible young and energetic beautiful girl forever, and I could also have a lot of fun, so I answered easily, "I don't think the problem is big, it's nothing." "...and you said at that time that you could actually take some time off during the weekend.
? Later in the days of love, I did despise my attitude of disdain to relax at that time, because I began to rely on you, and you, like other soldiers, cannot use your mobile phone at will, and you really can't accompany me often. Chatting with me and playing with me, sitting in a newly opened store, and going to the beach together are all a luxury. What I’m most afraid of during the time-limited phone call that I’ve been looking forward to all day long is hearing you say:
“We It’s time to turn off the lights, so you should go to bed early.”
But you will also behave like a normal lover, with flowers on holidays and gifts on birthdays, holding hands when walking, and showing them to your buddies. And whenever you have a little free time, you will contact me. I like painting and you practice with me. I like listening to songs, so you sing to me. I like to save photos. You also change me into a sea soul shirt and take selfies with me. You will also As a surprise, you suddenly came to school to help me with my work, and you even raised your orchid fingers to dance in the square. You were never angry, and I didn’t even hear you say a harsh word. You were so handsome and cute at that time*^_^ *, it makes me feel less lonely and more like a military wife. Every day is full of happiness. I laugh out loud when I look at your photos.
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Soon, in November of the same year, we got married. We were finally able to go on a long trip together. We were both very excited about it. I like traveling very much. , before I met you, I really had the ideal of traveling all over the country and traveling abroad. You also know this, so you often tell me:
"Baby, just wait a few more years. Do you want to I will take you wherever you go."
You also got the nickname "Mr. Just" from this, because you always comfort me about everything, just wait and it will be fine.
? Life in a military marriage is almost the same as before we were married. I still live in my parents’ house and go to and from get off work every day to teach. You go to the army training step by step every day. We are also eagerly looking forward to our public holidays together. Then Sometimes we can still go to nearby places to play, watch a movie together, and have a barbecue and hot pot meal.
But then your work situation changed and you had less and less time to go home, so you often said this: "Daughter-in-law, I won't take a vacation this week"?
"Baby, we have a mission this month"?
"Daughter-in-law, we may have to reform this year"
"Dear, I am going on a business trip next month"
"Honey, I will go with you when I have time. You wait first"...
? And you often suffer from mouth sores and toothaches due to changes in work, and I realized that My husband is really not an ordinary person. Although I want to cling to you to the core and act like a baby, and I even want to see you all the time, you are still a soldier with a national mission. You really can’t talk casually. , You can’t surf the Internet or go out casually? You can’t even dress casually. So marrying a soldier should be like this, and a military wife must learn to grow up quickly, learn to wait, and be able to withstand big and small things〒_〒
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During my tenth month of pregnancy, you were still very busy, but your daily care was as gentle as fine silk. As a first-time mother, I often worried and panicked due to minor discomforts and aches, so you and your comrades-in-arms We have more topics to talk about pregnancy and childbirth together. Fortunately, I didn’t suffer from morning sickness, nausea, or fussy eating during the entire pregnancy. With you doting on me, I adjusted my mentality well. I am simply a super happy queen.
? On March 8 this year, we finally got the fruit of our love, a fat little female military baby. This little girl who loves to laugh is so cute. She is us. The little baby of the whole family (^_^) is also a reassurance for you, am I right? hey-hey!
And you are more attached to your family than before. For the first time in your 12-year military career, you have worries. You are worried that it will be hard for me to take care of the baby, and you will complain about your special work. You let your family Don’t just amuse the baby, take care of me too; in order to make me happy, you often say you miss me more than the baby; when I was fat and puffy during breastfeeding, you often praised me for still being beautiful; every time you watch a video, You were originally very tired, but when you saw me, you instantly became happy and made faces... Do you still remember that you once said that the most important thing for two people to be together is understanding? Right?
Report! Squad Leader Li, I have already practiced this skill and am ready to fight with you for a long time. Please give me your instructions!
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? Finally, I want to say to you that in the past two years, you have invisibly changed the trajectory of my life, but what remains unchanged is my hope for a better life in the future. yearn for. You can just perform your duties in the army with peace of mind. No matter how big the job change is, it will never break you. I know that, now that I am at home, you can rest assured. I think when you come back and we embrace each other on the same level, that will be the beginning of our real life, and the real test will follow. Come on, wait for you to fight\^O^/
? My navy oppa, we are very lucky to have become a family, and our sweet story continues. May we love each other for a lifetime, rely on each other to grow together, and enjoy life together, eh (╯ε╰)! 8. On Army Day, I dedicate this text to you, the only one. Happy holidays.
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