This is what happened in our neighborhood. Has 71-year-old Aunt Liu was his son kicked out, Aunt Liu came to help take care of his grandson for two years, but the days are long, mother and son less conflict. Later, Aunt Liu had the idea of returning home, and asked his son for 100,000 yuan? The grandchildren fee? and leave, the result was kicked out by the son, and her luggage was left outside.
Elderly people are not obliged to take care of their grandchildren, and it's only natural to pay them a certain amount of money. If you hire a nanny, do you have to pay a salary? Can your own mother be used for nothing?
For the old man son's approach, most of the people in the community is to accuse the son of why the treatment of his own mother, I can not figure out why the son of such a desperate, however, things are otherwise. In any case, the family is what contradictions can not be discussed and resolved?
One, things have hidden, the son has a bitter
Son Mr. Liu to the 70-year-old mother out of the house, in the community to play a very bad influence, naturally, by the other tenants accused of saying that he shirked the responsibility of supporting the elderly. In fact, things are not as simple as they appear, the son of this move has other reasons.
Mr. Liu was less than a year old when his mother remarried, and then his mother and stepfather have children, but these children are shirking their responsibility to support their mother. The son couldn't stand it, so he took his mother to live with him and asked her to help him with his two children, for example, by taking them to and from school.
But the son is already unhappy with the fact that his mother, who spends her days gardening, doesn't pick up her grandchildren. In addition, there is a lot of conflict between the mother and son, the mother will sometimes outside with people say bad things about the son's family, let Mr. Liu couple troubled.
Mr. Liu originally wanted to rent a house for the elderly. But the mother asked his son for 100,000 yuan in payment, the economic situation is mediocre son's natural attitude of refusal, the mother went so far as to aggressively say: ? If you don't pay, you won't leave? And his mother also threatened to ? kill? Grandson and daughter-in-law, the son of the mother along with his luggage are? swept the mother out of the house.
Is there such an old man in the world? Is it for the old man, or forced to do nothing? In the end, the son or the old man out of the house, but the old man sitting on the ground tearfully complained about what his son did. The neighborhood property also door to door mediation, but are unsuccessful.
Two, supporting the elderly is an obligation, the elderly can not be rough
The elderly certainly have the wrong place, the generation gap certainly exists, not to mention that Mr. Liu grew up and his mother separated, mother and son were not so close, and then, the elderly is, after all, their own mother, no matter whether it is to live with the elderly or the elderly will be resettled elsewhere, but also have to support her, and give some living expenses.
For many people, say the word alimony is relatively unfamiliar, that change a common speech? Filial piety, and alimony is part of filial piety. Filial piety is part of the excellent traditional culture of the Chinese nation, which has been passed down to this day.
Three, the old man should not want to bring grandchildren fee
This matter, and caused netizens on whether parents should bring children, and whether to give the old man to bring children fee discussion.
Nowadays, the pressure of life is getting bigger and bigger, many young couples get married and have children, basically the old man at home to help bring up children, this phenomenon has also become the norm in many families. Because of this, many people feel that this is a very normal thing, not to mention the elderly with children more experienced, the child is also very concerned, so many people choose to give the child in the weaning of the elderly to bring their own go out and earn money to support the family.
And about the old man claiming? The case has been in the press many times. The old people with grandchildren will be all over the grandchildren, especially the family has two children, it is the old people busy. Before said well, retired to travel, square dancing, and old pals call friends.
The result is that one by one all go to the child with a baby, what plan has not been realized. Even if you get together occasionally, the topic of discussion is always the grandchildren, the whole life focus on this one thing. The degree of Chinese parents' dedication to their children is unrivaled in the world! They are not only contributing their efforts, but in many cases they are also contributing their money.
Even if the cost of the elderly with children are children out of the children, the children to pay the elderly with children fee is also should be, can be measured. Society encourages children to be filial to their parents and give them a happy and carefree old age.
Of course, what happened to Auntie Liu can not be blamed on Mr. Liu. In fact, sometimes, children filial piety or not, and the elderly themselves have a lot to do. Now the pressure of life has been very great, in order to avoid family conflicts, some even hire a nanny to bring, but also do not want to give the elderly with. The child is in trouble to avoid, but also helpless.