However, for most elderly people, if they want to be happy, they don't have to be sad all day. Such a life in old age is bound to be of low quality. It is very important to create conditions for the elderly to live happily, which is very important for their physical and mental health.
For the urban elderly, there are generally more or less pensions, so seeking happiness is a compulsory course for health professionals.
As an old man living in the city, there are many lonely old people who have no spouse or have spouse children but have no time to accompany them. Where can these people find happiness?
According to the analysis of ordinary life in the city at present, we think that the following ways can solve the boredom of the elderly and find happiness, and the elderly or their children can consider choosing.
1. Cities are generally divided into many streets or communities. There are usually many residents living near them, and of course there are some old people. Old people get together and should be able to have some fun. For example, drinking tea, chatting, playing chess, entertaining and dancing in square dance can all add a lot of happiness.
2. Some old people are withdrawn and unsociable, so they listen to operas, and some old people especially like watching Peking Opera, crosstalk and novels. Now the short video of the Heat is funny and weird, and everything can bring some happiness.
3. Some old people have a certain talent, and they can also share your talent with the national audience from the media, which can get a very good sense of pleasure. If you don't have any talent, you can also share your current thoughts, experiences and knowledge and enjoy it. As long as you don't aim at making money, you can get a good sense of accomplishment. I often see videos made by the elderly on their respective media platforms.
Frequent phone calls and video chats with family, relatives and friends can also eliminate a lot of loneliness.
5, always bring some candy to gather some children nearby to play and get back some young feelings. As long as you are not old, you can have many stories.
6. Many old people are skilled and can be rehired to work. Taking part in the work can earn a certain income and produce a sense of accomplishment, mainly to eliminate loneliness.
7. In addition to re-employment, elderly people with skills can also make use of this specialty to make more like-minded friends. Generally speaking, they have similar personality characteristics, such as painting and calligraphy history, religion, fishing for health and so on.
8. Some old people are in poor health and stay in the hospital for a long time. Now the hospital management is very strict, and they are not allowed to leave the hospital during hospitalization. Therefore, communicating with patients in the same ward can not only learn more health knowledge, but also relieve boredom.
9. Some old people are in poor condition and some conventional methods cannot be implemented. Then there is another trick to entertain yourself. How to entertain yourself is often personalized according to the usual hobbies of old people. For example, some old people still like idolizing dramas and listening to idols' voices, so let them pursue them as long as they like.
Knowing that what the elderly need most is companionship and finding more opportunities to reunite with them is the happiest thing for the elderly. Usually, if it is difficult to reunite with the elderly because of work and study, call more and care about communication.
Some old people have bad personalities, but many of them have been formed and are difficult to change, such as stubbornness, greed, meanness, narrow-mindedness, and haggling over every ounce. Children should understand and don't blame.
According to the characteristics of the elderly, referring to the above methods, it is of great significance to find opportunities and create opportunities for the elderly to find more happiness and solve loneliness.