1, first of all, you should consider the child, she is the most innocent, but her mother has done evil, but she can't do anything about it. You will worry about many things in the future, and even some wounds cannot be changed. You will pay more than ordinary families. Before you want your child to be a dragon, you must first give her a complete family. If the successor's family is unhappy, how to make her have a sound personality will be something you will worry about for more than ten years. Of course, some children think very well, and your education will be very successful in the future. But you dare not gamble, because losing the bet is her life.
2. Is your wife's affair accidental or inevitable? This must be judged accurately! If it is inevitable, then whether the factors that cause this inevitability can be changed. An accidental mistake, and then get stuck, such as a certain scene derailed, and then always go with the flow. This situation is relatively easy to handle and it is relatively easy to prevent accidental factors. If it is inevitable, it will be more difficult to deal with. For example, of course, I'm just making an analogy. For example, she is dissatisfied with her present material life, such as the disharmony between husband and wife, such as the complexity of family reasons. To solve this problem, we must start with the root cause, but it is difficult.
You should consider your future life. You can't predict that after the divorce, your new wife and your family will not cheat. You can't guarantee that she has cheated before, or that there are other things you don't like. The wife is still the original match, not empty talk. Whether you still love her, whether you love her, whether you care about her mistakes will always determine the outcome. If you surpass her in her mistakes, you can tolerate it. If her mistakes make you stop loving her, don't get along with her.
You should consider the ideas of your parents and relatives. If your parents' opinions are too firm and you persist in opposing them, it will seriously affect your parents' physical and mental health. On my friend's side, it's actually a matter of my own face. It depends on whether you care.
Finally, there is no right or wrong choice, just look at your inner thoughts. If you are in a dilemma when you are not sure what you really think, put it off and don't make a decision in a hurry.
Finally, I still advise you not to divorce. After the eldest son chose to divorce because of his uncle's infidelity, his spirit suffered an unbearable blow, which was very abnormal. Her youngest son used to be very clever because his parents divorced, his personality changed greatly and his behavior was extreme. Now the whole family is worried that he may be a traitor. So, be careful!