1. Old people have their own lives after retirement and are unwilling to continue to worry.
2. Old people and children have different educational concepts for their children, which is prone to conflict.
These old people do not have enough energy to take care of their children.
With the continuous progress of society, more and more elderly people have their own lives after retirement. Many people no longer spend their retirement time on their children, preferring to spend money on them rather than help them with their children.
First, the elderly have their own lives and don't want to share their personal time and space. With the development of society, people's lives are becoming richer and richer, and people's minds are becoming more and more open. Many old people have enough time and space after retirement, and finally they can enjoy their old age. They can go to the university for the aged, travel around and dance square dance with their companions. Old age life is very colorful. They no longer take care of their children as their only pleasure in their later years and are unwilling to take up their time.
Second, the old people's educational concept is different from their children's, which is easy to produce contradictions. Old people have different educational concepts from young people. Many old people help to take care of their children. Because of different ideas, there is a contradiction with children. Many children not only don't appreciate it, but blame their parents and think that they don't understand modern education. The old man paid a lot to take care of his children, but in the end the children didn't understand and the old man was very dissatisfied.
Differences in educational concepts have caused family conflicts, and even led to cracks in the feelings of many parents and children, which is not conducive to family stability. So many old people would rather give money to their children than take care of them.
Third, the elderly are in poor health and don't have enough energy to take care of their children. When the elderly reach a certain age, they will have physical problems. Even if there are no physical problems, they don't have much energy. Taking care of children requires sufficient energy, so many old people want to take care of children, but they are unable to do so. Faced with their children's education, they have no extra patient guidance, so they are unwilling to take care of their children for their future.
Now, the old people have their own lives. They would rather enjoy their old age than take care of their children. If you have other views on this, please leave a message for discussion.