What kind of existence is Phoenix Man?

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Phoenix men are a very self-disciplined type of people. In their growth experience, there was neither urging nor guidance from people around them. There is no influence or guidance from the environment. I just rely on the breath held in my heart to fight against myself. Finally, hard work paid off. I passed the exam in the big mountain and passed the exam in the small town. I rushed to the first and second tier cities and settled down.

Outside, they know that the praise they enjoy all comes from personal efforts. These will collapse overnight if they are not careful and slack off, and they will be defeated and thrown out of the ranks... …

In their hometown, they know that they have always been regarded as a benchmark and role model for excellence. Their family members are proud and gratified by his efforts, and their neighbors always smile at him and say that XX has been a good person since he was a child. He is a good boy who has always known how to study hard. Now he is doing great and staying in Beijing/Shanghai... He has always been affirmed and trusted by his relatives and neighbors, and even looked up to him. These things have slowly fermented into his heart and become responsibilities and responsibilities. , he didn’t want them to be disappointed because of him, and he couldn’t bear it. He had a lonely heart that had been struggling outside. If there were no smiling faces of people in his hometown looking up at him, where would he go to find real warmth...

However, the people in his hometown never looked or thought about how hard it was for him to have what he has now. They couldn't see him when he was sweating over the questions in the summer afternoon. They don't know when they stay in the company and work overtime. They only want to see what they want to see and know what they want to know.

So, they thought that since XX is now staying in Beijing/Shanghai, can they also help their nephew and nephew find a job in Beijing/Shanghai, a more stable job that is not too tiring? That should be It's a matter of XX's words, what? no? XX, you are in trouble now. When your second uncle saw you bringing pickles to school, I even gave you 50 yuan to buy some food. Now that you are successful, you can’t even help me with this. XX listened, He had no place to talk about desolation, and he couldn't tell them that he was also a mud Buddha crossing the river in Beijing/Shanghai. He didn't want to lose this admiration, so he took out the budget for a better mobile phone and gave it to his second uncle, saying, "Look at home." Can you ask someone to spend some money to find it for him?

They were tortured and happy by this admiration. While they were distressed that the people in their hometown did not understand their difficulties, they also enjoyed the fact that the people in their hometown thought that their abilities were extremely extraordinary. In such a situation, Just like roasting a duck in a hanging oven, while letting the oil flow to the people in my hometown, I am holding on hard to get through the heat quickly...