? The best way to tell your parents that their children and grandchildren are blessed is to find someone they trust and tell them that their children have grown up and built their own families, and that they should live their lives in style and let the young ones go their own way. " Don't talk to your parents directly, one is that your parents will feel that you are married and have hardened your wings and don't want them to control you, and the other is that your parents will feel that they have good intentions, but they will still feel a little lost if they let you reject them. However, there are times when parents are involved, as a child you can not help, just turn a blind eye.
? To put it another way, instead of saying that parents are involved, parents want to live with their children, always uneasy about their children can live their own days, avoid, we have to figure out how to get along, habits of the problem, the older generation and young people's habits must be different, together with each other we must seek to respect each other's habits!
In fact, the family has a conflict, most of them are because of life trivia, originating from the different habits of life lead to, Then it is the old man and the young people have to take a step back, do not be so serious about everything.
? I have a friend, she was with the in-laws together, other aspects of getting along quite well, is for the child this piece, there will be differences, is no way to manage the child, the child tube deep it, the old man is not happy, no matter it, the child becomes more and more willful, and then they bought their own house in a family of three days, the child has become a good management of some of the child. In fact, the old man loves the child this point is undoubtedly, only with the parents love the child's way is a little different. alone this avoids the management of the child disagreement occurs, it minimizes the unnecessary family conflicts.
? There is also a situation, that is, the old man is the kind of want to be home, I have a friend is, as long as her in-laws to come, her family must be a constant contradiction, why, because of the old couple want to say anything at all, do not care about the feelings of their sons and daughters-in-law, there is a kind of "I'm an old man, you have to listen to me, I say what? Your little one has to be how" feeling, you say, this is not the old society, my friend every time I mention it to me, are tears in the eyeballs, hey, really heartbreaking, meet this kind of forced to mix with the old man, how can we do? Later, I told my friend, really can't, you'll shorten the time you stay at home, go out more, take a walk, to not how? When the old man is gone, her family is back to a peaceful, you say, I wondered, how this can not get along with it, the whole with the customs of the old society, this is really good? In the long run, it is inevitable that a family war will break out.
? Like my family, is more democratic, may I encounter in-laws are more enlightened it, because of mutual respect, so it will reduce the contradiction, you say a little contradiction, that is simply impossible, but there is a contradiction on the contradiction to say open up the solution, it's done, in fact, people and people get along with which is not not bumping not bumping, and even their own parents with their own parents sometimes have friction time it, not to mention the in-laws, and the family will be able to get along with them. time it, not to mention the in-laws it, as a young person, first of all to "filial piety first" and the elderly to get along, if the old man really did what you really can not accept, and must get along with the long term, then the Ming pick it, the first paragraph referred to as "borrowing other people's mouth! "If it does not work, then there is no way, it can only put things on the table to solve it properly.