September 2017 Nanjing subway line 1 in order to a seat, the big mom thought it was the guy had to give up his seat, however, the guy was reluctant, so the big mom sat on his butt on his lap, the picture was frozen.
From the video, the mom is sitting quite comfortable, after all, is "fresh meat's lap" ah. Auntie is also spelled out. Find a reason, find an excuse, an occasional indulgence, let the guy in trouble, so cold, so warm, so embarrassing. The guy below is definitely not convinced!
It is reported that Japan is also very much advocate respect for the elderly, but public **** occasions, but rarely happen similar to give seat storm, and even many elderly people will take the initiative to refuse others to give seat. One of the reasons, in addition to the "fear of troubling others" mentality is y rooted in people's hearts, but also in the Japanese elderly, accepting to give up their seats means that they serve the old, recognizing that they are the weaker sex. This contrast helps us to recognize the root cause of the conflict more real.
Advocating the idea of giving up one's seat in public ****places, regardless of whether the target is young or old, sick or disabled, is based on the principle that society should take care of the weak. However, some elderly people forced others to give up their seats for themselves, as demonstrated by, or not only out of their own vulnerable status, but to a certain extent into, "I am the elderly must have a seat".
The moral premise of the seat from the weak need to take care of, alienated to the elderly must enjoy a higher than ordinary people "treatment". On the other hand, if you don't give up your seat, you don't respect the elderly. Under this subtle psychology, it's no surprise that conflicts over giving up seats have become a regular occurrence.
So it can be said that getting a seat that has been given up, or a basketball court for square dancing, may have become an external confirmation and compensation for some of the old people's "authority over the elderly". As in this case, although the old man did not fight for his seat, but he asked the boy to give up his seat for the woman with a child, but also put himself in a position of moral authority, with a psychological motive to educate the "young".
Don't let respect for the elderly become a disease!
Special comment media: subway mom really strong, sitting in public on the male lap, let or not how to count cool, only desire too inflated!