The older single unmarried male youth, sharp questions have encountered a lot, can explain to explain, can compromise on compromise, they feel unhappy, avoid, change the subject. If you really need to face it, let the elders believe in themselves and be able to deal with it. If they still want to arrange it in a forceful way, it's not just awkward, but a bit of a disregard for face, and there's not much more to be said about that.
Liang Liang ah, you are not small now, have a girlfriend ah, when do you plan to get married ah?
What, you do not have a girlfriend, your age, other people are fathers, children are in kindergarten, you will not, like men, right? ......
Normal sexual orientation? I tell you, I still know a few girls here, the conditions are not bad, want me to introduce you to know know ......?
In fact, the elders are just like the other market moms, they like to "care" about the personal life of the younger generation, even if the life involves "personal privacy", and even sometimes ask some sharp questions.
When we were talking, it got very awkward. In general, I will not be with the elders "general knowledge", are said to be elders, respect elders this point, we still have to do. So we can only have questions and answers, pointed questions, we will ease the point to answer, do not be too glassy-eyed, there is nothing not to say. This is also a kind of "shield" to defuse the awkwardness of pointed questions.
If I really don't want to bring it up, I'll choose to "change the subject".
Like being arranged for a blind date, not a blind date to pull to this kind of sharp topics, do not want to answer, but also can not answer the words, the scene is really very embarrassing, and, more or less, we will have some of these younger generation temper.
So at this time, it may be worthwhile to look around. Talk to you about matchmaking, if it is a female elder, you talk about square dance talk about health, if it is a male elder, you talk about fishing and playing cards with grandchildren ...... to get away from the topic, if it is informed and interested elders, it will not be difficult for you again.
In daily life, there are some relatively sharp topics, they should also consciously avoid to talk about. For example, emotions, diseases, age, income ...... this kind of topic, once mentioned, there will always be some is not willing to talk about each other's content, and involves the other side of the private topics, if forced to talk about, not only is it awkward, sharp, but also may affect the elders with the younger generation of the normal contact between the elders.
For example, ask the elders about their age or illness, asked only to find that it is not very suitable to bring up such a topic, this time, do not apologize, was not put into the heart, was so you say, seems to be quite like that. Instead of some heart diaphragm ......
Directly throw another topic, such as the recent family ethical drama is quite good, you see?