As the saying goes having an old man in the family is a blessing. Having an old man and a child at home is the most valuable blessing of a family and cannot be measured by money. Because only the elderly and children are healthy, the young people in the family will be more motivated to work outside. Back home will also feel very cozy, will also feel that they have a real harbor. If there is a grandpa in the family who is skilled in coaxing children, it is really a very happy and lucky thing.
Today I came home late, and when I got home I found my family already at the table for dinner. My little baby was giggling all the time at the table and was especially happy. I asked Tim's grandfather: ? Dad, why is Little Treasure so happy today? My dad told me: ? I was just doing a magic trick with BaoBao, I asked him to take the beans out of his bowl, but I put them in secretly, so he couldn't finish them, and now he feels curious and funny, especially excited. I felt especially warm when I heard that, because there is an old codger like dad in the family, so my child is also more happy.
It must be said that coaxing children is a technical work, a technical work that requires patience and love. Sometimes even biological parents can not do, have full patience with the child, sometimes biological parents can not coax the child, so many families such a role is grandparents to grandparents to serve. I have to say, there is a child coaxing technology is very good old man on the child is what a happy thing.
The first thing is to take care of the child's work and rest
The child is to go to bed early and get up early, but nowadays, due to the heavy burden of life pressure, many young parents are not able to do to go to bed early. If a child grows up in a state where he often stays up late, it is very detrimental to his height development. Because the child sees that his mother always stays up late, he will also want to stay up late with her. At this time, if there is an elder in the family to take the child to bed, it is very good.
Because older adults usually go to bed earlier and get up earlier, they can take their children out for a little exercise in the morning and put them to bed earlier in the evening. A good routine is invaluable to a child's development, and this is something that younger parents may not be able to do.
And the parents of the work pressure, simply do not have the heart to bring the child, if you play with the child may be a moment will start temper, and the old man has the most patience to take the baby to play, take the baby to sleep, the parents feel at ease with the work on it.
Secondly, the elders have plenty of time
Young parents are often busy earning money, and may not be able to do 100 percent of the care of the child to care for the child's emotions, and may even be too late to teach the child's daily homework. If there is an elderly person in the family, then it can solve these problems. Because the elderly have more time, they can help manage the child's homework and his emotions.
And if there are old people at home, then they will take good care of the child and also supervise the child's homework, as long as the parents explain that the old people have to watch the child to finish his homework, then they will let the child finish his homework before playing.
And then there is the time to play games
In this era of rapid economic development, young parents usually leave early and return late. So even some parents with good financial conditions will choose to give their children to nannies, and if under compelling circumstances, nannies are of course fine. But it's great to have an elderly person at home to help with the kids. The fact that they have a lot of time to play games and do homework with their children not only enhances the intimacy between the elderly and the children, but also gives the young parents a greater sense of security.
My grandfather is an old boy, often take the child to the park to play, teach him to play Tai Chi, exercise, and square dancing at night, busy every day, we are also assured that there is no relationship like the next generation, and the elderly will be fine to learn some of the concepts of parenting, but also will talk about the scientific method of parenting, which is why I will be so much time, you can go out to romanticize with your husband, also It is conducive to enhancing the relationship between husband and wife.