A mistress is a man who has never been married. There are young people of the same age, younger brothers and sisters in love, and older diamond "bachelors". The second marriage to the second marriage is beyond the scope of this article.
First, the same age
It is normal for people of the same age. If you love me, two of a kind will become a family, living in kindness and love, with less external interference and no more psychological pressure, and life will be happy and beautiful.
If it matters, it is whether the woman has children, and everything is fine without children. If you have children, it is not a big problem. As long as men can accept it, it will not become the source of contradictions. Only other reasons, such as different personality and living habits, will disturb and affect the relationship between husband and wife, so I won't go into details here.
Second, brothers and sisters love people who have positive results.
There are two kinds of people:
One is attracted by the maternal love of the goddess sister. True love "age is not a problem", with the care of elder sister, I also want to take care of and protect elder sister. Just like Yang Guo and Little Dragon Girl in the film and television drama Legend of the Condor Heroes.
The big sister in life is generally good in figure and face, sexy, charming and charming. Young men pay more attention to women's sexy and charming figure, and it is a kind of happiness to really marry home.
Maturity does not lie in age, although young, but psychologically mature, manly, with a man's mind, a man's sense of responsibility and mission, married a fairy sister who really loves each other.
He will bear the burden of the family, protect the family, love his wife in front of friends and be a gentleman openly. This marriage can last forever. Will also be blessed by people. Just like Zhang Shuolun's marriage to Christy Chung, he is confident and won't feel anything wrong, and he doesn't have to show anything. Really be a husband and a father.
The other is that the age gap between brothers and sisters and men is too large, and the economic gap is also very large. People will show skepticism about this relationship, and unusual marriages will have unusual public opinion. Since you have chosen to get married, you should be prepared to bear it.
After getting married, after a long time, my husband is under great mental pressure and people live in the secular world. If things go against common sense, public opinion will be greater and the husband's psychology will not be easy to calm down. Even if it is combined with love, under the pressure of public opinion, the happiness of the little husband will be greatly reduced. Even, it won't be long before inferiority complex will occur, and it's not surprising that there is a strange strange bedfellows.
Third, the older single diamond "bachelor"
The marriage between an older single diamond "bachelor" and his second wife mainly depends on the psychological state of this "bachelor".
Older single men have never married, probably because they are not good at social or economic problems, and all the women around them have become brides of others. And because of emotional frustration, I didn't marry a bride, so I had to marry someone else's mother.
In the first two cases, if you marry a mistress, as long as other people's mothers are not disgusted, not too out of line, hardworking and kind, willing to accept, and willing to listen to your wife after marriage, then life can continue, and there is no lack of happy family life.
The latter depends on whether the psychology of the older diamond "bachelor" is within the normal range.
A man with normal psychology, when he came back with his wife, the family suddenly became lively. For a lively man, he is very happy.
My wife is a mature woman, generous, decent and steady, and she doesn't work with income. Don't haggle over every ounce about housework, cherish marriage, inform him of anything that needs to be dealt with, and handle things well at home. I really married a wife who "goes to the hall and goes to the kitchen", so I'm not in a hurry to be happy.
Now, men can cook at home. "If you want to catch her heart, you must catch her stomach." As long as he is tolerant enough to accept each other's children and has a second child policy, this family will be really happy.
If the psychological deviation is big, the problem will be big accordingly. Because from the general situation, men who can't live a family life for a long time have more common psychological disorders.
Such a man is eccentric and critical of people. It doesn't matter whether he raises his stomach or not. The important thing is that his thoughts are too self-centered and his practices are too selfish. He always feels that he has suffered a loss by marrying a mistress. In his family life, he showed "reluctance" everywhere. In the end, family happiness has nothing to do with him, and he can only live a life of one person and one world.
Nowadays, society is becoming more and more tolerant. Since we are getting married, if we really love each other, height is not a problem, location is not a problem, and age is not a problem. It is important that both sides should be open-minded, honest and put themselves in each other's shoes. There is a great possibility of marriage, but they should be narrow-minded and live separately.