Cross-country romance may seem sweet, but in fact, cultural differences can cause many conflicts and be the biggest test. A netizen posted an article online, pointing out that his mother is Japanese and his father is Chinese, and wanted to share with you his mother's 5 points of view on marrying in China.
First, AA. My mother taught me that AA is a natural thing to do in Japan, and it has nothing to do with saving face, it's just a courtesy. Mother thinks it is strange in China that some boys love to invite guests and feel that it is a good face to have dinner with a girl, but after they have invited guests, they will be privately calculating and scolding each other with bad words, thinking that such behavior is false.
Second, about after marriage. "Once married, you are a slave." Mother thinks that Chinese daughter-in-law is a wonderful existence, the status may sometimes even lower than the nanny, often feel disrespect, think that Chinese family culture has many bad habits, and like to count money, in short, can not suffer.
Third, between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law. Deeply feel the cultural gap between the two countries, in Japan, the mother-in-law can ask the daughter-in-law to do things, but the daughter-in-law can do according to their own ideas, or even can argue. But in China, mothers say that fathers usually follow the opinions of their elders, don't stand up for their wives, and strangely demand that women have to pay for their own families.
Fourth, it's always better to be someone else's.
The fifth, about etiquette actually cares a lot.
The original article also said that Japanese people are actually very xenophobic, but it's possible that the father is particularly bad, or maybe all Chinese boys are really like that? This article also caused heated debate, many netizens commented "AA system is very good, blogger's mother's education is good", "writing is very real", but there are also people think that "the social customs of each country are different, you can not be so generalized! ".