I have no time to go to my mother-in-law's birthday, but my husband let my mother to cook, should I divorce?

Living life on living life, are to be tolerant of each other to tolerate, where there is a fairy tale in that sweet? The first thing you need to do is to get a divorce, so why did you get married in the first place? It's just a joke. Not just make a meal, do not stay together after dinner to eat and liaise with the feelings of well, what is the reason to divorce?

First, do not take marriage as child's play, couples should understand and respect each other

First of all, we have to fully understand each other before getting married, conditions allow more understanding of each other's families, so as to avoid unnecessary conflicts and disputes after marriage. Although today's society lives in a fast-paced, many people are only home during the New Year's Eve dating, recognize a few days on the flash marriage, but this marriage is just helpless, We can reject this form, you can choose not to be abused.

Secondly, when we formally married, on behalf of the heart has been mutually agreed with each other, marriage is sacred, that the wedding ceremony is not only for you to collect money, it is to witness the two people to the happiness of the important ceremony , which explains the marriage after the day to be supported by each other, each other, each other, each other, each other rely on.

And then, after the marriage of your mother-in-law's birthday, do you think it is appropriate to use the excuse of overtime not to go? Is this overtime really more important than your mother-in-law's birthday? Even if in your eyes it is really more important than your mother-in-law's birthday,then you can say hello to your husband and mother-in-law and explain the reason, it is also possible.

After all, it's work, and everyone understands.

And then, if you don't go to your mother-in-law's birthday party due to work, your husband let your mother go to your mother-in-law's marriage to cook, isn't it a normal thing to do? Do you think this is a case of your husband using your mother as a laborer?

This kind of verbalization is to let your mother to cook, but will not let her alone just cooking, right? At the very least it would make her stay and eat and celebrate with her as well.

Or maybe it's just a lie to cook, the real purpose is to invite your in-laws' mother over to celebrate your birthday and bonding, which is a very normal thing to do.

Secondly, learn to think differently, when things first think twice before deciding

We think differently again, if it is your own mother's birthday, and then your husband to work overtime to not come to participate in, but also do not let their own families over, You are not going to be angry, and then the idea of divorce?

Or would it be appropriate for your husband to file for divorce from you because of this? Inexplicable no?

Two people partner life, sometimes not perfect, to think differently, tolerance and understanding of each other, so that the marriage will not be too tired.

If it is catty, a little bit of small things to make a big deal, then it really suggests an early divorce, don't delay your husband, may be more suitable for single life, there will not be so many miscellaneous troubles.

Finally:

Two unrelated people combined into a family, will have to face the wind and rain together, it is necessary to come up with trust, mutual respect, tolerance and understanding of each other , so that the road to marriage may be a long time to go on.