If someone accuses you of not letting you sit down, you can say, "I'm sorry! My pregnancy reaction is too strong, and I am afraid to vomit on you. "
At present, the seats in bus compartments are generally divided into red, orange and ordinary gray or blue. Generally, the red and orange seats are concentrated on the left and right sides in the middle of the car, and there will be no more than seven old cars. Now there are fewer seats in the middle three rows of new pure electricity, and basically all of them can have seats. Unless it is difficult to mix seats during rush hours, everyone can basically find a seat in Feng Ping. Just now you said your own personal experience. Everyone may have special circumstances. If we get on the bus when we are really uncomfortable that day, we will sit in the seats for the elderly. Then when an old man gets on the bus, we will directly explain to the old man that I have some situation today and I can't give you my seat. I think the old people will understand us, or see a seat in the back of the car, and we will sit in the back. Ordinary old people like to sit in the front and middle of the car. Because they move slowly, it is also to save time for everyone. Another aspect is that the middle of the car is the most stable. Because the rear of the car is the most bumpy on the bumpy road, the old man is unwilling to go to the back. I think as long as you are uncomfortable and express your discomfort directly, maybe the old man will still care about you!
Let's discuss the definition first. The definition of Bo 'ai block is aimed at the old, weak, women and children, because their physical condition may fall down on the running bus and endanger their health.
No matter how strong people are, they will be in an uncomfortable state, so they are considered as "weak" groups and are eligible to sit in the fraternity. The next step is to do this:
One, someone is sitting, you can tell me directly, politely and weakly that I just finished the operation and I am very weak. Can you let me sit down?
Second, no one sat down, just sat down, but when the child or the old man came, he said bluntly, politely and feebly, I'm sorry, I just finished surgery and need to sit and rest.
Personally, I think that as long as you are weaker than the other person, you need to sit and rest more. This is a relative problem. Under normal circumstances, the other party should have no problem.
If in extreme cases, the other person thinks he is an old man, he must force you to stand up and give up your seat. Well, you can't, just sit and wait for the police to judge.
Or the other person squints at you and just doesn't stand up and ask you to sit down, then you have to turn to the next door and ask for a seat because you need to sit down. In this society, someone should give up his seat.
If I feel uncomfortable, I will give it to those who are really old and inconvenient. Apart from these two points, I won't let go. I feel uncomfortable myself, such as carsick, and I want to sit for a while.
In fact, I am often given up my seat by old people, which makes me very moved. The reason is that I sometimes take my children to the car, and there are no seats in the car, so there will be old people to let them sit. I was embarrassed, repeatedly shirking, and the other party repeatedly comity. So, if I meet an old man who doesn't sit, I will let him out.
I think it's better to be selfish to travel by bus. Allow the old, the weak and the sick to let you go, but you can't let them go. When you are a passenger, you will feel uncomfortable. I have this experience. I was standing when you got on the bus. You kindly give way to others, and he takes the opportunity to squeeze you, leaving you with no place to stand. Nowadays, people are much more selfish. It seems like the end of the world.
The film "Search" mainly tells the story of a female white-collar worker who didn't give up her seat to an old man on the bus after she got cancer, which later triggered a series of effects. In fact, our nation is deeply influenced by Confucianism, that is, respecting the old and loving the young, being modest and tolerant. If you feel uncomfortable, you should clearly remind the elderly who are waiting for a seat, because you need to sit more and you should be understood. At the same time, discuss with the person sitting next to you to give your seat to the old man. This is the most reasonable way.
I hate those who sell their old age by old people. They are alive and kicking in the square dance. Let others give up their seats as soon as you get on the bus. Young people are under great pressure now, and they are tired after a day's work. Don't you understand?
Whether you should give your seat to the elderly when you are uncomfortable by bus depends on the specific situation. Because I am the kind of person who needs help.
Now every time I take the bus, I can hear the radio saying, please give your seat to the elderly and passengers in need. Although I am not an old man, I am in poor health, so I am a passenger in need, and there is no need to give up my seat.
One day in the autumn of 20 13, my son and I went to the city to do business. My son has a broken pinkie joint in his right hand and a bandage on his arm. As there were no seats on the bus, we all stood in the corridor.
At this time, an aunt sitting next to me stood up and asked my son to sit down. The son politely declined his aunt.
Giving up your seat on the bus is an old topic. There is a lot of friction on the bus because of giving up your seat, but some people still make noise and even hit people because of giving up their seats on the bus.
Not long ago, I saw a video in which a boy was beaten by an old man for not giving up his seat. An old man who has the strength to hit people, but has no strength to stand for one or two stops until he gets off the bus and has a seat?
A few days ago, an old man bullied a little girl on the bus because she wouldn't give up her seat. If someone gives up his seat, he will take the girl's seat, saying that the girl has occupied the old people's seat.
Who said that the yellow seats on the bus are reserved for the elderly? They are reserved for the elderly, children, pregnant women and the disabled. There is nothing wrong with the little girl sitting there.
Now some old people are very selfish, and sometimes they can't tell the reason clearly. Therefore, when the old people importune, even if they are in poor health, they should stay away. Otherwise, old people have high blood pressure or heart disease, which is not generous and kind. If there is an accident, it is your responsibility.
In recent days, I saw several old people quarreling with others one after another, and finally they all fell ill and died.
You said you had a quarrel with others, and their family said you made the old man angry. Did you say it yourself? Are you clear?
In short, when you meet a strange old man outside, you don't know each other's situation, so once there is friction, apologize to the old man quickly, and then leave, don't entangle with the old man.
Not weakness, but protecting yourself. If the old man insists that you give up your seat, get up and stand for a while. Don't make trouble for yourself, because some troubles may ruin you.
It is the virtue of the Chinese nation to give your seat to those in need on the bus. Everyone has an obligation to help the "old, weak, sick and pregnant". Not only do we give up our seats on the bus, but there are also many places where we should respect the old and love the young. Then, many young people think that not every old man is inconvenient to move, and he is energetic to walk by himself. Why did they give up their seats?
In fact, the truth of this matter is obvious, because the old man looks healthy on the surface, but after all, his body looks aging. There is no comparison with the physical quality of young people. Do we young people still have sub-health? So old people don't have to be very weak, so they have to give up their seats.
Because the general physical function of the elderly will decline, in such a crowded environment as public transportation, there may be special circumstances such as falling and flashing. Therefore, the elderly are high-risk groups. In this chaotic and uncertain bus environment, we young people have the obligation to provide a safe and stable environment for the elderly. It is obviously much safer to sit there than to stand.
Most people in our society still respect the elderly. Of course, young people do have unspeakable hardships, that is, office workers in the morning and evening rush hours, especially some long-distance buses. The whole journey takes more than two hours. And generally this kind of long-distance bus will be supervised by a special person. Many young people who go to work will wait in line for half an hour or more in the morning to find a seat. At this time, they sit for two stops, and an old man will come in front, eager to pretend to sleep.
Hehe, there is no need to pretend to sleep. You can stand up and let the old man sit first. Just make it clear to the old man that you will give me my seat back when you get down, because I have to take more than a dozen stops. I believe the old man will remember your difficulties and understand them. I'll call you when I get off, and the problem will be solved. If the old man stands next to him, I can't sleep anyway.
This is a commonplace question. Let's be each other, not make it our responsibility. Of course, if you are uncomfortable, you can leave it alone. If you don't want it, don't pretend to be uncomfortable, which will make you feel guilty.