The next-door neighbor, Auntie Liu, has been in poor spirits lately, often walking absentmindedly, and when she encounters someone who takes the initiative to say hello to her, she is also too sickly to speak up.
In my impression, Auntie Liu is an active person who likes to happily invite her friends to go to the square dance every day, but she has suddenly turned into such an appearance, so she must have encountered a lot of blows recently.
By chance, I met Auntie Liu's daughter-in-law while waiting for the elevator, and I realized that the old lady was cheated by a public welfare organization of 20,000 yuan, and she was a little depressed.
But for Auntie Liu, being cheated out of 20,000 dollars is a small matter, the real blow to her, is that she trusted each other so much, but suffered a ruthless deception.
The other side of the salesman is an old lady with her years, enthusiastic and eloquent, the two people like to see each other nagging all the family life, and every day to meet with the square dance, jumping jumping, Aunt Liu's money jumped to the other side of the pocket.
The money was cheated away the next day, Aunt Liu foolishly in the square from sunset to the night jumped like water, but did not wait for the appearance of the person, she did not know where the other side lives, hit the phone prompted the other side has been turned off. At this point has been a yellow crane is gone, but Aunt Liu still feel that the other party just missed the appointment, not a breach of trust, and even worried about the other party is not what happened in the accident.
Half a month later, Aunt Liu finally stopped fantasizing, began to regret sadness, hate is that they actually did not see through that kind eyes behind the wolf who eats people and does not spit out bones, sadness is that they are so gullible to trust others, so that the blow is so unforeseen touching the heart.
The reason why the liar is able to cheat people, it is because there is a pair of harmless and sincere look and let a person irresistible mouth spitting lotus, if there is no such a perfect disguise, will not a glance will be seen through? And the liar is not divided into age and size, more with the gender has nothing to do, so to anyone, can not be gullible.
02
When I was in college, I heard my best friend mention that she met a guy online in the same dormitory, and the two of them quickly fell in love and met in his city.
The whole dormitory did their best to stop Xiao Le's adventure, thinking that love in the virtual world is unreliable, and that if they really wanted to meet for fear of missing out on their destiny, they would have to ask him to come over, instead of just going to his appointment.
But the love of the mind of the Xiaole firmly believe that her good man is a top of the good man, worthy of their own trekking to go after, so finally defied the opposition of the people embarked on the train.
What happened after the two met is unknown, but since Xiaole came back, she burned everything related to him and never mentioned this love again. She often stares at a place in a daze, sometimes shedding tears, sometimes laughing in despair, and at night still keep her eyes wide open, her eyes are empty and godless.
The crowd panicked and informed Xiaole's parents to come. The parents took her to a lot of hospitals and psychiatrists, and in the end, there was nothing they could do. As teachers, the parents even invited the street fortune tellers to exorcise her, but she always kept her mouth shut, and her mental condition got worse and worse.
Xiaole took a break from school because she became a bit autistic and had low self-esteem, and was afraid of meeting strangers. No one knows what kind of blow a flowery girl suffered in this originally supposed to be beautiful love date, because of her silence, the world has one more headless case and one more sad family.
Later, I vaguely heard that Xiao Le, after more than two years of treatment and psychological counseling, her mental state is much better, that is, occasionally there will be some bigotry and truthfulness, and her temper is a bit big. I think she is still lucky, at least she still has a chance to get out of the gloomy days, to meet the sunshine of life again.
And how many innocent and lovely girls in this world because of the gullibility of a love was cheated and cheated ultimately lost their lives, such a tragedy we have heard less?
Girls, even if you are how much how the heart, so so fervently in love with a person, the first thing to learn is to protect themselves.
03
There are three kinds of people are most likely to be targeted by scammers, the elderly, women and children, these three types of people, whether from the physical or psychological aspects, are vulnerable, and therefore need to get more attention from society and protection.
A few days ago, I watched the second season finale of "Joyful Comedian" and was touched by the performances of Happy Mahjong with sincerity, so by the way, I revisited the wonderful programs of the first season. And of all the programs in the first season, I think the most meaningful one is the one staged by Happy Mahua on children's anti-trafficking education.
Children are the most physically and intellectually challenged of all vulnerable groups, and are therefore the easiest targets for the bad guys. The day before yesterday in the World Park will test the operation of the scene saw a vicissitude of the father with a photo in search of a few years ago lost children, he looked haggard eyes sad, in the face of the crowd of onlookers but firm will.
The son of this old township was cheated away by a strange man in a black car in front of his house in 2012, and after this tragedy, the whole family was almost destroyed, and he, as the backbone of the family, had to grit his teeth and beat the spirit of running around in various cities to look for his son. But so far he has not been found.
That night, my circle of friends was brushed by the old township, commenting on a variety of wishes and a variety of "human traffickers should be executed by capital punishment" and other comments. Whether or not the traffickers will be caught and whether or not they will be sentenced to death after being caught is something that most of us, as civilians, have no control over.
But we can call on the whole society to pay attention to the children's anti-trafficking education, to reduce the tragedy, and the first anti-trafficking education, is not to trust others. Others, including strangers, as well as acquaintances.
But in fact, the prevention of acquaintances can not be ignored. In remote areas, many children are trafficked by acquaintances, and in the case of sexual assault against girls, most of the perpetrators are not strangers. Our mindset tends to be that strangers are the scariest and familiar people won't harm me, so people around us are more likely to get our trust and therefore more likely to hurt us.
04
I know many people will refute me, the world is still more good people, with people to get along with each other to be sincere, why should we guard each other?
In the end, there are not many good people in the world, or more good people than bad people in the end a few percentage points, there is no data available, so I believe that "there are many good people in the world" is our good hope. Maybe the truth is that there are not many good people in the world, and there are not many bad people in the world, but there are a lot of ordinary people who are not good or not bad.
But the good and the bad, the good and the evil, is just a matter of thought, we have contacted the people in our life, really can do each other to be convinced that there are only a few, most of the people are just our acquaintances, but not the trust of the people.
Trust is something that needs to be done, and if you don't have enough of it, you'll have to do a lot of work to get it done. What is the appropriate trust, I think we *** at a wooden bridge, the night is deep, the moonlight is bright, you and I are always three meters away, you can not hurt me, I can not hurt you, and occasionally turn around, we can be at peace and smile.
We didn't grow up in an era where we can trust others with our hearts and souls, nor do we have a sound enough social mechanism to protect the health and safety of our parents' children, and when we are unfortunate enough to encounter injuries on a certain day to try to speak out and defend our rights, you'll find that the road is long and full of torment and a sense of powerlessness.
Do not believe everything and do not doubt everything. I believe that the Peach Blossom era will eventually come, but definitely not today. We can continue to appeal to the voice, and strive to make the world become a heart to heart without deception and harm, but in this peach blossom dream is not realized before, we must first learn to protect themselves.
Aunt Liu accidentally met the old lady, Xiaole net love boyfriend, they are called a see like a chat, each other more familiar, but should be the words, the beginning of a beautiful and the end of the scribble, not just scribble it is simply a chicken feather full of barren, almost evolved into a human tragedy.
The pain of losing a child that I encountered in my hometown is really a tragedy. I hope that this tragedy will eventually have a happy ending, and I hope that the child can come back tomorrow, but I hope that everyone around us can be more cautious about tomorrow, and less gullible about people.
Because gullibility is the heaviest negative energy in the world.