According to the Internet, the proportion of sibling love has exceeded 40%, of which 51% after 90.
Why is sibling love increasing?
Starting from the traditional marriage, women used to lack independence, mostly relying on men to subsidize their finances, and women thus guarded their children and raised them.
As society develops more and more rapidly, the times are all welcoming, women's independence is more and more powerful, can already be invincible alone, no longer dependent on men.
Or, women in today's and men have been equal, and even some women than the man inside is still strong, so it also achieved a lot of brotherly love.
The old husband and young wife naturally will not be discussed, nowadays women do not have the luxury to ask for material security from men, they are in the age of struggle, miss too much, so also eager to find a young handsome male as a boyfriend.
And men's ideological awareness is also high, in the face of women older than their own age, do not exclude, relative to the same age, older women are more sexy, mature, more likely to let men fall in love.
But that doesn't mean that all sibling relationships will be successful, like the one we'll talk about next.
36-year-old sister: I'm the founder of a beauty salon, I've been busy with my career, missed a lot of romance, or simply do not have time to fall in love.
Last year, I talked about a boyfriend, he is a 94-year-old boy, cheerful, treating people sweet, he and I met on a blind date.
At first, I always regarded him as a younger brother, after all, we are nine years apart, and never thought about that.
When I realized that I was still single, he chased my crazy strength really moved heaven and earth, those romantic confession, only on TV, I did not expect to appear in reality.
Six months, I finally could not help but accept the fact that he did my boyfriend.
After the family knew, urged us to get married, he was also very positive, said he would be good to me for life, told me not to have concerns.
In such a relationship in the cycle, I have been not young, married and have children are already late, so sex determined to get married!
In this way, we know from the marriage, a year all the way through the process, it is also a waste of time.
After marriage, we *** with life to realize that we really have a generation gap, before not living under the same roof, can not be seen, and now it is shown to the fullest.
Since we got married, he did not work, and I still take care of their own beauty salon, sometimes I work overtime to 11 o'clock, a door he is still playing games, I called him to take a bath and go to bed, he is also um, ah should be, did not pay attention at all.
His routine is pretty much, sleep during the day, play games all night, and when I go to work, it's time for him to sleep.
I even questioned him, when chasing me that energy where gone? Why did you work so hard before, but now you are disheveled?
"You said the studio is so profitable, you are not unable to afford me, why do I have to work so hard to go out to work, and then I will not do your studio thing ah!"
27 years old, in fact, in a sense, has not been small, but rather I, so old, actually looked away.
In the next month, I was even more furious, he even brought his classmates and friends to the house to have a party, as well as the opposite sex, and the most outrageous thing is that they do not have a sense of distance at all.
My reason for getting married is very simple, one is to live a good life, and then strive to give birth to a son and a half a daughter, I will be satisfied; two is to think that I have met the true love, a don't mind that I am older than him, and can tolerate my man. It seems that I am naive.
Just the day before yesterday, a group of them were dancing and singing at home, and I went home at 11:45 before they met and left.
And he, my husband, took advantage of the drunkenness and forced me to have sex with him, although it is a husband and wife, but you have to be willing!
For this I am very angry, directly to the table on the fruit plate thrown at him, but he was drunk and spit out the truth "friends and classmates say I was a rich woman package, so let them see clearly."
Inexplicable words heard my face confused, at this moment, I realize how wrong their choice, I am determined to divorce him, but he wants me to share half of the property to him.
We are married less than five months, he ate my, with my, but also spend my, and now want to share the family property with me, it is really ridiculous.
We not only can't live together, but also can't live in peace between husband and wife, and even a wife should get the favor, I haven't enjoyed it.
It can be said that I have not even enjoyed the taste of being a woman, and here in my husband, I really do not get.
The husband and wife thing, most of them are forced by him, we live in the day, a life in the night, a 36-year-old, a 27-year-old, originally should not be stirred up in the two together, but hurt each other.
Yesterday, he begged me not to divorce, saying that he was drunk and said nonsense, in fact, very much love me.
After listening to me feel funny, we have been impossible, I can accept that he did not work, I can accept to support him, but at least he has to be like a man.
Every day decadent life, undoubtedly is a chronic suicide, if our marriage is such a marriage, I do not think there is a need to continue.
In fact, I do not have much hatred for him, just we are not suitable, we pursue the goal, the pursuit of life are different, we are like in the right time met the wrong person.
The so-called sibling love, if there is no feelings to do the foundation, it is best not to be as abrupt as I am, marriage is never two people *** with the maintenance, rather than a person to carry.
The most deadly gap between us is not age, but psychological, he does have some some capricious, and I, as a woman, I do not want to raise a son, I want a husband of the hall.
Indeed, the heroine is more mature than the hero, she has a thorough sense of life, perhaps it is single for a long time, the inner vulnerability, only to be touched by the hero's confession, and then impulsive under the two people married.
The reason why they started off with a bang, hating the overnight white head, this is the human psyche of some kind of desire, when the desire to dissipate, the real side of the show, they will regret.
In general, too much enthusiasm for something, it is generally difficult to long, because the feelings will be after the passion into the flat period, grasp the bad easily broken.
Not only brother and sister love, all marriages, all relationships, emotions, are so, this is also a test of both sides of the fate of the moment.
Generally speaking, our women are looking for the other half, will hope that the other side is more mature, more capable of some, so that they can deal with all aspects of things, women, no matter how old she is, her need for the other half, must give themselves enough security.
So, in the sister-brother love affair, the age of the obstacle is not a problem in itself, the psychological age of the match, and whether to meet the psychological needs is the most important.
In this issue of gender, whether it is communication, or age, mental maturity, etc., will directly affect the two people whether the key factors of harmony. --END--