Adolescent young girls like to compare with each other, which is normal and understandable, but if a woman has entered middle age and is still blindly comparing with others every day, even if you are jeweled, it will not make people feel high-end, but will make people think that you are a vulgar aunt.
Why do you say that? Everyone should say that when a woman has a strong vanity, it is very easy for her to speak insincerely, beat around the bush and be sarcastic, and she needs to make up her mind every three sentences. This kind of woman will look very camp, without connotation and thoughtlessness, and she can't help showing off a little good product. In the long run, it will give people a frivolous feeling. Therefore, if a woman wants to live with a high sense, she must first learn to give up unnecessary vanity. Even if she has money in her pocket, she won't shake her clothes and pants. Don't show off because of vanity, and you won't be arrogant under any circumstances. It will not only make people feel very heroic, but also make them live a self-satisfied life.
02, don't pay attention to the combination of rigidity and softness.
Many women are diligent to others, but lazy to themselves, especially most middle-aged women. They are very diligent about housework or husband and children, but they are busy with skin care and making hydrating masks. When women reach middle-aged and elderly people, collagen will flow out at a speed visible to the naked eye. If they don't pay attention to maintenance, they will get old quickly. If they look old and tired, they won't be considered advanced. In addition to skin care, middle-aged women should also have a sense of advanced, and physical exercise should not be sloppy. They can go to the gym to do some simple exercise, or dance square dance happily. Are very good choices. If people exercise, their mental outlook will improve and they will see a high-quality feeling.
03. Solve negative emotions.
Once a person is negative, everything seems timid. No matter how famous clothes he wears and how expensive jewelry he wears, it shows that he can't be a noble, but it will give people a feeling of mismatch. Many women still don't have their own ideas and overall plans when they reach middle-aged and old age. They revolve around their husbands and children every day because of all kinds of trivial things, which not only makes their families fidgety, but also consumes their kinetic energy. If women are in a negative situation for a long time, they need to come out immediately, otherwise everything will lose interest and hope and become more and more depressed.