The generation after 70 in the countryside, in their 40s to 50s, with the old and the young, will face some difficult problems, it is useless to escape, be brave to face it, and prepare for it earlier!
First of all, the parents of the old age problem, although you can receive a pension, but the amount is limited, in our side seems to be under 80 years old is 80 dollars, according to today's standard of living, which is simply not enough, if it is not good health, it is even worse, but they are outside the earning money, so filial piety and earning money how to choose? This is one of the problems.
Secondly, their own problems, forty or fifty years old, as a migrant worker age is very large, and then large it is difficult to find a job, can not find a job after what to earn a living, and then after 20 years of their old age and how to old age, relying on the children that is really too difficult to deal with, this is the problem of the second.
Again, the problem of children, the older to the age of marriage, in the countryside, the birth of a daughter is okay, if the birth of a son that will have to open up to find a daughter-in-law, in our side of the countryside, gift money is all the way up, there is no a few hundred thousand that is not possible, there is no money that will have to borrow, pay back the money is the responsibility of their own body, and later on, by what to pay back the money. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and then you can get your hands on some of the most popular ones.
Finally, how to get along with their children, after all, there is a gap in age, their children to receive education is certainly more than their own, three different views, there is a generation gap, how to solve and had to be a problem.
What's the point of complaining! Every generation has its own difficulties, only to face them bravely!
I am the rural 770s.
As my future days I do not dare to think, can only take one step to say one step, why do I say so, I say my current situation.
First, there are old people at home who can not take care of themselves.
Second, the family has a child in college, and still a boy, graduated from college, but also to marry, buy a house.
Third, is that now we have a lot of people in rural areas to pay for their own pension insurance, and I did not pay on, a year of farming food money can only maintain the status quo life, go to the factory to work at home, the elderly and can not leave the person, year-round on the cost of this food money for the children to go to school, as well as the old man's health, year after year, just so maintain.
Now I'm 50 years old, and in a few years the land is not planted, the pension insurance is not paid.
Currently in front of me after their own old age is the most difficult problem.
The years have gone by in a hurry, and in the blink of an eye, we have reached the age of five. To this age group of rural 70, the burden on the body is not light, the pressure faced by the problem has been in front of the front, can not afford to think about it, has come to the front.
These pressure problems are also those we must face after 70 years of rural!
I'm going to say this for you to hear.
In the first place, the problem is: the old age of the parents.
It's also a problem that our generation of post-70s must now face. As we all know, the parents of the post-70s, now almost all 70 to go up. Due to the young for the children, for the family, hard work, hard work, more or less have some problems, the body is still a little better, life can take care of themselves, the children are also easier, but also can go outside to work to earn money.
And those who have had a serious illness, have done some surgery of the elderly, long-term need to be taken care of, can only stay at home to take care of the elderly, a person to go out to work to earn money. Compared to two people working together to earn money, the income can be much less.
Income is less, and there are patients to take care of, the days are not easy, the pressure can be imagined.
This problem is also the primary problem faced now.
The second challenge is the problem of children starting a family.
In the countryside, it is difficult to get a wife. The woman's family not only has to be good, good family, but also has to have a house in the city, the family has a car.
I remember hearing a saying: first buy a house, then buy a car, but also have a boss father.
Although this sounds bad, but this is the reality, the real problem in front of you.
If someone introduces a child to the object, the woman's family will first ask the city to buy a house without, how the family conditions, the boy has a job without, do what mile. If these conditions are in line with the woman's family agreed, this is the first step, the back of the problem is more, the house decoration with money, bride price money, the wedding banquet and so on a series of subsequent problems, you are to face.
All of this to do well, are inseparable from a word: money
Although the money is not everything, but when you do things, no money is all right.
This is the problem that the 70s in the countryside will have to face in the future!
Thinking about the generation of the post-70s in the countryside, it's really not easy, there are old people to support, and children to start a family, so the pressure is not generally big.
You can only do hard work, dirty work and tired work, regardless of the dry, at the expense of their own bodies desperately trying to earn money, in order to give the son to marry on the daughter-in-law, into a family. The first thing you need to do is to get your hands on some of the most popular products and services in the world, and you'll be able to do that.
Rural generation after 70, almost from scratch, dry out, one step at a time, by their own efforts to today.
That much wind and waves have been experienced, today facing these problems and what is it!
As long as their closest relatives live well, live happy, we these 70 years after the suffering is worth it!
The 70s in the countryside, let's work together, together for the family to protect the wind and rain, to do the family's best support! Cheer up!
I am a working person, very happy to answer this question. As a rural 70, careful counting is now running 5 people. People to middle age, on the old, under the small. There are a lot of things to worry about and a lot of problems to face.
Parents old age problem40 years old after 70, now the age of parents are almost 70 years old. Rural 70-year-olds, although they can still barely take care of themselves, but with the growing age, there are bound to be many difficulties.
After 70 children, most of them are working or working outside, very little time to go home, not to mention at home to take care of their parents, filial piety. As an only child, the age of parents grows, the problem of parents' old age must be faced immediately. Moreover, the age of both parents will certainly not be too different, 4 old people's old age problem, think about it will feel a headache.
Children's issues70 children are now many have become adults, either still studying, or working, are facing the problem of starting a family. As a rural parent, the scene is working outside, rarely accompanied by children. Now that their children have grown up, they want to give their children as much help as possible.
Children get married, the man many have to prepare a new house, the car. These are not cheap things, many people work for decades, may be for the child, will spend all the savings. This is also a difficult problem that the post-70s will have to face and solve immediately.
The problem of their own developmentPeople in their middle age, if they are working farmers, may be more and more physically unable to eat, work more and more difficult. Years of physical labor may bring a lot of hidden problems to their bodies. If your own body collapses, what will the family do? The parents are older, may need to take care of their own, back to the rural areas to take care of their parents, how to solve the problem of income?
The post 70s in the countryside now have to face the problem of the old man's old age, the problem of the child starting a family, and some of their own difficulties. These are all difficulties that many post-70s have faced or will face soon. In short, as a farmer, all the problems are also the problem of income. If farmers can have a stable income, can give their families a decent life, all these problems can be solved.
Hello questioner, thank you for your concern for rural farmers after 70, the face of the current problems faced by the 70, I am more than 50 after 60 farmers, have had personal experience, here first send rural farmers young friends a sentence, young and strong do not work hard, the old futile sadness
Each stage has a different energy at each stage, the 2O years old to 30 years old, OO after the growth of young people, the young people after the growth of young people
Each stage has a different energy, 2O years old to 30 years old OO after the growth of the youth stage, looking for a partner stage, energetic and very vigorous, but the idea is not mature enough to continue to work hard to learn all aspects of dealing with people, work and labor knowledge of the mastery of the stage of progress,
Into the 30-odd years of age, 8O to 90 born people, into the early years of middle age, the energy began to solidify, all kinds of knowledge basically to be mature, it is the time to make progress, this time do not Seize the opportunity to work hard, will be left behind, because we have to face the problem of children's education, but also to pay the debt, to share the responsibility for their parents, after all, to get a wife, their own family to build a house, where does the money come from, the farmers rely on the hard income of this hard income of money, very few people do not owe foreign debt, this time the parents after all, there are only more than 50, not accidentally still okay, a family of concerted efforts, the power to break the gold
In terms of the existing after 70 births People, between 40 and 50 years old, this time parents are already elderly, their physical strength than 40 years ago so flexible, but also than 40 years ago so strong, the burden on the body, but heavier, to consider for their children to start a family, the son's marriage, but also to build a new house or buy a new house, 40 years old before the knot tired of funds, can solve the problem is good, if not knot tired of funds to solve the problem, that is the The pressure is no less than any other time, children, daughters-in-law, son-in-law, the sad thing is fine, you can worry less, but if the younger generation who do not know what they are talking about, the money spent indiscriminately, do not use to the right way, then the tears can only be swallowed, but also have to work hard to swallow the anger for the sake of the whole family, for the sake of the future generations what else can be done, is not to leave the matter alone? And do not serve this loss of gas, in vain for life parents, suffering life, no matter how difficult it is also have to make every effort to carry, lest people laugh at us useless, the rural after 60 after 70 people ah, is the people of the country's most difficult to live with
Some people often talk about the rural old age, as if the old man life don't know how much money can be used, 50 years ago the birth of the elderly in rural areas, suffered from the hardships of living frugal, love of labor, they A year with not much money, their own food on 10 yuan a day, even if 10 yuan a day, but only 36OO yuan a year, the government has a subsidy of 10OO yuan, only 2OOO more than money, good health can help to work, planting vegetables and so on to reduce the family's expenses, can bring up the children, but also to help the children to wash the clothes paddle clothes, to help with household chores, do not count the money? How much does all this cost your children? The ungrateful children and grandchildren hate the old man, the filial children and grandchildren love the old man
In fact, the biggest difficulty is the burial of the old man, but it takes more than 60,000 yuan, or the old man is sick and needs to be taken care of, and it is worth considering the problem
Sentiments, a rural family farmers, must be thrifty and frugal, abstaining from gambling, abstaining from sex, abstaining from tie-ups, and hard work, a family unity is still hopeful not to be afraid of, (Gambling), ten gambling, nine losing, and one only pigs. I used to gamble and lose hundreds of thousands of dollars, if I use it for my old age, I am sure that I will live a happy and easy life, I have experienced that gambling is not a good thing, I quit now
They are all only children, not to mention the next generation. The next generation, just above them there are four old people. Now they have a child below them who is about to be employed, and an elderly person above them who needs to be taken care of soon, so they have a big headache!
The biggest problem facing the post-70s generation in the countryside is the difficulty of finding employment and the problem of old age.
I'm a post 70's generation, and now I'm a middle-aged man in my forties. The rural 70s is the most difficult generation, born in the era of the People's Commune Collective, wait until the time to share the land to the household after school to help their parents labor, it is difficult to go to school and graduate, catching up with the reform, the state does not package distribution.
After the 70s, the largest fifty years old, the smallest is 40 years old. People of this age are not only physically tired, but also mentally tired. With the growth of age, physical strength and energy began to decline, rural physical work has been more than enough and not enough, the age of the migrant workers is a big reason, a lot of jobs are in need of young comprehensive strong staff, 70 after the learning ability is weak, can be qualified for the position of very few, so difficult to find employment is a major problem.
Then there is the problem of old age. Now it is impossible to raise children to prevent old age, now the children do not chew the old on the good, do not expect the children to pension, so the old age must rely on our own, the rural 70s, most of them do not have a pension, so we have to work hard to earn money for their own old age problem to plan.
People to the age of confusion, I hope that after the 70s we adjust the mentality, take good care of the body, life has pain and joy. Welcome to the friends after the 70s to come together to interact and exchange a little.
The post-70s generation in the countryside is now in an awkward period of life. Because of the old and the young, they are the pillar of the whole family. But they are now also running fifty people, most of the cultural level is not high, are based on manual labor to earn money to support the family.
As a post 70s generation in the countryside, what are the challenges in front of them?
First, the problem of various large sums of money required for the marriage of children.Now the 70s themselves are nearly 50 years old, and most of their sons and daughters are of marriageable age. Now rural marriage must buy a house, buy a car, and then there is a large amount of bride price money, which is like a mountain on the body for the generation after 70s. In the face of the high cost of marriage, the 70s can have how much family money, to give the child to complete a decent wedding?
In itself, the gender imbalance in our society is such that as long as our children are able to find a partner, no matter how many conditions the woman puts forward, we have to do our best to meet their requirements. But they don't have much savings, and even if they borrow some money from relatives and friends, and barely get their children's weddings off the ground, they'll still be left with a lot of debt. This is for the 70's later said, no doubt have to work to make up for this hole.
Second, the two old age problem.Nowadays, the 70s are nearly fifty people, and both of their parents are nearly seventy to eighty years old. The four old people's old age problem is also a big financial burden. Most of the elderly at this age have lost their ability to work, if they are in good health and can take care of themselves in their daily lives, they can relieve some of the burden on their children. However, for some old people who cannot take care of themselves, they cannot leave their families at all times. Their food and drink, clothing, food and shelter, all need to children to take care of.
Money is not omnipotent, but no money is never. As a son or daughter of the 70s, even if you have the heart in front of the parents to do filial piety, but also do not have the financial ability. If you don't go out to work to earn money, then what other economic sources can support this family? The post-70s are now at a very awkward age. Even if they try their best, it is still difficult for them to balance the relationship between work and family. These are the real problems that the post 70s have to face.
Third, they will soon face the problem of old age and medical care.The post 70s are now taking care of the daily expenses of their family. The wages earned from manual labor are all taken out to support the family and take care of the family's affairs, and there is no savings at all. As they get older and older, they do not have pension insurance, so how will they solve their retirement problems in the future? Because of the heavy physical labor they have to do all year round, coupled with worrying about the family's affairs of all sizes, their health is getting worse and worse every day. This will make their health condition deteriorate every day, and their future working life may become more and more difficult.
As the saying goes, the most expensive bed in the world is a hospital bed. There are also medical issues that give them headaches. The double pressure from life will make some middle-aged people physically and mentally exhausted, physically exhausted, and even have some chronic diseases to find the body. Some rural people don't dare to go to the hospital even if they are sick. Because they usually work hard to earn some money, to the hospital to see a doctor, spending money like running water. Although now there is a new rural cooperative, the hospital can give part of the reimbursement, but for some of the major diseases need to do surgery, will make an ordinary rural families struggle.
Consolidating the above situations, the real problem that the rural generation after the 70s must face is the problem of both parents' old age and their children's marriage expenses, as well as their own old age and health care issues that must be considered. These are the major problems in front of the generation after 70s.Besides these, what other situations can you think of?
The post-70s generation in the countryside should be around 50 years old by now, and as the old saying goes, "people spend half their lives after 50". As a typical rural person, what are the difficulties faced? I'd like to share my views with you.
The first challenge is the high cost of children. People around 50 years old, children who study well should still be in college, and some are in graduate school or doctorate. We all know that nowadays the cost of university education is very high, tuition fees, living expenses, daily expenses, as a decent rural people, almost all of the year's income is invested in the children's body, it is really difficult to bear. And some of the general learning may now be to the age of employment, the next to find a partner, to talk about marriage, and nowadays young people, the conditions for marriage is relatively high, at least in the city to have a building, to have four-wheeled car, and also have no debt. This is also a big problem and a very serious challenge for the Benben farmers. For the sake of his children's growth and future, and to provide for their education, he has to bear it no matter how hard it is. For the sake of their children's marriage to be successful and happy, parents will certainly also smash pots and pans to meet their children's requirements. So this is also a problem in front of the farmers.