In this post 80s will soon run four years of age, after 80 become the main force of the second child, after a survey of nearly 50.52% of the post 80s women consider another child, of course, more women of advanced age, but also hope that through the IVF to have another child.
But if you choose to have a second child, you will have to choose not to have one. And I don't want to have one. The reason is very simple, itself is a daughter slave, a baby daughter is enough, want to give her all the love; In addition, daughter-in-law born daughter when encountered difficult labor, I do not want to experience once again that kind of mood. And my parents are more supportive of me, which is my biggest relief!
As a college student from the countryside, and his wife from the campus to the blossoming of love, after graduation to work hard in the city. After having a daughter, a down payment on a house, a family of three, plain worldly happiness.
But every time I take my wife and daughter back to my hometown in the countryside, I'm always urged by enthusiastic friends and neighbors to give birth to a second child, for reasons that sound as if it's not possible to have a child:
1, your family has only one son, and if you don't give birth to a grandson, the flame will be broken, and the family name will be broken;
2, although it is said that daughters are also the same, but only a son can be in the genealogy;
3, the maiden The piece will grow up to be married off, no one will be around to be cold in the future;
4, give your daughter a companion, a younger brother to grow up to protect her, have a younger brother to have a lifetime of the mother's family;
5, without a son your family can not hold up their heads in the village;
6, without a son to inherit the family property, your whole life is considered to be a waste of struggle, all the son-in-law to earn the money;
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There are too many reasons, each of which sounds righteous and cannot be argued with,
What would you do if you were in such a situation?
I only know that the daughter is also the crystallization of love, are now the times, genealogy and who cares? I don't know what I would do if I had a family name of Aisin Gioro, but I don't know what I would do. I'm not sure if you're a good person, but I'm a good person, and I'm a good person! What is called a lifetime of struggle for nothing, their own efforts to run a good small family, to raise a good daughter, let her life bloom, this is the meaning.
We such a child of rural origin, although working in the city, but always wandering in the city and the countryside, by the old and new ideas back and forth, I have decided that in the future, will be less to take my daughter back to the countryside, do not want her to feel different in such an atmosphere, I really do not like some people in front of the daughter said what "running fast, if a son is good! "I don't know what to say, but I think it's a good idea.
In the end, their own day is their own life, in addition to their parents, other people's views count for nothing, to live a good day is the right way. We don't want to interfere with other people's choices, but we don't want to be the first to ask for a son, do we?