One day after dinner, I led my daughter to go home near the Haiqin Square to play. The square can be a lot of people, there are square dancing, there are also dancing, rollerblading, trampoline, there are all kinds of cars to play, there is a carousel, there is a high inflatable Naughty Castle, especially lively. But these play daughter did not choose, just crazy running to play for a while, play enough. Look at the daughter a little feel no fun, we did not bring other toys, how to do it?
I was holding a piece of paper in my hand, an advertising flyer that someone had just given me. Suddenly I have an idea, will paper ball into a paper ball. "Baby, let's throw sandbags!" So I smashed the paper ball at my daughter, who giggled, ducked and ran away, "Haha, missed." Then she picks it up again and smashes it at me, and I duck and run, pick it up again, and smash it again. In this way, I smashed at her, she smashed at me, we ran, dodged, jumped, screamed, laughed and fooled around ...... Played a whole night, the body ran out of sweat, gills are laughing wooden, a few days to block in the heart of the depression swept away, feel especially free, especially happy.
It's not just a matter of being happy, it's a matter of being happy.
That night, my daughter fell asleep with a sweet smile on her face. I looked at my daughter's face in her sleep and fell into a deep thought.
A child is so simple and easy to be happy. She doesn't get upset about the past or anxious about the future, she lives in the moment. They laugh when they're happy, cry when they're unhappy, and are happy again soon afterward. They can find something to make them happy anytime, anywhere, and that happy thing may be a very small, very simple thing.
On the contrary, what about us? As we grow older, we grow up and stop being simple. Complicated, slowly seems to have lost the ability to be happy. All day long either for yesterday's things annoying, or for tomorrow's things anxiety, the moment to live not at all easy.
Over the past few days, work and life have made me anxious, marriage, family, the elderly, children are all things, think of a head of two big, worried. I feel so much pressure, like a big stone in my heart, it's just going to collapse, but I can't solve any problems. Carrying too much pressure, sometimes hinder the step forward. Properly reduce the burden, you can go faster and farther.
After a night of playing with my kids, I suddenly felt relaxed and decompressed, as if I had released everything.
Yes! Learn from your child, keep a childish innocence, keep it simple, and it will be easy to be happy. Don't think so much, don't think about the past, don't fear the future, simple, enjoy the moment. Happy every day, the future will not be for today and regret.