Many parents hope that their children can always accompany their side, but children grow up after the end is to leave their own mom and dad, even if they can always be at home, but will also have their own family.
For children always have to go to find their own future this thing, parents also need to choose to accept, after all, everyone has a dream, parents have children is not to tie them to their side.
After the child grows up into what, no one can predict, some children grow up because of their own efforts and opportunities to become a very good people, but this time they will also be working away from their parents more and more far, and there are children have been in the home, "gnawing".
For those who chew the old child, we will express "contempt", but some parents feel that children occasionally chew the old is also very good.
Wang Da Niang has been more than 60 years old, the body is still very good, every day will go to the home near the square dance, their two children are outside, from childhood to the children are very good, which also makes Liu Da Niang feel very proud.
But now look at other people's children either around their parents, or often go home, Liu Daniang is very envious, Liu Daniang hard to raise their children, they are really good, and also bought themselves a new house, but away from home is becoming more and more distant.
The son works in a foreign company in a big city and earns millions of dollars a year. Whether it's getting married or having a baby, basically nothing makes Wang Da Niang worry, and originally the son wanted to take Wang Da Niang to his home.
However, when the grandson was one year old, Wang Da Niang went home, where there is no comfort in his own home, the son is also a year to the end of the year to come back to a time, Wang Da Niang also has a daughter, married directly to the foreign country, the number of times to come back to the more than a handful of times.
The two children are indeed very good, but can not always accompany the side of Wang Da Niang, For Wang Da Niang's voice, there are a lot of parents agree, those who gnawed on the old man's child parents can accept, after all, the biggest wish of the parents is that their children can be accompanied by their own side.
Many old people really want their children ordinary? Because of practical reasons, after all, want to make more money, you need to pay the time and effort, many are struggling children to go home more and more rarely as a result.
"Gnawing" generally indicates that the child's ability is not great, they do not have much heart to struggle, relying on the parents of the old capital to buy a house and a car, in fact, this is the status quo of the majority of families, for "gnawing" this matter, everyone's views are also The same is true for all of us.
Nowadays, many children want to rely on their own efforts to buy a house to buy a car, may not eat and drink their whole life to buy a house, so the parents of the subsidy does not mean that the child is "chewing the old".
*Parents can't limit the development of their children
For many parents, they always want their children to develop according to their imagination, but never consider the feelings of the children, the parents of the children's love is sometimes very easy to use the wrong way, the love should be in the children's point of view to their good, not self-righteousness. "The first thing you need to do is to be able to see your child's face and to be able to see his or her heart and soul.
*Children "nibble" also need to be able to parents
Many parents have high expectations of their children, but children, if they are really successful, they instead began to want to accompany them, and parents know that accompanied by the child and the work of the child can not be both, and the child is the same.
Even if the child to chew the old also need to parents have the ability, parents should not be so-called "double standard" on the child, know how to let go is the biggest love.
* The child in the parents of the "spoiled", never grow up
The real "nibble" of the child will not give parents to bring stability, I hope that parents do not in order to let the child The first thing you need to do is to make sure that your children are not spoiling them by staying close to you.
Today's topic: How do you feel about children not being able to be with you when they grow up?
The question of the day.