Is it good not to live with the elderly after marriage?

Nowadays, a lot of sensible old people, from the bottom of their hearts, do not want to live with their sons and daughters-in-law, and they want to enjoy the leisure and comfort. The ones who are like her family are really a minority. But every family has its own problems. Since the elderly want to live with their children, they must have their own considerations, such as the fear of loneliness. The reason why more and more people, after marriage, are not willing to live with the elderly, in fact, there are only a few reasons, really has nothing to do with filial piety or not filial piety. When the ideas and concepts of the two appear contradictory, try to communicate well.

Don't want the old man too hard, their own independent portal can reduce the burden of parents

In fact, many young people after marriage, want to live alone, is not want to bother parents. After all, if you continue to live with them, your parents will be busy all day long with household chores, such as cooking for them three times a day, mopping up the floor, washing clothes and buying groceries. If you work late, your parents will have to worry about you. In short, as long as the parents' eyes, they will still treat themselves as a child to take care of.

But after living apart, the elderly just need to take care of themselves. They don't have to work so hard to do the housework, and they don't have to go grocery shopping and cooking every day on time. If you want to go shopping or dance occasionally, you don't have to worry about having no one at home when you get home.