My cousin went on a blind date yesterday, and before he went, my aunt instructed him to make sure to look at the girl's height. Some girls are not good, know that the rural people looking for objects care about height, their own 1.5 meters tall, but also non-wearing 12 cm high heels. Some men are inexperienced ah, do not know the heel in the end how high, and there is the kind of added height boots, it is difficult to see in the end is the internal height, or real leg length. He took lessons from me, the key I really do not have much experience, can only be a bunch of Baidu documents, let him familiarize themselves with. In order to make sure that the foolproof not to look away, I told him to find a way to let the woman take off the shoes.
So my brother ate yesterday, took the female shopping mall, walked to buy shoes store, said the shoes are quite beautiful, let the female try, the female should be the real height, very generous off the shoes, intend to bend over to try the shoes have not yet bent over, my cousin stood straight behind the girl, with a hand from the top of the girl's head crossed, than Qi in their own people there, but also said to himself: you grow not low ah, to
And then the girl's head was crossed from the girl's head.
Then the girl to the matchmaker's feedback is, think my cousin is smart, humor, okay, can deal with.
(2) Now the matchmaking is no longer suitable for the old movie.
A pair of shoes only how much money ah, small county mall, a pair of shoes is only a hundred to ten dollars it, since after dinner is willing to take the girl to go shopping, that is more than likely to have a good feeling about her, send a pair of shoes is not worth anything, both to get the height data, but also to the girl to leave a good feeling, a double whammy ah.
Now people dating the most annoying dinner and a movie, before about the girl, is 1 pm about meeting, we ate lunch alone, and then sent home before 5 p.m., dinner is also avoided, not cheap meal money, feel unnecessary, as long as to take each other out to play the experience is good, there is no need to everything, leave a little space is good to see a movie is also the most interesting, the film quality is general, and then do not communicate, enhance the interaction and experience.
(C) The three main stages of blind dates, take notes.
The core point of the blind date: in a comfortable and relaxed environment, the two sides have had online chat, full communication and initial contact.
It's important to know in advance AND chat online, to sift through the minefield straight away. The following is the focus of the content, please take notes -
1, the introducer stage:
Sieve out the marriage history, work, height, education, family situation and other hardware mutually unsatisfactory object. And truthfully inform yourself of the relevant circumstances, do not think that meeting can change each other / their own standards. If there is this charm, not to have to matchmaking. And it will be very easy to be frustrated, but also a waste of rare time off.
2, online chatting stage:
The most important thing at this stage is to have a basic understanding of each other, to understand each other's interests, horoscopes, job content and other irrelevant things. The first thing you need to do is to get a good picture of the person you're talking to, but you can look at your friends.
This stage focuses on understanding each other's sincerity (whether it is forced out), each other's emotional quotient (whether it is a Puxin man or Puxin woman, like to brag or not), and whether there is any sign of suppressing you. But do not have to over-amplify, really is a normal person on the line, mainly in the meeting stage.
3, meet the stage:
Look at talk, look at character, look at the evaluation of others, look at the perception of the family, look at consumerism.
(D) young people dating "should not be static", the elderly dating "should not be static".
A blind date is a process in which two unfamiliar creatures, guarded and wary, slowly approach each other, and the most common embarrassment is the cold shoulder.
Two people sitting in a restaurant silly, eating and chatting, a ride without a ride, both sides are racking their brains to find a topic of conversation, the brain is running at high speed, a meal to eat down more than the war are tired, accidentally cold, cold three or five times on the end.
1, the playground: very relaxed and fun, more suitable for young people dating. In this process, you can see that the other side will not take care of people, in the drawbridge effect, but also very easy to rub sparks.
2, the test and he went shopping, this shopping is not for you to pay money to buy things for him, but you can see through the shopping to see a person's level of consumption, will be able to live and will not be able to live, look at things are not the same, the point of view is also not the same, a person who has the ability to earn money, look at the high-priced items can also be understood, if a person is obviously very low income, but has been on the luxury goods so much love! If a person obviously has a very low income, but still has been so fond of luxury goods, then we have to think about whether you can afford him in the future.
3, but also according to the two hobbies, to *** with the creation of a joyful atmosphere, such as all like sports, you can from time to time to go to the gym, running, playing badminton, and so on, you can also go to the companion to look at the book, temperament, cultivation, these small hobbies can be seen in a person's physical fitness, but also found a person's precipitation.
4, dating, the first meeting, about each other to the super complex.
Feeling satisfied, we said, "Let's find a place to sit down", find a cafe or milk tea store and other places to talk, this depends on the age and style, mature and stable, to go to the cafe; lively and lovely to go to the milk tea store, but now a lot of milk tea store area is too small, instead of letting a person feel constricted, it is best to find an area larger. The best thing to do is to find a larger area.
Feeling dissatisfied, said "let's walk", in fact, is to turn around, and then find an excuse to go, so what money do not have to spend, anyway, you are not satisfied with each other, as for the other side is not to feel how you, it does not matter to you.
So, the first meeting, you simply do not have to think about what to do, the other side to you are not interested in, the more you think, the other side instead of the more disgusting.
(E) which two things to pay attention to:
1, is to make each other happy, she is happy you happy, the people happy do not get into the sole pleasure.
Once a big brother listened to my advice, the weekend pulling a blind date straight to the amusement park, the beginning of the great, he was busy before and after the care is in place, the girl played very happy, the two had a little brow, and then played, this grandson played himself high, a twist of the head, the person lost ......
Some of the Men are born to be a heavenly lone star, a lifetime is only suitable for playing single player, not suitable for playing the two-player combination game of marriage.
2, proper control of your hormones, do not look at the girl happy, you take the opportunity to touch people small hand.
The first time you succeeded in getting someone to come out to play, it is like the Red Army has just gone down to Jinggang Mountain, and has not yet begun the long march, don't rush to launch an attack on the Kuomintang, or else you will end up in a difficult situation.
In short, the "rise and fall" in the "rise to be quiet (dinner), Cheng to move (play), turn to black (movie theater grove) ...... last to be together.
There is an old comrade, the body times great, others kindly introduced him to an old partner, the first meeting, the old man is still honestly stable as a dog, the second time directly pull the old lady to go to the square dance, Kucha gave a twisted waist, shelved home to lie down for half a year ...... This is a heavenly lone star, ghosts do not dare to recruit him.