Just like this neighbor, her children were brought up by grandma before kindergarten. She must have had a lot of discomfort when she was first brought back. Not only do children cry all day and are not close to their parents, but even parents become anxious and impatient when dealing with their children crying.
If parents want to be close to their children and calm down when dealing with their children's splashing and rolling, they should bring them from an early age. Why?
Look at 3 years old, and then look at 7 years old. What do you mean? 3-6 years old, also known as "wet cement period", is the best stage for children's character formation. Children will learn anything they can. Teach him courtesy, honesty and shame, and the child will learn courtesy; Teach him that money is paramount, and children will become selfish forces; Teach him perseverance, and the child will become patient ... So, at this stage, the company of parents is particularly important, because only you know what kind of person your child wants to grow up to be. Give it to the elderly, even if you try your best, the children you raise will inevitably deviate from your goals.
When a child is born, he will feel familiar and safe with the people who take care of him every day, so the baby is generally good in the arms of acquaintances. Scientific research shows that children can't remember before the age of 3, but you have to admit that even if they can't remember, they prefer to be with people who often take care of themselves. This is an important reason why children should take care of themselves from an early age. Let children have a sense of familiarity and security with their parents, which is why they will be attached to you!
In addition, have any mothers found that if their children are not around them since childhood, once they are taken back, there is nothing they can do about their crying. This is normal. You missed the most important years of your child, and naturally you don't know anything about the child's temperament, so you certainly don't know much about the child's crying and laughing. What's more, if you take care of your children when they are young, you will control their eating, dressing and defecating, you will make them cry, and experience and patience will gradually form. Any splashing and rolling of children is a small case in your eyes!
Our parents have worked hard to raise us, and we should enjoy our old age in peace. Isn't it nice to play chess with old friends, dance square dance with old sisters, often travel to places with good air, and meet children for a reunion dinner several times a week? Bring your own cubs! Parents are old and should be allowed to enjoy themselves. Children are all brought by themselves. When they are tired again, they will be very happy to see their children walking slowly on the road that my husband and I expect.