Do you believe in fate? Have you ever been curious about fate?
Have you ever been puzzled why some people are born rich and some are born poor; some are born cheerful and confident, and some are negative and inferior; why some are born with what others are born with.
Many things have extremes, but thankfully, most of us are ordinary people.
While there are not many innate advantages, but at least you can still change your fate through the hard work of later life. At this point, some people may say, these reasons have long been familiar with, why they are still not good at this life.
In fact, the reason itself is innocent, out of the problem, is the human thinking. Because it is easy to fall into the wrong mode of thinking, such as other people's academic or career success, they can not help but sigh other people's life can be really good, too lucky.
Is good luck important? Of course it is important, and the ancients had a lot to say about the timing of the day and the people. Sima Qian, the author of the Records of the Grand Historian, once said, "The wise man is in the right place at the right time, and the right time is not to be lost"; Shi Nai-an, the author of "Water Margin", also said, "When you take it, don't take it, and don't regret it afterward". The hero is good at seizing opportunities and grasping the situation.
So the question is, you always think that you are not in the right time, the bad years, are you the wise man in the mouth of Sima Qian, or is it a big hero under the current situation? Not so great light, please next time don't be so pretentious complaining about their own bad timing okay. In order for fate to fulfill you, first of all, at least you have to be a person with heart. So sometimes it's not fate that determines people, it's the short-sighted thoughts that victimize them.
02
Some people say they do not believe in anything, only believe in the arrangement of fate, calculating their own destiny five years from now, ten years from now and how it will be, the vision is full of but no practical action, a bit of fantasy is right, the wrong is all the possibilities are rooted in the passionate blood boiling, but the actual action to the clouds outside the future.
Truly wait until five years after ten years, look back at the dream, against the reality, in addition to the age of growth, everything is still the same. At this time their mouths are full of excuses again, muttering that successful people are destined to be destiny, perhaps they are destined to be a failure, it is all about fate.
There are countless people like this around me, I'm not sure about the others, I just know that from the day I met them, they were full of complaints when things went wrong, full of whining, and never dealt with life's problems head on. They stayed in their comfort zone, just waiting for the day when fate would favor them. The fact that they are still mediocre seems to be unexpected, but it makes sense.
From another point of view, believe in fate, is a choice, because a lot of things tend to "not according to the set of cards", always in the non-stop constantly changing. With the golden key born rich second generation is not necessarily in one day suddenly from the "rich" to "debt", the beauty of the star scenery married into the family not long after the explosion of domestic violence was abandoned the news.
Who's destiny is not so solidified only version, it will change, at any time there may be unexpected situations. Every wrong personal choice can rewrite the course of future development.
Philosopher Heraclitus once said, "You can't step into the same river twice". He visualized the idea of "change", that when one enters the river for the second time, what one encounters is not the same as the original current. Heraclitus summarized in very simple terms the idea that everything in the world is in motion and changing.
03
Everything in the life is in a state of flow and nothing is permanent.
I remember when I was a kid, I spent a lot of time chasing stars. A small bedroom filled with idol posters, ears filled with the idol's magnetic voice, every time I learned of his negative news, will be so lost, inside for his secret prayers ......
Now that I've grown up, a lot of artists gradually faded away from the original light, I can't help but sigh, the original they will be withdrawn from the stage, they will be scandalous, they will be the first time in the history of the world, they will be the first time in the history of the world, and the second time in the history of the world. They also have scum, they will also encounter the trough, take off the bright crown to return to the usual and even some people to the late years but late in life ...... The rise and fall of people and things, all are unpredictable, who says they are destined to be the evergreen tree accompanied by a lifetime of good fortune? This is not necessarily the case.
The destiny of the turnover will always prompt people to constantly change, many things also need to man-made operation and guard. There is a couple, the two people's wealth is very different, the two families of the elderly are also against, but the thorns of the obstacles have not broken up this pair of lovers. They fell in love, knew each other sweetly, and suffered together **** until they were married and had children, and it was said that they were destined for a lifetime of loving destiny, which they firmly believed.
Snap of the fingers, like water flowing years. A few years past, the standard of living is getting better and better, who expected that the feelings are drifting away. After the two were officially divorced due to emotional problems, some people came forward to claim that the two had met another bad luck star in their lives, which led to the end of their divorce.
These unpredictable destiny statement I do not understand which is true or false, I only know that there is no destiny in the world predestined feelings, everything is in the people, the two people only empty believe that the so-called destiny of fate, not to take feelings seriously, ignore the management of the marriage, sooner or later there will be problems.
04
Years, in the silent change. It will eventually rampantly take away the time, dilute the past, and erode everything that can be materialized. What is too perfect is just imagination; what is too fancy is just a script. The earth is running, people are growing, and one of the best possibilities is that as the length of life expands, the width gradually comes to the fore. Please believe in the power of time, let go of the past and grasp the present.
The only controllable factor in this world is yourself. Either you recognize your own mediocrity, or you make every effort to live up to your own destiny. Fate is the gift of God, luck is their own efforts to change, you can believe in fate, but it is just a beginning, good or bad, you still need to go to the action, there is nothing that can give a person a guaranteed future, whether it's your job or your loved ones.
Believing in fate and not accepting it is an attitude and a choice. It is precisely because we comply with the fate of God, so more sensible treatment of each time the fate of the choice of the fork in the road. Whether it is love, love or career wealth, rather than waiting for good fortune to come, we should believe in our own efforts and their own.
Destiny never restricts a person's ending, limiting the person itself is always the rat's eye and the negative without intention. In human life, nothing is predestined, you have to believe in the power of success, in the face of the unknown and unpredictable situation, perhaps you should believe in the most only your own!