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Parents are children's first teachers, and families are children's first schools. What kind of person can children become in the future, and what is the important role of family education? As parents, we can deeply understand these truths, but when it comes to some links, it is not the same thing. Children are bound to make mistakes. If we reprimand them like adults, he will be afraid. After all, he is a child or a minor. This is to give him some tolerance, which may bring him a relaxed heart, but it will make him calm down and reflect on what he did wrong.
Once, when he came home from school, he saw a toy store not far from the school gate, so he went in with several classmates and saw a toy that was very interesting, but he left disappointed because the price was too high. I was still thinking about the toy when I got home. I was afraid to tell our parents that we wouldn't agree, so I had a bad motive and bought this toy privately with 12 yuan at home. Then we found out and interrogated him. At first, he was afraid to admit it, and he couldn't stand our hard questioning. Finally, he told the truth. Our parents know that this is an unforgivable mistake, and we must never condone it and never let him form this bad habit. But we know that we can't insist on education. Although children are young, they also have self-esteem, their own personality and feelings, and they need dignity as much as their parents. So I reasoned with him and let him know what a bad behavior it is, what consequences it will have if it is not banned for a long time, and what harm it will do to the family and society. At last he understood, and we were relieved.
Since then, he has never made such a mistake. Therefore, children's growth is a socialized process, and consciously letting them hear positive affirmation and negative criticism is very beneficial to their healthy growth. Every child is eager for the attention of his parents from an early age. We often try our best to meet children's material requirements, but ignore their psychological needs. They all thought they did well in the exam, took him to KFC, went to the park and bought some toys to satisfy him and reward him, but it was not enough. Doing so can only achieve negative effects, but will enhance the child's vanity. As parents, we deeply understand that we should not only understand their psychological activities, but also strive to meet their psychological requirements. Only in this way can we continuously enrich children's spiritual world and lead children to be self-respecting, self-confident, self-reliant and self-reliant.
"Sow an action, reap a habit, sow a habit, reap a character, sow a character and reap a destiny." Good behavior habits can determine a person's fate, so it is particularly important. In fact, children are the echo of their parents. You are rough, but you are soft. Children are more like delicate flowers, and need their parents to give them sunshine, air and rain. Parents' care, consideration and understanding are the sunshine and rain for their healthy growth. Counseling children is a great project. Our parents should try their best to cooperate with the school to do this work well. There is only one purpose, hoping that children can grow up healthily, become good students with all-round development in morality, intelligence and physique, and become useful people to society in the future.
Reflections on the education of children's healthy growth 2 1. Growth is more important than success.
Children who can bear failure are the most successful.
Parents nowadays have a strange phenomenon. They do everything for their children, thinking that their task is to learn. I organized a summer camp, and a very young child looked at boiled eggs in a daze. I said, "Don't you like it?" "Love to eat!" "Then why don't you eat?" "This egg looks different from ours!" "What do your eggs look like?" "Our eggs are white and soft. This egg is too hard to bite! " Later, when asked, I learned that the child had never seen his family cooking and peeling eggs since he was a child. They were all cut into four pieces and eaten in front of him, so don't always presuppose the result, pay attention to the growth process and take a good road. The child who can't afford to lose is the most successful child!
2. Experience is more important than ranking.
Overindulgence will make children incompetent.
It is said that children nowadays have poor psychological endurance and can't stand setbacks. This is because their parents didn't give them the opportunity to exercise, and they didn't give them the opportunity to bear failure and frustration. "Boys are afraid to learn badly, and girls are afraid of being victimized", but accidental injuries can happen every day, and over-protection brings children's incompetence. Can tolerate children and make home the last harbor for children; You can understand him, let him find warmth and security, and show him the way when he is hesitant and has no way out instead of giving him a wall.
3. Giving is more important than giving.
Give your child a chance to love you.
Giving only love to children will make them irresponsible and will only ask for it. A laid-off woman worker knew that her children liked shrimp and gritted her teeth to buy it from the market. Seeing the child eating with relish, she was reluctant to move chopsticks. Seeing that the child had finished eating, her mother couldn't help wanting to have a taste. "Don't move!" /kloc-the 0/3-year-old child said, "that's mine." Excessive doting and infinite connivance cultivate children's selfishness, leaving children with only themselves and no one else in their hearts.
Dialogue is more important than confrontation.
Don't compete with children.
Adolescent children love to "oppose" their parents, and parents in their forties and fifties also love to "compete" with their children. Both sides stand on their own side, imposing their views on each other, only wanting to change others, not themselves. For example, when it comes to puppy love, many parents simply and rudely obstruct and forcibly suppress it.
Adolescent children are in a period when their sense of adulthood is rapidly enhanced, but their psychology is immature. They want to be respected by adults and lack basic trust in their parents. Therefore, their rebellious mentality is very strong, and their hearts are only open to their peers. At this time, they need spiritual care and understanding.
5. Incentives are more important than accusations.
Appreciate the child and tell him "you can do it"
Blindly expressing dissatisfaction with children and demanding perfection will bring negative information to children and make them timid, depressed and even world-weary.
Children grow up in an environment of "you can't do it" and gradually internalize "you can't do it" into "I can't do it", so they really can't do it. In fact, it doesn't matter whether they are talented or not. What matters is whether they are interested and confident. Don't look at others, boldly cheer for your children, I believe your children will create miracles!