1, take the children out to play
In fact, when a baby is one to three years old, it is the initial stage of sound physical and mental development. Once the baby has a good behavioral response, the mother can take the baby out to play as a reward. On the one hand, it can let the baby see more about the external environment, on the other hand, it can also let the baby know that as long as he behaves well, his mother will take him out to play.
2. Play games with him
When the baby is still young, it needs the meticulous care and care of the mother. If the baby can cooperate and behave well in daily life, the mother can accompany the baby to play his favorite games or dolls at an appropriate time, and can also cultivate parent-child feelings.
Step 3 kiss the baby
Most children like to be hugged and kissed. Through skin kissing, babies can learn more about their parents' love. Therefore, if the baby behaves well in daily life, the mother can kiss the baby and praise him at an appropriate time. For example: "Baby, your mother feels very happy when you brush your teeth before going to bed". Then, mother can kiss him or hug him. I believe the baby will be very happy and will remember to brush his teeth before going to bed in the future.
Step 4 tell him a story
When the baby behaves well, the mother can create a happy and lively atmosphere, tell the baby stories and tell the baby patiently, so that he can know whether his behavior is good or bad, right or wrong.
For example: "Baby, that's very kind of you. Mom just saw you eat all the rice. Mom will tell you a story later. "
5. Intimate back and hug
According to the research of western psychologists, if the early "attachment relationship" between mother and baby develops well, it will have a far-reaching impact on the future personality development of the baby. Therefore, mothers should always use body language to express their love for their babies. When the baby behaves well, the mother can give the baby a close hug, because the baby can grow in love through the skin.
6. Dress up for your baby
When a baby boy is young, if he has good behavior and disciplinary reaction, parents can give encouragement in many extra ways, while the mother of a baby girl can give encouragement in one more way: for example, "Hui Hui, mom asked you to put socks in the bucket yesterday, so don't throw them around. Mom is glad that you remember to put them in the bucket instead of throwing them around". Then, the mother can take out the decorations bought for the baby in advance and help the baby dress up beautifully. I believe the baby will also like it very much.
7. Material encouragement
Most children like to receive gifts. When they receive their beloved gifts, they are always very happy. Therefore, parents may sometimes use material encouragement as a way to directly reward their babies for correct behavior.
8. Moderately meet his needs.
When the baby's behavior in daily life conforms to the mother's life rules, parents can meet the baby's requirements appropriately according to the situation. For example, the mother stipulates that the baby goes to bed at 9 o'clock every night, and sometimes the baby may not be able to do it. However, if one day, when the child can sleep on time by self-discipline, the mother can meet his needs in other ways the next day, such as taking him to eat his favorite food or visiting him.
9. Allow children to do what they like.
Parents can allow children to choose what they want to do when their behavior and words and deeds are appropriate. For example, if children don't cry all day today, listen to adults, do what they should do, or play quietly, parents can let their children do what they like at the right time. For example, watching children's programs on TV, or teaching videos suitable for children to meet their own needs, knowing that they will be allowed by their parents to do what they want and like because of their proper behavior. In the long run, the baby can establish a fixed and correct behavior pattern. In addition, when the baby is doing what he likes to do, he is also cultivating interest.
10, to stimulate children's sense of honor.
When a child goes to kindergarten, the teacher thinks that the baby behaves well, and sometimes he will stamp the child with a "good baby" to cultivate the child's sense of honor. Similarly, at home, parents can also prepare a small book of life conventions for their babies in this way. As long as the baby has good performance, the mother can put a good baby seal on it as a symbolic encouragement to encourage the baby.