Having correct self-awareness is the primary standard of mental health.
1, a strong sense of self is a good thing. Goethe has a famous saying: whoever is a dance academy will accomplish nothing; Whoever can't master himself will always be a slave!
2. Too much self-awareness is often a bad thing. Life cannot be self-righteous, narcissistic, arrogant, willful, romantic and selfish.
3, self-awareness is too strong to change the method:
(1) Introduction of Chinese and foreign famous sayings. China proverb: "A prime minister can hold a boat in his stomach." French writer Hugo famously said, "The ocean is the widest in the world, the sky is wider than the ocean, and the human mind is wider than the sky."
(2) Chinese and foreign celebrities follow suit. Find more biographies of famous people and see how they deal with interpersonal relationships.
③ Ability practice test method. Seize the opportunity of work and see if you have real skills;
Yes, don't be complacent, others may do better than us;
No, there is no need to give up on ourselves. Through down-to-earth struggle, we may do better than others.