Chapter 1: Love Planning Book
I. Preface:
After entering the university hall, with the psychological and physical development and maturity, college students naturally yearn for and attach importance to love. Love is undoubtedly one of the most concerned topics for college students. Today's college students' love is no longer "still hiding half a face behind the guitar in front of us". It's fascinating, touching the students' heartstrings and making people look forward to it. According to statistics, the current college students' love is younger and the number is on the rise. People begin to fall in love in the first grade, which is not an isolated phenomenon. Some students even fall in love as soon as they enter school.
However, the problem of love is only one of the most puzzling problems for students. For example: Can college love last? How to choose between love and bread? Once in love, many college students are often not good at controlling their emotions, let them indulge at will, lack rational control ability, rely too much on the object of love, and suffer a little twists and turns. Once love is frustrated, it will be out of control and unable to extricate itself, which will have a serious impact on learning.
Second, the theme of the class meeting
How to establish a correct view of love
Third, the purpose of the class meeting 1. Let students know and understand what love is like and understand the truth.
2. Let students learn how to talk about love reasonably, so as to learn love correctly and maintain love for a longer time.
3. I hope that students will set up long-term ideals, so that students will have less difficulties and setbacks in their later lives and improve their psychological endurance.
4. The university should establish a correct view of love, so that the love of the university can be the best memory of our youth and let our youth have no regrets.
Fourth, the preparation of class meeting.
1, class cadres hold a meeting to discuss how to carry out the class meeting, how to hold it, what preparations are made, and how to carry out the class meeting more effectively.
2, class cadres should do a good job of publicity, widely collect everyone's ideas, and the class committee meeting to determine the program content and form settings.
3. Publicize this activity through various channels, fully mobilize the enthusiasm of students to participate, and make contributions to the program production of the psychological class meeting.
4. Organize technicians to make PPT and review it.
5. Send the life committee to buy the items needed for the class meeting, and the class committee will cooperate to decorate the classroom.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) Moderator of class meeting: Liao, Zhan Songyou
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Seven. Class meeting place: Training Room of Automotive Engineering Department
Eight, class meeting process
1, the host announced the beginning of the class meeting, and announced the purpose and background of the class meeting, and announced the theme of the class meeting to guide the students into the theme class meeting.
2. Let's watch ppt. what is love ? what is love ? Tell the definition of love, so that students can understand and know love.
3. Briefly describe love through a movie. Love in college embodies the definition of love. What kind of love is this?
4. Is the psychological problem of falling in love correct? What kind of psychology is college students in love now? What should I pay attention to? Don't fall in love blindly.
5. What happens when you are in love? How to face it?
6. Tell the common problems in love and ask what kind of results your love should achieve.
7. Have a debate to discuss the pros and cons of falling in love.
The debate is divided into two factions, one is affirmative and the other is negative.
8. Finally, the host described a new definition of love.
Nine. abstract
Finally, the shopping guide gives the final opinion to guide us how to do it in our future life and study.
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Chapter two: the investigation scheme of college students' love view
First of all, the questions raised
Since ancient times, love has been a sensitive and attractive theme in life. How many people are brave and fearless; How many people are heartbroken and miserable. It is manna and a poison that penetrates the intestines; It is the pillar of thorns and thorns, and it is the guide who sees through the world of mortals. It leads people to get to know each other and stay together for life, and it also leads people to hate each other and live forever. The desolation of the Shen Garden, the magnificence of the butterfly, the laughter of the West Chamber and the tears of the Red Chamber have touched the heartstrings of many people and inspired the thinking of many generations. What do people think of love? College students' physical and mental maturity is the most brilliant and beautiful period of their lives. For them, love is no longer a distant thing. So, how do they view love, and how will they choose the object of love? Nowadays, it is not surprising that couples are in pairs on university campuses. So, how do they view their love and choose the object of love?
Second, the purpose and significance of the study
1. Requirements for completing basic courses.
With the reform and opening up and economic growth, the modern campus is no longer the campus of 1950s and 1960s. It is a common phenomenon for college students to fall in love. Going in and out in pairs and kissing me will not be considered abnormal behavior, although love can make people intoxicated and make people work and live better.
On the other hand, immature love psychology will also bring some negative effects to love. How college students should treat and pursue love will be a problem that every college student faces. I hope this survey can help us college students to establish a correct view of love.
Third, investigation and research methods
Due to the interference of time, manpower and other factors, I surveyed people all over the country through online questionnaires. At the same time, for the accuracy of the data, I used two online questionnaire systems to investigate and analyze the data fed back by the system.
Fourth, design the questionnaire (* * * in duplicate)
First copy: see attached table 1.
Second copy: See Schedule 2.
An analysis of the survey results of verbs (abbreviation of verb)
Through the two questionnaires, it is not difficult to see that with the growth of age, the expansion of knowledge and the increase of social experience, college students' view of love is gradually becoming mature and realistic. Freshman love is full of fantasy and expectation, and many things are idealized. In their sophomore year, they began to feel that love also has a bitter taste, but it still lacks maturity. Rational thinking is more emotional. After entering junior year, junior students' love concept is more mature.
(A), college students love view and existing problems
1, psychological characteristics of college students' love.
(1) Sexual curiosity.
(2) The possessive psychology of longing for success.
(3) Dependence psychology.
(4) Psychological compensation.
(5) Psychology of Dance Academy.
As a special social group, college students' future life will be turbulent, and their graduation distribution and employment are still unknown. Even if you get true love, you may be far apart after graduation. Therefore, it is natural for college students to have a love mentality of "not seeking eternity, only caring about what they once had".
2. The problems of contemporary college students' love view.
Due to the immaturity of sexual psychology, college students also have inappropriate views on love in love. Showing ideological fluctuation, exclusiveness, impulsiveness and fantasy; At the same time, college students are also influenced by the external environment.
(1) Love because of emptiness.
(2) The motive of mate selection is impure.
(3) curiosity is heavy.
(4) not paying attention to the consequences of love.
(5) Moral weakening.
(6) Improper positioning of love and career.
(7) Material supremacy.
(2) Establish a reasonable concept of love.
In view of the psychological characteristics and existing problems of college students' love, this paper puts forward the following countermeasures and suggestions to correctly guide college students to establish a correct and reasonable view of love.
1, fully realize that love is bound by laws and regulations.
2. Have a lofty position on love.
3. Strengthen the sense of moral responsibility in the process of love.
4. Correctly handle the relationship between study and love.
5. Learn to recognize love and pay attention to protect yourself.
With the arrival of sexual psychology and physiology, sexual yearning period and sexual consciousness period, contemporary college students have started their own love overture in a campus full of beautiful fantasies without pressure from all sides. However, due to the lack of life experience and life experience, the outlook on life and values are not yet mature. Therefore, while falling in love, it is easy to have such problems and ideas. Affect the emotional development of two people, and even cause painful events.
In short, while being influenced by external factors and surrounding environment, contemporary college students must cultivate their own moral and legal norms and establish a correct view of love, which will help college students to gradually mature and improve their outlook on life and values; It is helpful for college students to deal with the relationship between their studies and love; It is helpful to cultivate college students' healthy psychological environment and reduce unnecessary losses; It is helpful for college students to seek their true love and bloom a happy flower of love.
You: A college love plan book.
Introduction: Some people say that the university town is the cradle of love. This statement is correct. Whenever night falls, in the spacious and bright classroom of the university town, in the quiet and elegant library, and on the quiet path of the shrub lawn, couples are performing a youthful love fairy tale.
Second, the theme of the activity: "Should college students fall in love?"
Activity background: As I have just entered the university for half a year, I already have a certain understanding of everything, and falling in love is a problem that must be faced now. Many students finally got rid of their parents' nagging and school control, thinking that they are adults, so they want to have their own love in college.
Fourth, the significance of the activity: let the students clearly understand the advantages and disadvantages of falling in love, and have a clear attitude and a correct view of love.
Verb (abbreviation of verb) Activity purpose: Our activity is to let everyone have a full understanding and consideration of falling in love, so that college life really leaves no regrets.
Activity time of intransitive verbs:
Seven. Venue: classroom 1306
Eight. Organizer: 195 Class Youth League Branch
Nine. Organizer:
First organizer: Xindong Lin.
Main organizer: Sun Meiliang
Li, Zhang Xinyu,,,, full of dragonfly.
X. Participants: all members of Class 20 14 195.
XI。 Process arrangement:
1. Pre-activity: The monitor proposed this activity to everyone at the class meeting to encourage the university to actively participate, and the dormitory leaders also actively promoted it to the people in their dormitory and encouraged everyone to recommend it.
2. Activity flow: Choose 8 players from the pros and cons, each of whom is one of their own.
Debates 2, 3 and 4. Debate on this topic. On the day of the debate, the publicity committee will be in charge of the blackboard newspaper of this activity, and select a student as the moderator, the head of the dormitory as the judge of this competition, and the rest of the students as the audience. Conduct activities according to the regular debate mode.
3. Late activity: The monitor made a concluding speech.
Twelve. Budget: None
Thirteen. Preventive measures: None.
College of Resources and Environment, North China University of Water Resources and Hydropower 195 Bantuan Branch
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Chapter four: Love class meeting planning book
Activity theme:
I. Background of the event
Goethe, a famous German poet, once said, "Which charming young man in the world is not good at love? Which girl in the world is not good at falling in love with spring? " However, our love psychology is both mature and immature.
Now everyone has basically adapted to college life and made plans for their college life. As for the emotional problem, I think it is also a part of everyone's life plan, which needs everyone to practice. This activity is also designed with everyone's interests in mind.
There is no doubt that college students fall in love. However, after falling in love, it is followed by ideological rejection and fluctuation, which makes lovers quarrel endlessly, be trapped by love, give up their studies and regret for life; Fighting for love, wyndell dichinson incident on campus. There was a rift in their relationship, and the vulnerable teenagers chose to commit suicide to escape the relationship that was about to break down. All these have stained the pure and loyal love of college students with a gray stroke, which has caused the society to question: Should college students fall in love during their studies? Which is more important in the choice between love and study?
Second, the purpose, significance and objectives of the activity
I hope that through this activity, everyone can find their own activity area, give themselves more confidence and courage in college life, and make their college life more substantial and meaningful. Establish a correct view of love (love view refers to a person's knowledge and understanding of love, attitude, views and behavioral tendencies towards love. A person's view of love largely depends on his or her outlook on life, world outlook and values. I hope this activity can bring you happiness and know its importance, feasibility and effectiveness.
Three. resource demand
Venue: xxx classroom in Building X.
Activity time: 20 1 1, 7: 30-9: 30 pm, x, x.
Event host: xxx
Class meeting requirements: participants arrive at the class meeting place on time and put their true feelings into the class meeting.
Actively cooperate with the host to carry out this class meeting smoothly.
Prize: small gift
Communication equipment: mobile phones, computers and other necessary communication equipment.
Four. activity
Activity form: 1. Narrative style
2. Discussion style
3. Debate style
Specific process:
1. Moderator's speech: Introduce the theme and significance of the class meeting, introduce the activities carried out by the class meeting and make an opening speech.
2. Organize the class to watch the relevant videos of college students' love, and then the students will take the initiative to express their views and feelings on stage.
3. Please ask five students to go on stage to explain their feelings when they are boyfriend and girlfriend, and talk about their views and suggestions on love.
4. Discuss the love problems of several college students:
A. What are the advantages and disadvantages of being in love?
B.do you want to fall in love? Why?
C. how should I adjust my mood when I am lovelorn?
5. Carry out the activity of "carrying people back" in the classroom, and draw out ten students (five boys and five girls) in the class. Boys are walking around the classroom with girls on their backs (there are obstacles). The boys are blindfolded and the girls lead the way. Complete the task in the shortest time, and the group with the least obstacles wins (with a small prize). This activity can cultivate tacit understanding among students to a certain extent.
6. The host made a final concluding speech and presented awards.
Summary: Generally speaking, contemporary college students can correctly understand and grasp love, and can correctly handle the relationship between study, love and attitude towards life, as well as some problems in love, such as misunderstanding and lovelorn between lovers. College students should take a cautious attitude towards love and avoid improper handling. In love, we should objectively seek advantages and avoid disadvantages.
Possible problems and solutions of verbs (abbreviation of verb)
Forecast question:
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3. Some students can't arrive at the meeting on time, so they have reservations about the theme of the class meeting. The atmosphere of the class meeting is not strong enough and the discipline during the class meeting is not good enough.
Solution:
1. Students who can't be reached by phone should arrive at the class meeting as soon as possible and take leave.
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3. Through videos and games, everyone's enthusiasm is extremely high, and individual activists drive everyone's class cadres to maintain good order and remind students who violate discipline.
Sixth, the details that should be paid attention to in the activity
Love is an ancient and eternal topic, which has always been a beautiful landscape in the university campus. We believe that proper love can promote the learning of both sides, but what we want to say is not to indulge in the river of love too much and not to get lost in love again. After all, college life is a golden period for us to learn professional skills and a key stage to decide our future direction. We can't abandon all happiness for a moment's happiness. For love, we should always keep a normal heart, and we should not make ourselves, each other, family and society sad for the sake of temporary unhappiness.
Seven. budget
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Eight. The person in charge of the activity and the main participants
Planner: Lin Yu
Person in charge: Lin Yu
Participants: the whole class, instructors, teachers and counselors and other special guests.
Attachment: Several types of college students' love types (for everyone to know themselves)
Flying with Me: This kind of students have a mature personality, have a correct view of love, can guide love with reason, and correctly handle the relationship between love and learning, affection and love, and love and sex.
Affordable life: after entering the university, the graduation destination is the most concerned topic for college students. Love is indisputably related to the conditions of graduation, and at the same time, family conditions and mutual development prospects are also the essential issues of their respective concern.
Fashion comparison type: In some colleges and universities, love has become a fashion. When many students around have friends of the opposite sex, some male students fall in love in a hurry to avoid looking incompetent, and some female students fall in love to prove their charm.
Playmate consumption type: these students are not full of energy, have fewer same-sex friends, and often feel lonely and bored. In order to make up for the communication with friends of the opposite sex, love at this time has become a spiritual need at close range.
Pursuit of Romanticism: This kind of students are full of emotions, romantic love has a strong attraction to them, and the pursuit of romantic love and snooping psychology are getting stronger and stronger.
Utilitarianism and secularity: take the other party's family background, family property, status, reputation, place, professional social skills, training services, etc. as the standard. As a prerequisite for love.
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