How can I make myself sexy?

Scholar: A junior high school boy in Taiyuan described the sexy girl in his heart like this: The most important thing for her is long shawl, black hair, big eyes and gentle voice. But in the mind of a boy in China University of Political Science and Law, sexy girls are all "extremely short" hair, light makeup, lipstick, breasts, meat stockings, and coquettish when they walk. In his eyes, long hair can't be sexy, because she is too tender, without the coldness and wildness of a sexy woman. In the eyes of a middle-aged teacher at Peking University who asked not to be named, sex appeal is first and foremost a calm character. She will not panic because of sudden exposure, nor will she be afraid of unexpected flattery or even provocation from strange men, nor will she be entangled because of being abandoned. In addition, she should have a flexible and plump figure, and her voice should be "rough and slightly hoarse". Finally, he specially emphasized the sexiness of the voice, thinking that only the broken sound is more vicissitudes, and there is an itch to catch the heart. This interests me very much, because it is far from the description of "soft voice" by the junior high school student in Taiyuan. A senior student at Nanjing Normal University said that "alert women are sexy". A slow-witted woman can make people feel dull and boring. She must know humor, and she can even create some humor for men, but she can't create too much humor, otherwise she will feel depressed and make men nervous. "I appreciate women's uneasiness, and I like women to pour out their worries, which makes her very sexy and will also enhance men's awareness of saving the world." The student believes that a sexy woman must have a little bitterness, and too much joy will drive away these characteristics. Worker: "Make up heavily" is the first sentence of a young worker in Changxindian, Beijing. I immediately asked if "heavy makeup" meant "heavy makeup". The answer is yes, that is, the face should be white, the lipstick should be mended and the cheeks should be red. I immediately asked, do northeast women like to sketch themselves like this? The answer is yes, because such women are more like a different kind and more attractive. Workers seem to focus all their attention on appearance, thinking that they must see women's bodies directly to feel sexy. A pretentious woman in Luoyang thinks that women are sexy only when they are completely naked. He said, "It's ok to get dressed, but you must squint and look at people from the corner of your eye!" " "Look at people with misty eyes" is very popular among workers. In fact, other types of men are also easily attracted by hazy eyes, but workers emphasize "malice" in eyes, while others emphasize "charm". Artist category: most people mistakenly think that artists are the most difficult category to serve, which may be true for other aspects of women, but for women's sexiness, artists' taste is not too high. "If a man doesn't want to marry a woman and she doesn't make things difficult for him, he will always think she is sexy, otherwise, he will find that this woman has many problems," said a musician in Beijing. "I don't like women who care too much about themselves. Women like that are not sexy or wordy. " A host who lives in Painter Village, Tongzhou District, Beijing said that a sexy woman doesn't have to be smart, as long as she can paint and dress, which is more like a plaything and easy to be manipulated by the audience. "plaything theory" is the same tune that artists talk about women's sexiness. Most of them like women who are at the mercy of others, and think that this acceptance psychology will constitute sexy. "You can imagine what she might do under your mobilization," the painter definitely added, "and the independent will will destroy this sexy." Goethe said in "Motto Poetry" that a wife has a good husband, which can be seen from her face. But for artists, it is precisely women with good husbands who are most likely to get bored with them. In their eyes, sexy women must live in dissatisfaction with existing feelings. They have no strong sense of independence, but they have no sense of belonging. Precocious women and mature women are full of status in their hearts. They are good at accepting love that they never dreamed of, and they will not take it seriously, because they will not think deeply about this love. Artists are very disgusted with girls who mistakenly think that kissing their boyfriends will have children. A young writer in Beijing's description of female sexuality is very representative. He said that whether a woman is sexy or not, the smoothness of facial contours and lines is the key. She doesn't have to worry that her breasts are too small, because half of the artistic geniuses will mobilize their compassion because of this, and feel that this small deficiency actually constitutes a strange sexy. Like many artists, he thinks that women who wear formal dresses can't attract interest. He also thinks that wearing miniskirts is sexy, but he prefers women who wear high heels without stockings. Farmers and soldiers classify soldiers and farmers as one because most of the soldiers in China come from rural areas, so soldiers and farmers are very close in ideology. For example, soldiers think that shy women are sexy, and farmers also think that the eyes that are glanced at and then avoided in a hurry are sexy. A soldier in Shijiazhuang said in a letter to me: "Liu Xiaoqing is very sexy because she knows how to fight, and the woman who fights is very sexy." . The young farmer who happened to come from southern Hebei to work in a bookstore in Tongzhou District of Beijing also thought that struggle was sexy, so he fell in love with the Japanese A Xin he had seen as a child. Soldiers and migrant workers think that women in spring are sexy, which is probably the only understanding they have with others. In all cities, women's new clothes are the first to capture the spring. Because watching the dead branches rustling all winter, men are often more attracted by the beautiful scenery. The smell of spring makes a man can't tell whether a woman exudes fragrance or season, so all the women he sees and smells make him feel excited. At this time, the girls' calves in stockings suddenly dangled in the streets and lanes. This seasonal and popular attraction is often unbearable for soldiers and farmers. It can be said that being sexy that others think is charming is a terrible thing for soldiers and farmers. It is novel and makes them feel that the world is going downhill. Middle-aged businessman-two married men have dinner, and they both agree to talk about their motives for proposing marriage. The public relations director of a pharmaceutical company in the south first said: "I saw her wearing a thin skirt in summer and her beautiful legs were looming, so I proposed to her." The manager of the American accounting company in China went on to say, "I'm just the opposite of you. My wife always likes to wear long skirts. I want to know what her legs look like, so I proposed to her! " For the former, sex appeal is a partial and reasonable exposure; For the latter, sexy is because the secret has not been revealed. In fact, all the above descriptions indirectly illustrate the fact that women don't need to know what men like. As long as you act according to your own intentions, you will meet a man who likes your actions. Generally speaking, "the secret has not been uncovered" is the reason for sex appeal, and "part of it has not been uncovered" is more exciting than "all of it has not been uncovered". Although the uncovered part has the nature of inviting you to the urn, it is clear at a glance, but the uncovered part is the key temptation. Real businessmen are all over 30 years old, and because they have slept with women for many years, they are no longer excited about women's nudity, so women who like to wear some simple clothes, preferably black, such as black clothes and black shoes and socks. Women don't know that 75% of businessmen don't think black hair is sexy. They prefer light brown because black hair is too pure, but brown hair is full of wildness. In the same way, most businessmen don't like that the skin outside a woman's face is white, but think that light brown is sexier. All businessmen think that women smoking is a symbol of resisting orthodoxy and accepting temptation easily, so this strong sexiness can easily attract men's favor. All businessmen agree that women who look at their hips when walking are sexy and enchanting, but the disadvantage is that they are too easy to be tempted. All businessmen hate platform shoes, which is popular in recent years, which may surprise fashionable women. 90% businessmen think that women with small faces and sharp facial lines are very sexy. Her appearance is not as soft and impeccable as a standard beauty, but she looks clear and distinct. An art dealer who 14 graduated from China Police University said: "Sexiness only belongs to women with imperfect facial structure, but a certain degree of defects have formed her unforgettable impression at first sight! However, her figure must be impeccable, especially the chest and buttocks should be full. " The lines are obvious and exciting. This is the sexiness of women. Sexy is actually a very subjective word. Everyone has his own interpretation. I prefer Yang Caini, whose waist is thick and round. Different men have different standards for women's sexiness. The so-called "sexy" I understand means that it can arouse the appreciation desire of the opposite sex and make it have a certain impulse, which is the embodiment of "femininity". Therefore, if you want to be "sexy", you must first figure out what kind of man you want to admire. Shy women are sexy. They can push if they want. A woman in a miniskirt is sexy and her legs are looming. Women with soft voices are sexy, which means they accept you. The so-called "sexy" means that they can arouse the appreciation desire of the opposite sex and make them have some kind of impulse. Generally speaking, the reason why secrets are not revealed is sexy, some of which are more exciting than all. Although the uncovered part has the nature of inviting you to the urn, it is already there. Sexy is part of a reasonable exposure. Today's latest sexy images have also broken through the single images such as Barbie doll and bad girl DrewBmymore. , only focus on the body or the so-called sexyashell. Models that are now considered sexy have covered images that are rarely exposed, even pure and healthy, such as WinonaRyder, AndieMacDowell, GeenaDavis, JuliaRoberts, and even the refreshing and not-so-girly cranberry lead singer DoloresO'Rierdan. After reading the following sexy new ideas, you will know how to explore, release and express your potential sexy charm from the inside out, from head to toe. DmRsGcoOnh 1, self-touching: the new sexy index of the Millennium has transcended the problems of vision, figure or exposure, and is a kind of "full sensory" expression and enjoyment. A smiling face like a flower, a pair of innocent or enchanting eyes (Julia Roberts or Cameron Diaz style), a melancholy or trance-like attitude of indulging in thinking or imagination, and even a semi-coquettish and semi-soft tone all appear more restrained and sexy. Among them, the French are a deeply sexy and ignorant people. French is recognized as the sexiest language in the world, and the French are good at using body language. Such as throwing a phoenix eye, raising eyebrows, pouting, etc. when helpless or stunned. In all kinds of body language, self-touching is the most charming little gesture. Inadvertently biting your fingers, holding your cheeks, pulling your hair back inadvertently, holding your face gently with your hands, shrugging your shoulders when you are helpless, stroking your shoulders or neck with your hands crossed, and putting your hands into your sweater are all charming little moves. JulietteLewis, who has played Scare of the Cape and natural born killers, is the best at this. No wonder she is regarded as a hot new sexy actress by many directors. KtBT7aX22O 2, add a little exoticism: Exoticism may not only attract westerners, but many people will be attracted by exotic, wild and mysterious exotic atmosphere. The management method can be to wear a little national costume and keep a waist-high long hair (make it a little messy and look better). The best way to cultivate exoticism is to travel more and spend more time wandering. WGGQJSY0U52M5VZY5WS3, Sensibility and Sexiness: Sensibility and Sensibility will always complement each other. A sensitive and gentle woman is more delicate and infectious in thinking, intonation and gestures. CmrscvxSFW 4。 Add a little drunkenness: A little drunkenness not only adds a blush to the cheeks, but also adds hazy beauty and softness to the eyes, and can also release the sensual and open beauty that may be locked in the daytime and in the office. But remember not to drink too much fire. EKd9zfxMR2 5。 Wearing accessories in sexy areas: women have many sexy areas, such as ankles, ear beads, shoulders, back neck, arms and throat lock. Therefore, tying a small rope and anklet at the ankle, hanging a big earring or a small circle from the ear bead, wearing an armband or a small tattoo on the arm, and wearing a delicate choker or necklace at the throat lock position can greatly increase the sexy index of women. NzlXxDtelS 6。 Wear high-heeled sandals: 7. Wear jeans: 8. Cultivate a wild heart: 9. Can play and jump: 10. Make good use of eye movements: 1 1. Whisper in your ear: 12. Immersed in the boundless ocean of thoughts: 13. Let the child live in the bottom of my heart: 15, keep a sexy mole: if you have a small mole on your face, please don't take it off quickly. In appropriate positions, such as ear beads, near the lips (especially the right side of the upper lip) and near the corners of the eyes, small moles can be beauty moles! Strangely, sexy people, such as supermodel Cindy Crawford and famous writer Lin Yanni, all have small moles in these parts, which makes them more attractive. Eqgawnsusm 16. Spontaneous behavior: Unless you were born in Leng Yan, you can't be square or lofty, otherwise, you can't or won't show your true personality, and you'll be fine. A woman who holds a lukewarm attitude in everything and restricts her emotions everywhere is probably very sexy. Dare to love and hate, smile happily, cry if you want, full of passion and enthusiasm for life. Emotional) women, their hearts are like an inverted flame. And they themselves are a flame, even if they don't make people want to burn themselves, they will make people itch. 17, add a little red to your body: a well-matched black can add a little mysterious charm, but a little red can also make people feel that you are an adventurous, challenging and passionate person. As the writer Tao Jie said, a beautiful woman wearing lipstick in public, especially a wet red lipstick, may suddenly draw a kind of amorous feelings, which makes men crazy. 18, gently spray some fragrance: if there is body odor, please don't remove it quickly. Strangely, a certain degree of body odor often constitutes a masculine or feminine taste, which makes people feel sexy. If you don't have the scent of sweat or femininity, you can also choose some scents specially designed to arouse other people's thoughts or Chun Qing. 19, sexual attitude is open: No woman looks sexy, but if people tell some erotic jokes in casual occasions, she has no imagination, even keeps a straight face, is dull in bed, never takes the initiative and is unwilling to try new things. Aren't they lifelike Barbie dolls? ! 20. Keep mysterious: According to the research of sexual psychology, women have some abstract elements besides important sexual characteristics such as self-confidence, humor, romance, excitement and adventure, among which mystery is another sexy element. In the history of movies, stars called sexy, such as Marlene Dietrich and Bridget Bardot, all have unfathomable mysterious eyes. In front of the man you like, when you tell your personal life story and express your personal feelings, please remember not to tell your feelings completely. Just say 70%, leave 30% for the other party to ponder and imagine, and leave a charm is also a clever way to play mystery! In short, don't completely satisfy each other's curiosity. 2 1. Show Laziness in Time: Why did China's Tang and Song Dynasties be considered by historians to have produced the sexiest beauty like Yang Guifei? Women who lived in that prosperous era, in addition to the exquisite and elegant dress at that time, were also addicted to a kind of slow beauty, and there was always an attractive laziness on their faces and limbs. 22. Exposing artistic conception: It is a subtle art to achieve sexiness through exposure. One great principle is faintly visible, and the other is non-selective. If you have a beautiful navel, a small waist, bony shoulders and a slender neck, you might as well show it off. If not, it is still the same sentence: "It is better to hide other people's mistakes than to provide them." There is no precise definition of sexiness, and individuals have different evaluation criteria. When the other person gives you a strong visual impact and brings you some kind of impulse, it should be what you call sexy ~ ~ Feel it with your vision ~ ~ ●◎ There are many kinds of sexy women, here refers to the parts. For example, some women's mouths are sexy enough to make people want to kiss at first sight; Some women's eyes are particularly sexy, which makes people soft to the bone at first sight; Some women's buttocks are particularly sexy, and men have many ideas at first glance; Some women are slim and sexy, and men want to hug them at first sight; Some women's breasts are very sexy, which makes men feel caressed (big ones are not necessarily sexy). Different people have different opinions. The woman behind a successful man is the sexiest sexy woman: the lady in the hall, the first-class chef in the kitchen and the slut in the bedroom. Conditions for a sexy woman like me: * * Congenital conditions: First, a beautiful figure is the first requirement. * * * Acquired conditions: 1, gentle and kind 2, considerate and obedient 3, understanding life 4, elegant cultivation 5, loyal husband 6, filial piety to the elderly is the sexiest woman! ! ! Temperament, inner beauty, not sexy with developed buttocks and big breasts. Screen. Width * 0.35) This. Width = screen. Width * 0.40 "> A sexy woman should be S-shaped, with a straight chest, not too big, a flat abdomen around 38, slightly upturned hips, tight legs, delicate and fair skin, and a particularly elegant walk. More importantly, women with beautiful curly hair are the most feminine. What kind of woman is a good woman? The "good" of a good woman is too numerous to mention. So how to appreciate a good woman? She can be exposed from two aspects: physiological state and behavior pattern. Good woman's hair: having black and bright hair, including a woman who is good at dyeing hair, not only makes people feel pleasing to the eye, but also conveys the message that this woman has a smooth qi and blood and a stable temper. Girls with long hair are very attractive to men, which makes sense. If she can keep her long hair supple and untroubled, it shows that she knows how to deal with her emotions: after her hair splits and breaks the golden lion, her emotions will definitely be unstable. Can she still be called a good woman? Women's skin is good: if a woman's skin is good, her facial skin is smooth or even crystal clear (skin color is not limited), and there are no spots (freckles are not limited), it means that her liver and kidney are in good condition and her metabolism is normal. Good skin often brings good mood. I know how to appreciate myself and am good at adjusting my emotions. Of course, I am also happy to appreciate others and get along well with others. Good woman's pelvis: according to Japanese doctors' research, pelvis is the source of sexual happiness between beds! It shows that important organs of women, such as ovaries and uterus, are wrapped in pelvis, which contains the essence of female hormones. However, the pelvis is not like hair and skin, and anyone can visit and compare it. To understand the pelvis, you can understand it from the way you walk. Walking posture reflects pelvic health, pelvis is straight, and walking naturally swings; Women who look like octopus or hairy crabs make men avoid them! A good woman's lip color: pink with cherry color is amazing! If a woman's lips are white and blue, her blood is often not smooth. If her lips are too black, it means that her liver is not good. Of course, women with poor qi and blood and poor liver function have a bad temper. How can you have a good look without a good mood? A good woman's elbow: Please take a good look at a woman's elbow when you have a chance. This part is the most difficult to maintain in the whole body. If the elbow is well maintained, such a woman is careful and sensitive. It is said that a woman who is good at maintaining her elbows is good at housekeeping. Good woman's teeth: The ancients described "teeth as shells" and praised their neatness and beauty. From the dental point of view, the health of teeth will affect the digestive system, and a rotten tooth is the beginning of all diseases. Advise men to stay away from the "beauty of disease" of "avoiding cold, heat and acid". Of course, if you are Jia Baoyu, it is another matter. Judging a woman from her smile: a good woman's smile is the best cosmetic and the best detector! A bright smile can be practiced the day after tomorrow, but a casual smile often reveals a woman's hidden nature without reservation. When a woman laughs, it is actually the most relaxed moment of her defense; A really attractive woman, a smile is enough to dump a lot of things. Judging a woman's nature from her voice: A woman with a loud voice is outspoken, unable to hide her worries, and her temper fluctuates greatly. However, "gentle talk" is the best among good women! Good women are good at reminding men with their ears, knowing that words to remind men should be said in their ears, and love words should be said face to face. A woman who knows the art of communication will never go crazy on the other end of the phone, let alone embarrass you in front of friends. A good woman has style, style. Men all know that the best woman in history is a woman with the characteristics of "innocent, romantic, pure and selfless girl and mature, sexy and charming woman". The most representative is Marilyn Monroe, who is the best among people. The reason why Monroe makes men and women in the world forget for a moment is that she can play these two seemingly impossible roles to the extreme. A good woman's graceful gait should be dynamic, like flowing water, and at the same time extremely natural, as smooth as breathing. However, in our life, many women don't pay attention to their walking posture. However, what kind of gait is neither artificial nor elegant? Observing whether a woman walks gracefully depends on her posture and pace. The so-called step position refers to where you should land after you step on the ground. When we walk, the lines we step on should be basically one line, not two parallel lines. If you walk two lines, your hips will not swing naturally, and your waist will become stiff, which is what most people call "ducks walk goose steps." Step refers to the distance between your feet every step you take. The general standard of pace is that after stepping on the ground, the heel is exactly equal to the length of your foot. This standard is closely related to the height of women. Tall women naturally have big steps, while petite women have small steps. It is worth noting that the measured foot length refers to the total length when the shoes are put on, not the fixed barefoot length. So when you wear flat shoes, your stride will be bigger, and when you wear high heels, your stride will be smaller. To be a perfect woman, in addition to paying attention to posture and pace, you should also keep your upper body upright, chin retracted, eyes straight, chest out, abdomen closed and feet parallel when walking. Turn your feet around your waist, but don't swing your waist. Knees and ankles should be elastic, otherwise they will lose their sense of rhythm and appear stiff all over. After stepping out of the foot, your arms should swing with it, but you should relax naturally. Concession and breathing are coordinated, regular and rhythmic. When wearing dresses, long skirts and cheongsam, don't stride, it's not elegant. When wearing pants, the pace can be enlarged and the performance is lively. In fact, every woman can be a good woman if you want. Answering people's supplementary sexiness is not exposure. Sexy is a kind of elegance and charm. Sexy women should be elegant and casual, while sexy men must be mature, humorous and clean ... Sexiness should be the charm that a person exudes when expressing his body and emotions, and it is often revealed through some casual actions or expressions, not some superficial and superficial things, not to mention the sexiness exposed in summer. In my opinion, sexy women should be elegant and casual, while sexy men must be healthy, humorous and clean. As a model, I think sexy must be very emotional and reminiscent of beauty. There is a kind of sexy, but at first glance she is not beautiful, but she has a lot of contact, and her knowledge, charm and demeanor will make you think it is sexy. As for sexy men, I think they must be handsome, mature, steady and humorous. Besides being visually sexy, I think a person's voice can also be sexy. For example, Ding Jianhua, the voice actor, has always found his voice sexy since I was a child. Sexiness is not exposure, nor affectation, but the light emitted by a person with a healthy image and personality. Sexy can be very advanced and healthy, and it doesn't have to be exposed. In my opinion, sexiness is a feeling, a person's innate taste, and clothes can't decorate it. A person can't be sexy without temperament, thinness, penetration and exposure. I think there are many kinds of sexiness, such as a mature temperament, as small as a person's shoulders and collarbone, which can be very sexy; Many women think Maggie Cheung is sexy, but many men don't like her because she is too thin. Let's take Cherie Chung, Carina Lau, Maggie Cheung, Rosamund Kwan, Zhang Aijia and Chen Chong as examples. They are all sexy, but they are very different. As for sexy men, I think Jiang Wen is one of them. He is sexy when he smiles. Also, I think some men with crow's feet are sexy, such as Chow Yun Fat. Sexy men must have a strong sense of professionalism. Of course, Brad Pitt's unruly image in some plays is also sexy. Sexiness is something from the inside out, just like some girls are not outstanding, but they also make people feel sexy. Sexy women must be kind, considerate, gentle and generous, enterprising and always give everyone a sense of freshness. If it's just beautiful, it's ok for a day or two, and it's easy to get tired in a month or two. Therefore, I think Maggie Cheung with elegant femininity is sexier than Ye Zimei. In my opinion, a sexy man must have a successful career and work hard. If he doesn't even have a job, no matter how handsome he is, he will not be considered sexy. Sexiness is related to a person's experience, words and deeds, ways of doing things and many other aspects, and must be naturally emitted from the inside out. It's too simple to judge only by clothes. For example, a girl of 16 years old may not be sexy even if she wears a skirt with high slits and a dress with low breasts. Sexy men must be mature, thoughtful and love to tidy themselves up. Sloppy men can never be sexy.