Don't think about relying on anyone, no matter who you trust most or your relatives, don't think about relying on them. On your own! People can't help you all your life. The sooner you become independent, the less painful it will be. Lest you completely depend on each other, something inexplicable will happen as a result, which will make you suddenly unable to adapt and will probably ruin yourself in the end. The more you depend on others, the greater the risk. It is always unreliable to put a life-saving rope on others. Might as well put it in your own hands.
Girls, in particular, are prone to dependence. When they go to the society, they always want to find someone to rely on, consciously or unconsciously. This is fatal. Life is long. We can't predict what will happen in the future. Usually, the people you rely on more are those who hit you harder.
Don't count on your parents, they are doing you harm by obeying everything! The more help, the greater the harm. As you know, parents need you to be filial when they are old. If you are independent early, you will suffer less, so as not to let your parents look for you when you are old. At that time, there will be old people and young people. If you can't take care of yourself, let alone talk about something else.
Second, suffer some setbacks and suffer more.
Don't expect everything to be what you want. Parents at home will follow you, give you money to cook for you and even find you a job. It will be different when you come out. Nobody will care about you. Even lovers are lovers, they may think of you when they are together. Who cares about you after separation? Thank God if I hadn't cursed you and hurt you.
Now you can turn over after some setbacks, and it doesn't matter if you suffer a little. In fact, when you are young, the more you eat, the better. Don't be overwhelmed by some setbacks when you are old. The older you get, the less you can eat setbacks. A little setback makes it difficult for you to turn over. So learn some lessons now, and things will be much less in the future.
Remember, youth is capital! What are you afraid of? Remember the lesson and don't do it again. Learn early and reap early.
Third, everything should not be "easy"!
Don't promise easily, don't believe easily, don't give or get easily!
Promising easily will make others not believe you. There is nothing to believe in this world. You say it so easily. Do you think people will believe you?
Fourth, don't be too sharp, let alone too sophisticated and smooth! Don't be too sophisticated! Everyone in society will be afraid of such people.
Fifth, don't get involved in right and wrong.
Don't stop talking! When you first arrive at the treasure land, everything will happen and people will always ask you. It's always bad for you to bury yourself in your work and ignore others. Ask you and answer truthfully. What can I talk to them about, whether it's work or life? Ask others more, even if you already know the answer, communicate with others more, and don't be a lone ranger.
Seven, the society is complex, don't be afraid!